ripleymonroe

Wow, thanks everyone for the great feedback! I can see why lesbian clients would hire an SP, especially if they're attracted to very feminine women and they don't feel like getting embroiled in a fling with a straight girl. ;)

Yeah, I get offers if I make long eye contact and smile. ;) But if I'm with a male friend, then it's assumed we're a couple (which I understand).

Oh, and although it can be hard to go to clubs alone as a woman, I have had quite a few free dances from curious dancers (with me telling them what I like from a dance.. which may be different from what most men like). So, from that perspective, it's been good education for them and a bonus for me. :) Some of them weren't even bi, they just wanted to make sure they could please a female client in the CR in the future. But I imagine that for escorting, you'd at least have to be bi so you can enjoy the experience too!

Hehe, yeah, I always go to the CR when I visit a club. It's funny because when I visit a new club, nobody ever approaches me for a dance. I usually have to strike up a conversation with a dancer and make it clear that I'm a lesbian. But from there, sometimes I have a huge target on my head because some dancers have never danced for a woman and are really curious to try it out! :P I kind of figured that it would be rare that women hire escorts - I know of a couple of them who have talked about it but never followed through. The way I see it, I think women should feel just as comfortable as men do to just go ahead and do it... especially older women who lead busy lives.

I go to strip clubs on a regular basis because I enjoy the experience. And I'm also starting out as a director in the porn industry so observing women dancing will help me learn more about the art of teasing and sensuality. But, as many of you know, it can be tough going to clubs here on your own or with other women. And even the dancers acknowledge that it's such a rare experience to dance for women. Personally, I don't know if I would hire the services of an SP (maybe it's the fantasy of the strip club that I enjoy more? not sure..). But I am so curious to ask the SP here if you sometimes get lesbian clients? I've seen a few posts here from couples but I've yet to read a thread from another lesbian. And what about massage providers? Do you get female clients too? Would love your feedback on this! Thanks. :)

This is awesome. :) As a woman who frequents strip clubs, I can't believe the amount of music I'm discovering - will have to build a playlist from all of these recommendations. So far, one of the sexiest dances I've seen onstage is when a woman danced to the song Sour Times by Portishead. Brilliant. Additional Comments: Hey everyone, I've taken the liberty of creating a playlist on Grooveshark with most of the music you've recommended. I've also added 6 or 7 songs that I really like, some of which I've requested for private dances... and yes, some are in Spanish or French (I love hearing more unique songs in the clubs). Also, no one mentioned Enigma's album "Seven Lives".. there are some very sensual songs in there. Click this link and hit "Play All". Enjoy! http://grooveshark.com/playlist/Dancing+Music/57548553 Additional Comments: Hey everyone, I've taken the liberty of creating a playlist on Grooveshark with most of the music you've recommended. I've also added 6 or 7 songs that I really like, some of which I've requested for private dances... and yes, some are in Spanish or French (I love hearing more unique songs in the clubs). Also, no one mentioned Enigma's album "Seven Lives".. there are some very sensual songs in there. Click this link and hit "Play All". Enjoy! http://grooveshark.com/playlist/Dancing+Music/57548553 Additional Comments: Sorry for the double posting there... weird browser issues. :P

Here are my thoughts about going to a strip club as a woman - most clubs in Ottawa require that you come accompanied with a man... but that rule doesn't really stick if you become a regular. I frequent a couple of clubs in the region and have found that the dancers won't approach you until they know for sure that you're there for them. In my case, I just make eye contact with them and smile. If the woman I'm interested in doesn't approach me, I'll go up to her and strike up a conversation and ask her for a dance. Once you ask one dancer for a dance, it's pretty much a green light for the other dancers to know that you're safe to approach. It really comes down to respect. I'm there to enjoy the experience and they need to make sure that I'm not there to cause trouble. Another good thing to do, if you don't want to have to bring a male friend each time, is to introduce yourself to the manager. Once he gets to know you and sees that you're not there to cause trouble, you will be able to go back on your own or with female friends. I was a VIP at one club at one point (didn't have to pay cover) and I think that more women should come out and enjoy themselves! Just as a side note, I find it interesting that this rule still exists in Ottawa - I've never had a problem going to clubs in Toronto or even Sudbury without a man by my side.