EvaAdore

Hey everyone! Not sure if this is the right place to put this or if this should be in the "Tech Corner" section... I am just wondering if there is any way to change the picture that shows up beside a Recommendation thread? The pic on mine is very old and from when I first started, and I feel like it doesn't portray the kind of service I offer. I would really like to change it, but am unsure how or if I am even able to? Any help on this would be REALLY appreciated. Thank you so much!!! x

Such a wonderful idea, I love the generous spirit of the people in this thread. I wish more people saw these sides of hobbying/being an SP - maybe there wouldn't be so many stereotypes about it. You are all amazing people, and I'm happy to be a part of this board because of people like you :)

Really good sex! Also... ... a hot bath or shower ... herbal tea ... a walk, run or jog ... stay away from computers, the tv, or anything bright (brightness tricks your mind into thinking it's daytime and therefore tries to keep you awake and alert) ... read something super boring or listen to slow music (I like ambient, downtempo and chillout stuff) ... meditate ... breathing exercises

Thanks sweety! xoxox

I've learned... ... that there is no shame in being an SP. ... that I have a responsibility to myself to explore my sexuality. ... that I am not as shy as I once believed ;) ... there are amazing people in this industry- not the stereotype. ... this business is a lot more organized and respectful than I may have once assumed. ... it's a helluva lot of fun!

I don't know RoamingGuy, but his profile made me laugh - "thought term hookers had to do with fishing, boy was I pleasantly surprised :-)" HAHAHA Seems like a great person with a wicked sense of humor!

Can I have your liver, please?

OH I hear you, Ladi! When I first discovered eBay I was SUCH a fiend. You can can some really amazing discounts on things, especially little things like shoe insoles (for uncomfy heels, but why pay $12 when you can pay $2?), leggings, tights, bras, makeup, wigs, false eyelashes, fake nail kits, etc... SO MUCH you can get for a good price, especially if you import from Hong Kong. Makes keeping groomed and put together that much more affordable so we can spend on the other fun stuff! Oh, and also, check out 15dollarstore.com!

I agree with Cub, and would like to expand on that idea a little... I think as with any sort of intimate encounter (physical, emotional or otherwise) there are just people who have really good chemistry. There may not be any specific reason for it, other than you just "mesh" well together and seem to have an unspoken understanding of what the other person needs/wants at any given moment. I know in my personal life, I have had encounters with men who were very attractive, great men but who did absolutely nothing for me in bed. It wasn't that they were "bad", or inexperienced or anything of that, we just didn't "go together" for whatever reason, even if friendship-wise, we did. I have also had one or two encounters with men who may not have had a lot to say, or may not have gotten along AS well in terms of friendship, but who just knew what to do at the exact moment I needed him to do it, and vice versa. We were just very "in tune" with each other. It was almost creepy, as soon as I would get the feeling that I wanted him to do something in particular, he would do it. Very strange! Sometimes it's just THERE. And other times, it's really not.

Speaking from my own standpoint, I have fairly small breasts ("B"s) and they are very sensitive. I have always been fond of a light touch in general (kissing, caressing, licking, etc) but especially on my breasts. I had one ex-boyfriend when I was younger who bit my nipples and I almost sent him flying across the room trying to get him off me. I have found, though, that too much nipple/breast play can cause it to go from pleasurable to painful if the man is not careful, even if he is using a light touch or soft licking/kissing. Myself, I like it best when the man plays with them for a few minutes, then goes somewhere else with his tongue/hands to give them a bit of a break, then comes back to them. It seems to really build tension and anticipation, and allows me to enjoy the sensations for a lot longer. Most likely, communication is key as with any sexual practice, and usually you can tell from her bodily cues anyway. I know myself, when I am into it, I am relaxed, I arch my back, I will pull his face into my breasts, etc. When it starts to hurt I will stop and move my body to try and move his mouth away from my chest. Sometimes I will pull him up to kiss me or something along those lines, or sometimes I just get quieter than usual (I'm pretty vocal).