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    V is for voyeurism
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    Anal Armageddon (Alien) Star Wars I - The Anal Menace (Phantom) Anal Flux (Aeon) Planet Anal (51) X-Men: Anal Class (First)
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    A dirty mind can be a useful thing in one's arsenal. ;) I indulge in the odd impure thought but would say that my leanings tend to be more on the vanilla side. Fantasizing about something dirty or forbidden is fuel that adds to the fire of the pleasures one is reveling in. With some, I might expect to act them out someday with a consenting partner, while with others I can't be sure that I'd ever want to, they are better kept in the realm of the imagination. Fantasies are a healthy aspect of one's sex life, as long as they don't dominate and the boundaries of others are respected. Some of course, are never to be realized, e.g. when it involves abuse of power in a relationship or children who cannot properly give consent. With those caveats in place, let your minds go free!
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    Congrats, Areez. Thanks for the posts and chat room antics and all you do to help keep this place humming. :) FR
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    I had this idea a few days ago to explore aspects of the human voice. What vocal qualities make a voice really sound pleasant or sexy? There are many attributes to the voice, but if asked, we are not always able to say what it is that makes it so. There is of course pitch, volume, speed, and pacing. Other traits are inflection, tightness, resonance, nasality, etc. I'll leave you with some candidates that are generally deemed to have pleasing or sexy voices and you may add your own names and comments. Remember this is of necessity very arbitrary: Angelina Jolie Michelle Pfeiffer Melanie Griffith Marilyn Monroe Lauren Bacall and for the ladies: Clive Owen Robert Plant Placido Domingo Lenny Kravitz Paolo Nutini (obviously to be updated by you!) Let's have some fun with this!
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    Congratulations Old Dog, on a marvelous 6K milestone! You're a pillar of the community and idol to many!
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    inviting? just a LITTLE :P
    Visual poetry! A magnificent rear view! Fabulous photos! Regaining composure... ;)
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    Yes, this is a bug, and until it is fixed, the work-around is that each time you enter the Edit Options screen of the Control Panel, you have to check the box for "Enable images for reputation comments" explicitly and then save your changes (even if you don't actually change any other fields).
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    I'll keep this short and sweet, and please note, I am only speaking for myself (and like-minded people). These comments are general in nature and not addressed to anyone in particular. Above all, be yourself, be genuine, and engaging. Be flirty, lighthearted and go with the flow. Respect his boundaries, also, as he as a gent will most certainly respect yours. Be open to discussion about his wishes, and offer him your undivided attention, kindness, and (if needed) support. You and he are just two people trying their best to negotiate the dance and have a great time. More than likely, he will appreciate you for being real, making him feel welcome, connected, and so incredibly alive again.
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    Congratulations on your millennial milestone, someguy! I look forward to reading more and contributing to your posts. Well done! FR
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    futileresistenz commented on keissy hennessey's gallery image in Converted Albums

    This one is extra hot!
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    dark booty

    futileresistenz commented on MiaBella's gallery image in Converted Albums

    dark booty
    Breakfast of champions ;)
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    Congratulations on 2,000 remarkable posts, Cat. I'm a fan! When I come across one of your posts, I instinctively stop to read it - there's so much to sink one's teeth into! Looking forward to more of your insights and views, your slice of humanity, for a long while to come (hopefully). FR
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    You are new to this experience and it is perfectly normal to feel a bit nervous around any new encounter. This will probably not go away completely even though, over time, you've become a seasoned pro. If you should one day not feel a little anxious, don't delay - take your pulse to see if you're still alive! Hygiene, being well-groomed and dressed, courteous, showing the lady respect, BEING YOURSELF, and getting the business aspect out of the way very early - all these things -- and many others -- can't be stressed enough but have been already beaten to death on various forums here, so look around if you need to. You've most likely done your research on what is available and you contacted this particular one lady because of what she offers, and you are intrigued by her appearance, or because her personality shows through in her ads, her website, or postings and forum interactions. In her communication with you, you have come away with a sense that you will have a good connection once you meet in person. DO try to relax at the start, and DON'T worry about details of the encounter. Be open and honest about how you feel, and just TRUST that she is an expert at making you feel at ease and taking great care of you. Show her all the confidence you can muster up and DON'T be creepy, macho, or over-bearing, but instead be courteous, appreciative of the wonderful gift of the special moments of intimacy that she is sharing with you. BEST for a first encounter is if you let her take control, but if you have specific requests, ALWAYS be respectful in expressing them. And as always, giving her sincere compliments on things you admire and enjoy about her won't go unnoticed. She will likely appreciate you more for these things and that can and likely WILL mean you'll have an even more amazing encounter. All the best to you and any newbies who may come across this post in the months to come. FR
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    A very happy birthday to you, Carrie! Wishing you a wonderful day tomorrow. FR
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    Happy birthday, mate.. hope you're enjoying your day. Keep the great posts coming! FR
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    While I certainly appreciate the lengths that the ladies go to to make themselves look so appealing to the male of the species, I generally notice more of the overall, and only sometimes specifics. I will compliment on small things where I notice them and just a general grateful acknowledgement of how gorgeous she looks, be it the silky, slightly scented, flowing hair, or her stunning outfit that day. I agree that the physical and overall appearance are important, but what I am much more in tune with and take notice of, is her disposition and attitude. What I mean to say is, is she in a good mood, relaxed, and engaging, enthusiastic, talkative? (that's not usually a problem for a lady ;), but there are exceptions) The best providers will go the extra distance to show the gentleman a good time, regardless of whether she has great physical 'at first sight' chemistry with him. Let's face it, we may like to think we're just as hot as Brad Pitt --or the choice hunk of the week-- is, but it's probably not true for many of us. It is the mark of a truly exceptional companion that will (even if she had to take 2 years of acting classes) make her dance partner feel like the million dollar superstud ;-) for the brief time they share with each other. I can live with physical imperfection, but being short-changed in flirtatious advances and playfulness is less appealing than maybe not quite reaching "10" in the looks department. I'd much rather a "7" with a great personality than a "10" that I don't connect with emotionally. I won't expound on the above now, but briefly agree with a previous poster (Jabba, I believe) that those squared-off nails are a turn off to me as well - they look dangerous and aren't all that attractive to me. #JMNSHO. You can bet your panties and briefs I'll be elaborating on a closely related topic elsewhere soon! :D Signing off for now, grateful to be a member of this magnificent community! FR
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    I kept my tweets locked up briefly when I signed up but decided to abandon that. I don't see any reason to revert that decision. As yet. Good point about being circumspect and not giving even the most minor of clues as to one's personal identity - if it is important that you NEVER EVER be outed to the world (and friends, enemies, frenemies). Of course those who really want to read will have access, but they don't frighten me. It took six years for the identity of the woman behind Diary of a Call Girl to be discovered, and she was very web-savvy and really careful with her online presence. Whether that was accidental or planned, I am not sure. Safe tweeting! FR
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    futileresistenz commented on Brynn Winters's gallery image in Converted Albums

    A jaw-dropping beauty!
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    One amazing Goddess!
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    Vic jan 2013 1 web
    Love this!
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