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Unfortunately I won't be able to make either of these dates, but I encourage those interested and able to go, to do so, it was quite a lot of fun last year! FR

Our own sexy Ms. Samantha in the shower (re-posted with permission)

Point taken and maybe I was too critical, maybe not, but I'd like to temper my post by saying it wasn't meant as an attack of any sort. Certainly there is some leeway to mention things not related directly to the original topic. It's to every member's individual taste what crosses the line or not. I agree in principle with both of those points. Now let's move on! :) FR

Well, that one was a clear hijack, but to answer your question about safety: Ladies, it will never be a show-stopper for me (and like-minded gents) for you to express your wish to remain as safe as possible. You do what is comfortable and right for you, and true gentlemen will respect that. Oddly, even without any demand on my part, or even any prior discussion, I've received bbbjs in almost all cases by default. If a lady were to ask if it were o.k. to put on a hat, by all means! I may even have to request it myself one of these days ;) - for comfort and greater peace of mind. The loss of sensation is hardly noticeable, if proper lubrication is in place, and just as enjoyable. FR

Amusing little anecdote! Sorry if I seem to be stating the obvious - it took me a couple of seconds, as well, to realize it... could she have meant to stick it in the bottom of the shopping bag so it isn't noticed? Seems from your reaction that you were looking for, and found another, meaning. ;)

Congratulations, Nicolette! A feat of no small dimensions! You're a true pillar in our community and I for one really enjoy your posts, too. Looking forward to many more in the months (and years ;) ) to come. FR

So sorry to hear the news of your loss, RG. My deepest condolences go to you with a wish that you may celebrate his life and remember the good times. FR

Oops. Sorry for the monkey wrench! ;)

V is for voyeurism

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A dirty mind can be a useful thing in one's arsenal. ;) I indulge in the odd impure thought but would say that my leanings tend to be more on the vanilla side. Fantasizing about something dirty or forbidden is fuel that adds to the fire of the pleasures one is reveling in. With some, I might expect to act them out someday with a consenting partner, while with others I can't be sure that I'd ever want to, they are better kept in the realm of the imagination. Fantasies are a healthy aspect of one's sex life, as long as they don't dominate and the boundaries of others are respected. Some of course, are never to be realized, e.g. when it involves abuse of power in a relationship or children who cannot properly give consent. With those caveats in place, let your minds go free!

Congrats, Areez. Thanks for the posts and chat room antics and all you do to help keep this place humming. :) FR

I had this idea a few days ago to explore aspects of the human voice. What vocal qualities make a voice really sound pleasant or sexy? There are many attributes to the voice, but if asked, we are not always able to say what it is that makes it so. There is of course pitch, volume, speed, and pacing. Other traits are inflection, tightness, resonance, nasality, etc. I'll leave you with some candidates that are generally deemed to have pleasing or sexy voices and you may add your own names and comments. Remember this is of necessity very arbitrary: Angelina Jolie Michelle Pfeiffer Melanie Griffith Marilyn Monroe Lauren Bacall and for the ladies: Clive Owen Robert Plant Placido Domingo Lenny Kravitz Paolo Nutini (obviously to be updated by you!) Let's have some fun with this!

Congratulations Old Dog, on a marvelous 6K milestone! You're a pillar of the community and idol to many!

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