futileresistenz
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Best bums on the planet (or at least on Lyla)
futileresistenz replied to Cato's topic in Fun Threads
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I'll keep this short and sweet, and please note, I am only speaking for myself (and like-minded people). These comments are general in nature and not addressed to anyone in particular. Above all, be yourself, be genuine, and engaging. Be flirty, lighthearted and go with the flow. Respect his boundaries, also, as he as a gent will most certainly respect yours. Be open to discussion about his wishes, and offer him your undivided attention, kindness, and (if needed) support. You and he are just two people trying their best to negotiate the dance and have a great time. More than likely, he will appreciate you for being real, making him feel welcome, connected, and so incredibly alive again.
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My 1000th post :)
futileresistenz replied to someguy's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Congratulations on your millennial milestone, someguy! I look forward to reading more and contributing to your posts. Well done! FR -
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Congratulations on 2,000 remarkable posts, Cat. I'm a fan! When I come across one of your posts, I instinctively stop to read it - there's so much to sink one's teeth into! Looking forward to more of your insights and views, your slice of humanity, for a long while to come (hopefully). FR
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New to this : Any advices?
futileresistenz replied to Beneath69's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
You are new to this experience and it is perfectly normal to feel a bit nervous around any new encounter. This will probably not go away completely even though, over time, you've become a seasoned pro. If you should one day not feel a little anxious, don't delay - take your pulse to see if you're still alive! Hygiene, being well-groomed and dressed, courteous, showing the lady respect, BEING YOURSELF, and getting the business aspect out of the way very early - all these things -- and many others -- can't be stressed enough but have been already beaten to death on various forums here, so look around if you need to. You've most likely done your research on what is available and you contacted this particular one lady because of what she offers, and you are intrigued by her appearance, or because her personality shows through in her ads, her website, or postings and forum interactions. In her communication with you, you have come away with a sense that you will have a good connection once you meet in person. DO try to relax at the start, and DON'T worry about details of the encounter. Be open and honest about how you feel, and just TRUST that she is an expert at making you feel at ease and taking great care of you. Show her all the confidence you can muster up and DON'T be creepy, macho, or over-bearing, but instead be courteous, appreciative of the wonderful gift of the special moments of intimacy that she is sharing with you. BEST for a first encounter is if you let her take control, but if you have specific requests, ALWAYS be respectful in expressing them. And as always, giving her sincere compliments on things you admire and enjoy about her won't go unnoticed. She will likely appreciate you more for these things and that can and likely WILL mean you'll have an even more amazing encounter. All the best to you and any newbies who may come across this post in the months to come. FR -
Happy Birthday Carrie Moon <3
futileresistenz replied to Bianca Jaguar's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
A very happy birthday to you, Carrie! Wishing you a wonderful day tomorrow. FR -
Happy Birthday Royal fun
futileresistenz replied to a topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Happy birthday, mate.. hope you're enjoying your day. Keep the great posts coming! FR -
While I certainly appreciate the lengths that the ladies go to to make themselves look so appealing to the male of the species, I generally notice more of the overall, and only sometimes specifics. I will compliment on small things where I notice them and just a general grateful acknowledgement of how gorgeous she looks, be it the silky, slightly scented, flowing hair, or her stunning outfit that day. I agree that the physical and overall appearance are important, but what I am much more in tune with and take notice of, is her disposition and attitude. What I mean to say is, is she in a good mood, relaxed, and engaging, enthusiastic, talkative? (that's not usually a problem for a lady ;), but there are exceptions) The best providers will go the extra distance to show the gentleman a good time, regardless of whether she has great physical 'at first sight' chemistry with him. Let's face it, we may like to think we're just as hot as Brad Pitt --or the choice hunk of the week-- is, but it's probably not true for many of us. It is the mark of a truly exceptional companion that will (even if she had to take 2 years of acting classes) make her dance partner feel like the million dollar superstud ;-) for the brief time they share with each other. I can live with physical imperfection, but being short-changed in flirtatious advances and playfulness is less appealing than maybe not quite reaching "10" in the looks department. I'd much rather a "7" with a great personality than a "10" that I don't connect with emotionally. I won't expound on the above now, but briefly agree with a previous poster (Jabba, I believe) that those squared-off nails are a turn off to me as well - they look dangerous and aren't all that attractive to me. #JMNSHO. You can bet your panties and briefs I'll be elaborating on a closely related topic elsewhere soon! :D Signing off for now, grateful to be a member of this magnificent community! FR
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I kept my tweets locked up briefly when I signed up but decided to abandon that. I don't see any reason to revert that decision. As yet. Good point about being circumspect and not giving even the most minor of clues as to one's personal identity - if it is important that you NEVER EVER be outed to the world (and friends, enemies, frenemies). Of course those who really want to read will have access, but they don't frighten me. It took six years for the identity of the woman behind Diary of a Call Girl to be discovered, and she was very web-savvy and really careful with her online presence. Whether that was accidental or planned, I am not sure. Safe tweeting! FR
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Quite an amazing story, drlove, and one that shows that the set of problems around sex and sex work are very complex and seem almost intractable. I absolutely don't feel any shame in participating in this lifestyle. I have met some of the most wonderfully articulate, smart, gorgeous, clean, drug-free, caring, respectful ladies who take meticulous care of themselves in my short stint thus far. I would be proud to be seen with them anywhere. IMO, discretion in not telling friends, co-workers and family about these activities is prudent, and if there weren't the widespread artificial stigma, we wouldn't feel that need to be secretive so much even to our closest confidant(e)s. Why feel ashamed? This is the most natural thing that the wisdom of the universe has conspired to gift the human race with, yet many of us just don't know how to deal with it in a healthy fashion. Others wish to repress us and make us feel it is wrong, just to control and curb this most organic of expressions of love and caring for one another. The result is fear, ignorance, and, well, sometimes, through the soup of emotions and powerlessness, violence. Sadly it will take major efforts to change the prevalent attitudes and stigma surrounding sex and sex work. May I suggest an article reviewing a very pro-sex-work movie (Warning! Spoiler alert) It is rather long, but definitely worth the read! It is very much along my own line of thinking. https://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?goto=newpost&t=133685 FR
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American Courtesans: Our Unsung Healers
futileresistenz replied to futileresistenz's topic in In the news
An update: As the viewership is expected to be rather eclectic, a non-theatrical release is planned for mid-July on cable, VoD, DVD and BluRay in the U.S. I'm not sure about these channels in Canada but it is slated out on DVD here on 10/1. FR -
As a few have said already, in the initial encounter, it is the lady that should lead, until the client feels comfortable doing the same. After that, I don't have a preference, and would hope it would be a fair mix of both. Not to attempt a hijack, but to add to the discussion: Depending on your thoughts about whether FS is on the menu in a first situation or not (I am completely fine if it isn't), how would one proceed if the hands-off approach wasn't working? I guess letting your other know what you'd like would be the way to find out if the lady is agreeable to fulfill your wishes, although not everyone is comfortable doing this with a (still almost) virtual stranger. I'll let the OP and other commenters weigh in on whether it's topical to discuss that in this thread and open a new one if needed. FR
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Who do you think write interesting ad's
futileresistenz replied to someguy's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Without looking, I'd really like to mention some of the top creative, quirky and witty ad-writers that come to mind: Gabriella Laurence Sacha EmilyJ TiffanyXXX000 This is just my 'short-list' from memory. Don't feel offended if you weren't listed, as I have a longer list (if I were to expand). FR -
Congratulations on your first 200 sweet 'n charming posts, Midnite-Massage. AFAIK, I think the commenting power is fixed for everyone for each 24-hour period. Sad really, to throttle all that unbounded, bubbly, witty, absorbing MM personality! :) Carry on just as you are. :) FR
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Roamingguy - 8000 posts!!!
futileresistenz replied to Midnite-Energies's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Congratulations, sir! I don't know how to beat "Holy crap!" but Holy crap!, RG, you've been outstanding in your contribution to this community and a model CERB citizen! We salute you! FR -
Thanks to everyone for their complimentary posts. I guess I'm here and not going anywhere soon, so the next 500 will be banged out before you know it! Love this great community! Just one minor thing to those who don't know: I prefer being referred to as "FR" - saves on typing too! :)
