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So sorry to hear of this, but the best news is that you made it out ok. Sending positive vibes and hope you bounce back to normal really soon, Katherine! Hugs, FR

To answer the OP's question: Envious! Haha, no, that was my flippant answer. I do love it when my partner is enjoying the sesh and having wonderful orgasms, the more the merrier! If she's zinging around the room, awesome! ;) Quite often I love pleasing more than thinking of myself, and I doubt anyone has yet faked it. The only way for a me to know is the loud wailing or other type of pretend "affected" displays of arousal that are not in tune with other bodily signs. Overall this is pretty hard to spot, I think. If I thought someone was faking, I would be disappointed that the provider thought it necessary. I wouldn't feel ashamed if I wasn't able to get her all the way, and prefer things to "stay real". To comment on NotchJ's post, I'd be mortified to be told she'd had seven orgasms and I'd completely missed them! Yes, some clients (quite a number on this board) do care about the lady's experience, so please, please, please give us some sign and let us share in your pleasure, too. :) Finally, a great big thanks to Gabby for starting this thread and for all the great insightful posts! FR

Hair colour is hardly a factor in my selection process, however the other properties such as length, texture, and style could well be. And whether she can let them down. ;) But to address your question, I'd venture to say that these are myths - who knows where they originated? They apply sometimes, but just like astrological signs, how could one stereotype by hair colour across the board? (Now you know my position on the former also. ;) ) For whatever reason, blondes seem for a majority to be the ideal and maybe some of them actually play toward that preconception. Due to true redheads representing less than 5% of the population, their rarity might 'explain' their fiery temperament. Just some muddled morning thoughts...

Here's wishing you a happy birthday, Spud! FR

Just to let those know that might still have this problem, I got rid of the green bars by following the directions in alb49's post. Thanks! Go to User CP->Edit Options->Enable images for reputation comments. Check that box and Save. Done! :)

So late on this one, but happy belated birthday, Cato. Glad to hear it was a good one! FR

Yes, it's that time again, Emily. Wishing you a very, very Happy Birthday and hoping you can fill it with all the wonderful things you'd like to do. To you, all the best for the coming year (although if karma exists, you should have the best year imaginable!). Enjoy, gorgeous! FR

Happy Valentine's Day to everyone, especially all the wonderful ladies I've been fortunate enough to have met and connected with. You've given of yourselves and provided hours of laughs, conversation, and sizzling intimacy. #gratitude Special thanks go to Audrey for sharing the idea for and the wonderful story of generosity. An impetus to lift your spirits by doing something nice, even the smallest thing, for (a) complete stranger(s). I wish you all -- ladies and gents -- a blessed day! FR

This has been covered elsewhere at least once, and is definitely not the norm. A professional provider will not text or call out of the blue - EVER! For those that think it's right to reply to a text sent hours ago, think again! If you missed the communication (text or phone call) by more than 10-15 minutes, it should be ignored and the client can retry again later when it is safe / convenient to be receiving a phone call or a text. #minirantdone

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Happy Birthday, Emma. Wishing you success, happiness and peace for the coming year! FR

Great answer, RG. In hindsight I think I was just playing the devil's advocate and hadn't thought this through quite enough. It happens. After reading your post, I realize that I agree with you and am a poor advocate for my assumed position. :D Some providers (esp. traveling ladies) don't offer anything less than an hour and that's perfectly fine with me. The half-hour is useful for those that want to meet for a shorter period to get to see what the lady is like and if there is a connection, or to have a different type of experience than in a longer, relaxed session. To each their own. Happy adventures! FR