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Congratulations, Nathalie, on reaching the 500 post milestone. Your contributions are appreciated! I look forward to many more interesting posts. FR

A very Happy Birthday to you, Ms. Emily Marie! FR

My short answer is you can't compare apples to oranges. For the long answer, you'll have to read on. :) After all, these are unique, individual people we are talking about, not objects. There are so many different providers and even more variations in clients and their preferences, that it's a little bit of a crap shoot. By that I don't mean that this is a bad thing. An understanding client can accept the fact that maybe sometimes things don't go quite the way he'd mapped it out, that people have bad days, or even though the services offered matched what he was looking for, he may occasionally not get to duplicate the greatness of other encounters every time. It's part of the ballgame. There will, more than likely, be a next time. People also have very different ways of assessing whether they 'got their money's worth' that is too unwieldy to get into here. The trick for great encounters is 1) honesty in advertising, 2) respect and communication prior (and during also), and 3) matching provider to client preferences. These are necessary, but not always sufficient, to guarantee the best outcomes. As a client, you may pay less one time and get much better service, only because of, for example, the way you clicked with each other, or for other reasons unrelated to her services offered, like whether or not she allows something specific, e.g. digits, for instance. The way I see it is that each lady has her repertoire and sets her donation. To me, the rate doesn't matter if I know the lady is a good match with what I consider important qualities in personality (or looks), or in other aspects of the encounter. If I want to see a lady, I pay her rate, no questions asked, nor have I ever shopped around for a cheaper alternative. IMO, the ladies at the higher end of the scale are worth the extra layout as they provide clean incalls (usually upscale hotels), are professional, attentive to their clients' needs, and are by and large worry-free. That's all I need to know. I would expect some other provider that is either $50 (or more) below or above to offer more or less the same type of service if she advertises a similar service. But the caveat always applies: "ymwv". To me it is more important that, although a business transaction, it feels from almost the beginning like you are friends already. What we might 'get up to' in the allotted time or not is secondary. But then that's just me. If the deal is concluded without some emotion and respect for one another as human beings, then it is not something I'm terribly interested in. If a client chooses to see a provider in the $80-120 versus the $250+ range, I might expect it to be different type of encounter, not necessarily in terms of service, but maybe a seedier or less discrete location, or not as clean an incall space; it may be a more mechanical service, and as she is charging so much less, she will have a different type of clientele and be less exclusive in order to be able to pay her bills. Potentially (and I mean absolutely no offense to anyone) an illicit drug habit may need to be supported. Some clients may even prefer the inherent edginess. I'm not saying that there aren't many, many great providers in that segment of the market, just that maybe there is a greater likelihood that something you encounter on the visit, be it the location, attitude, mood, physical features, demeanour, what-have-you, that may be off-putting to the point that you'd wished you had saved your stash for someone else. I suppose B&S could happen anytime at any donation. I would like to think that satisfaction is more likely if you show your companion that you value her for her time and efforts, service and companionship, instead of looking for the cheapest (or cheaper) options. Some late-night mental meanderings... even though I posted it a day or two after. Please note this is my opinion and I don't speak for all, nor do I wish to exclude, hurt or offend anyone. An interesting topic for sure, and one I'd be glad to hear about from others. FR P.S. Apologies again for the length of the post, but you asked! :D I have to get a better handle on that. ;)

The one that does it for me is Chrissie Hynde with "Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas" FR

As my detailed research suggests, CNFM is short for "Clothed Female Naked Male" I kid, it took all of 10 seconds to type "acronym CNFM" into my browser's location bar to yield this. FR Additional info: As the letters are transcribed, it could be the other posters intentionally (or not) made a typo, but you get the gist.

I don't know her identity, but those eyes are nothing if not intense! Great makeup helps! Photo credit: Gavin O'Neill

For those hungry to learn even more... If you take a look on the User CP page...you need to scroll down all the way to the bottom, it will show you who's given you recent points, either by commenting on / approving of one of your posts, or by awarding you a nomination. FR

I think this qualifies for the thread ... Emergency call in the Men's Room!

Congratulations, Penelope! A most amazing Christmas for you, I'm sure! :) Best wishes to you and the little guy! FR

Congrats, Nat on your 500 post milestone. Keep 'em coming, I enjoy them, too!

No, not hair extensions... :) At times I've wondered how ladies feel about the practice, and how clients should deal with the issue of flexible sessions. Also, is it something that you will happily oblige, or prefer to deal only in absolutes? This request for comment is directed to both the ladies and the gents. If you are a 'suitor', how do you approach this? Ultimately, it should always be about respecting the ladies' time. On rare occasion when booking I have suggested that I might want to extend the encounter, e.g. "Length: 1-2 hrs." In the case of a lady that chooses to see only a small number of clients in the run of a day, it's likely not a problem, unless she has time booked off for personal reasons. To remain brief, I am just curious how this is viewed and handled by all.