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This is hardly as major as some recent posts here... but it doesn't seem like it right now: Have you ever sent an email to someone about something close to your heart, or badly wanted to talk to them, only they don't return your call for days? You usually don't care that much. People are busy, especially this time of the year. By all means, take a week or even two to get back in touch... no problem. But it is not one of those times. You wonder if you did the right thing, or made a fool out of yourself. Unsure of what the other is thinking. Believing you've messed up. Waiting and waiting. For days and days. Can be unsettling. Even frustrating. Yes, it sucks! Just sayin'. Not upset, but walking on hot coals. FR
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Do you feel comfortable initiating sex?
futileresistenz replied to jafo105's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Very intriguing line of questioning, jafo! I could be flippant and say, "Sex? Please explain!" :-) I am not entirely comfortable initiating unless she has done so once before or the signals are pretty unmistakable. In the beginning, I think it is the lady's choice and charge as to when this occurs. This has likely saved me from a few slaps, but also I wonder how to approach this in case the initiative is not forthcoming from the lady. I'll be following this thread, watching for tips and opinions from the others. -
Reputation points
futileresistenz replied to wellie's topic in New to this? Things you should know...
How many points you can give out is not affected by your 16,000 points, which represents the reputation you've accumulated by participating in the forums and getting rep points or nominations. Giving points to others costs you none of your own points. However, there is a limit on how many points you may give to another member, as well as a daily total, set by the Mod. It's just been put in place to curb people from giving every post (or far too many) points, making you be more selective about what you deem worthy of them. :) Hope that helps! FR -
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Looks like the return of that Decker girl ;)
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Differences between 1h and 1hh
futileresistenz replied to FirstTimeFirstTimer's topic in Escort Discussion for Winnipeg
I prefer 2hr+ sessions, but most of them have been 1 hr. I wouldn't say I'd never do a hh, but it doesn't really fit my personality. I need time for connection to happen and loads more to explore. ;) I like to dawdle here and there... 15 mins to me is just ludicrous! With a first timer, anything less than an hour is rushing for me and doesn't give you the time to get to know the person enough to make the rest satisfying, IMNSHO. -
Movember is over, time for...
futileresistenz replied to thedriver's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I support the cause and any lady who chooses to participate. C'mon guys, what's a month when it's a seriously important cause like cervical cancer? I also support Frank's idea that there must be a willing surrogate or lots of pics so single men can celebrate and enjoy also. (j/k) FR -
Best bums on the planet (or at least on Lyla)
futileresistenz replied to Cato's topic in Fun Threads
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My issue with Hobbyist PM's and YMMV
futileresistenz replied to aubreyxxx's topic in Escort Discussion for PEI
I'm sorry you had to go through such a harrowing experience. This is a very instructional post to those who may not have thought of the consequences of divulging too much information that is considered private with another client or would-be client. It is not limited to newbies, but they particularly may misconstrue what they've heard through the grapevine and place a lady in extremely uncomfortable situations, or even outright danger! It is sickening to hear that this person was more concerned with his monetary loss, rather than with the fact that he had more than once made you feel so uncomfortable. But luckily, he saw his error and the situation didn't escalate. I'd say more, but it's late now. Kudos to you, Aubrey, for having the courage to post this! FR -
Best bums on the planet (or at least on Lyla)
futileresistenz replied to Cato's topic in Fun Threads
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I checked too, same thing - only one friend is displayed. Very strange. Not something I'm worried about running into any time soon, though, at 25 and counting. :)
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Best bums on the planet (or at least on Lyla)
futileresistenz replied to Cato's topic in Fun Threads
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Shanina Shaik for Nordstrom