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Congratulations on reaching the prodigious 5000-post mark, Cato! "You da man!" :)
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Adriana Karembeu
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The new double goddess SaraMQ!
futileresistenz replied to Malika Fantasy's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
My congratulations to you, Sara, on attaining Double Goddess status! I for one appreciate your outspoken, bubbly nature (I'm probably speaking for many) and your contributions to this community are legendary and very much valued. I won't use the that word now, and instead say "Keep up the great work!". :) -
Double Goddess Emily Rushton
futileresistenz replied to LeeRichards's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
What can I say? You're amazing! Congratulations on becoming a Double Goddess, Emily! Best wishes now and always. -
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Happy Birthday to the Queen of Funk, Chaka Khan, born on this day in 1953. © Dwight McCann / Chumash Casino Resort / www.DwightMcCann.com
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I am amused when people talk about ass to titty ratios - but all in fun, I guess - no judgement here. I've always been more of a boob admirer, but I can definitely enjoy both. Having said that, it's really the face and how she carries herself walking past that really 'seals the deal'. A wink or smile and I'm done for. :)
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Why can't people
futileresistenz replied to CristyCurves's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Honesty is always the best policy! Or is it? It depends on ... 1) how close of a relationship you have with the person. 2) the seriousness (or triviality) of the matter in question - white lies are easier to pull off - and less guilt-inducing than hiding something BIG! 3) whether you think they can handle the honest-to-goodness truth. 4) a need-to-know-basis (useful for pesky Nosey Parkers). 5) perceived wounded pride for admitting something about yourself that you'd rather keep stashed away in the depths of your being. This is hardly a complete list, just some basic thoughts. It is a balance between wanting to be sincere and true, not only to yourself, but your closest friends, and the wider world. When you choose not to be forthright, you may also hurt people you care about, by pretending to be a fake version of yourself. It's not possible to always be honest, but the people that are, most of the time, have less to remember and sleep better. :) Just some of my random ramblings. -
When is it considered overselling
futileresistenz replied to CristyCurves's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
One of the most interesting threads I've come across in a while. Thank-you to cristycurves for starting it, and to all the posters for some great points. I think one of the most important things for an SP to decide on how to advertise is to know what type of clientele she wishes to attract and then sell her unique personality style and attributes to that market. To me that means knowing yourself and your best traits, and selling us on a dream, conjuring up a fantasy based on that, and we will come, envelopes in hand. :) Tell us who your favourite client is, that you are great with making new clients feel at ease, or whatever it is you are best at or what type(s) of activities you especially cater to. Basic information, like body type, measurements, donations and menu options offered is vital. Presentation can also be a factor. A website hosted in your own domain is a sign that you take pride in your work, and invest in your brand. This is nice, but definitely not required. Additionally, good quality (not necessarily professional) photos are an asset, although this is a personal choice for each provider. Looks **for me** are only a fraction of the whole, and personality, charm, etc. are at least as important, if not much more. I tend to ignore words like "upscale", "vip", "the best there is", and look for clues elsewhere that this is really so (*for me*). Price is not primarily a factor, but rather discerning something about the lady's personality, her demeanour, attentiveness to detail, whether she is friendly and easy to talk to, is unrushed and eager to show you a great time, or *conversely*, more business-like and (HORRORS! ;)) a clock-watcher, for example. To me, honesty in advertising works, and describing yourself as someone that you aren't will eventually bite you in the back. Luckily, if you are booking a lady on CERB and do a bit of research beforehand, and checking out any recos, the chances are very good that you will have an absolutely great time and be happy with the choice you made. :) Happy hobbying!