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Congratulations on your first 100 posts, Bianca. Hoping you continue to enjoy the site and looking forward to many more to come! :) FR

Sah-weet!

Kudos and congratulations on 500 great posts, PhantomKnight. Thanks for all you contribute to the community. Well done! FR

Congratulations, Gabriella Laurence! You're the first to attain 200,000 rep points on the board, and that says quite a lot! What an extraordinary achievement, coupled with some of the best-written, entertaining and scintillating ads you'll find on the net, Gabriella is also the inventor of Erotic Math, plus so much more! :) So please join me in expressing your admiration for this very fine lady, and her very active participation here in our community! Well done, wishing you all the best, Gabriella! xox

A great thread, Empty! For my part, I prefer to see only a small number of ladies, and mainly have repeats with my one or two ATFs. I do see the spice that variety can add, so I do mix it up a bit sometimes. As for getting too attached: I believe in being myself and showing (not holding back) my emotions. Ladies that can play along with me are very much valued -after all, it is fantasies that we are living out-, and yet I am fully aware that this is just for the time booked. Once a client leaves, the temptation to hold on to their feelings is there, but you have to compartmentalize them. It is a special type of relationship where you might (but not necessarily) have a deeper attachment, even a friendship, but you must as a client (and as provider) be vigilant in maintaining the boundaries. That's not to say that emotions don't sometimes lead to full-blown 'civilian' relationships, but this is quite rare indeed and not something to expect! And for my last point: Successful providers (especially with their regular clients) don't mind offering suggestions of their friends that a client may be a good fit with (no pun intended) without fear that their income stream is negatively impacted by you booking someone else for a change. I've had this happen (you know who you are) and think that's pretty cool, kind and magnanimous when it's offered. Just my nickle's worth... FR

Happy Birthday, Jafo! I hope it's a day of all you wished for, and then some!

While I would welcome a freer attitude towards this in North American society, I also realize that even when the laws allow it, I quite understand that there are reasons most women are hesitant to exercise that right - MOST MEN just would never be able to handle it! (and I didn't even think of the jealous wives!) Instead of bearing arms (US) and waging permanent wars, wouldn't it be much healthier to embrace the natural beauty of our bodies and not have such deeply conflicted hangups around all things of ethereal beauty? Save the world, one at a time, fuck a politician. ;) #endminirant

Nasty, naughty X'es :p XTC - Senses Working Overtime

Unfortunately I won't be able to make either of these dates, but I encourage those interested and able to go, to do so, it was quite a lot of fun last year! FR

Our own sexy Ms. Samantha in the shower (re-posted with permission)

Point taken and maybe I was too critical, maybe not, but I'd like to temper my post by saying it wasn't meant as an attack of any sort. Certainly there is some leeway to mention things not related directly to the original topic. It's to every member's individual taste what crosses the line or not. I agree in principle with both of those points. Now let's move on! :) FR

Well, that one was a clear hijack, but to answer your question about safety: Ladies, it will never be a show-stopper for me (and like-minded gents) for you to express your wish to remain as safe as possible. You do what is comfortable and right for you, and true gentlemen will respect that. Oddly, even without any demand on my part, or even any prior discussion, I've received bbbjs in almost all cases by default. If a lady were to ask if it were o.k. to put on a hat, by all means! I may even have to request it myself one of these days ;) - for comfort and greater peace of mind. The loss of sensation is hardly noticeable, if proper lubrication is in place, and just as enjoyable. FR

Amusing little anecdote! Sorry if I seem to be stating the obvious - it took me a couple of seconds, as well, to realize it... could she have meant to stick it in the bottom of the shopping bag so it isn't noticed? Seems from your reaction that you were looking for, and found another, meaning. ;)

Congratulations, Nicolette! A feat of no small dimensions! You're a true pillar in our community and I for one really enjoy your posts, too. Looking forward to many more in the months (and years ;) ) to come. FR

So sorry to hear the news of your loss, RG. My deepest condolences go to you with a wish that you may celebrate his life and remember the good times. FR

Oops. Sorry for the monkey wrench! ;)