Hi all,
I'm new to this. Very new in fact. I've arranged my first session with a lady for next week.
I have a lot of questions -- tend to overthink things -- but one of my major concerns is that I neglected to mention the fact that I have a number of genital piercings. It just slipped my mind when I was making the arrangments.
In the past with women I've dated or hooked up with, a few have been a bit freaked out and decided they weren't into it. Which is, of course, fine. Just as it would be perfectly fine if the lady with whom my session is decides she'd rather not. I'll be dissapointed if that's the case, but I'm not about to push anyone outside of their comfort zone.
So, what is the etiquette in this sort of situation? In the future, should I bring it up while making arrangments, or is that too crass? Should I mention the piercings when I confirm the session later this week? Would I be out of line in suggesting a bit of extra lubrication be used just to make sure there's no discomfort during the act?
Thanks for any advice.
