I do not give references I do not feel that it is any one business . and I am taking a risk as well as the sp . But if the lady dose not want to see me that is fine too I will find some one ells .
As for hanging up a tittle rude . no matter what the conversation . that is the only problem here
If an sp can have a fine business with getting references I am glad for her
as I would hope she would be happy for me if I get what I want with out answering that question them