Kathryn Bardot

A little bit of sass... To spend some time together... http://www.kathrynbardot.net & [email protected] & 613-501-1545 (no blocked calls) xoxo, Kat.

Not identifying with a term is one thing. If you don't identify with the term, that is your choice, and you have the right to ask people not to call you by that term. To hurl an insult at people who do identify with that term by saying that they "give it away for free" is where I have the problem, Nicolette. I find it very interesting that these arguments always end up in the "at least I'm not giving it away for free" mentality. As if money and self-worth are somehow tied in to each other.

That's your opinion and your construct on what a "slut" is. For others, it can mean something entirely different, and they identify as a slut while providing paid companionship. Depending on the day and the context, I do identify as a slut from time to time. I also participate in the annual Slut Walk, which is way to call out slut-shaming and victim-blaming language and behaviours.

i like my body when it is with your - one of my favourite poems, in video form: http://vimeo.com/62916659 Do you also like the thrill? Let's share some deliciously intimate time together at my private and discreet downtown location, or invite me to visit with you at yours. I am currently in full-time studies, with a fairly flexible schedule. Please have a look at my website to find out more: http://www.kathrynbardot.net Reach me by email at [email protected] or by phone/text at 613-501-1545 (no blocked calls) A little bit more... 5'8" 34B-28-38 Blonde hair, blue eyes, and a few lovely tattoos. Read what others have to say... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=15829 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=63938 xo, Kathryn.

And ironically December 6th is the National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women. Fuck the CPC.

Did I say we need to retire? No. But when we're being told that we will not be allowed to be on cerb if we are advertising sexual services off cerb, and if communicating for the purposes of sexual services is illegal, I would personally be happier if the more explicit reviews were deleted or edited. And that my older ads were deleted. I still get people who someone find my old massage ads here and assume I offer the same services. For the discretion of my clients, I would be happier if I could have the ability to delete those old ads.

I also wonder if explicit recommendations/reviews are going to be removed so that there is no "history" of sexual services having been offered (and therefore, one can assume they are still being offered).

The only safe sex is masturbation. However, there are safer sex practices which can reduce the risk of acquiring STIs (side note: they're mostly referred to as sexually transmitted infections as not all infections will have symptoms or develop into a disease. Also, infections can be and generally are treatable, whereas disease can carry a lot of stigma. See: http://www.beforeplay.org/blog/the-difference-between-stds-and-stis/) This topic comes up frequently and can often dissolve into pretty nasty arguments. My piece: You can only know with 100% certainty your OWN sexual health status. Get tested. And remember that there are screening windows, and that tests are only accurate as of that period of time. Educate yourself. There is a lot of information available, and some of it is not always accurate. Stick to reputable sources of information and use your critical thinking skills. Communicate! As providers, we have often taken the responsibility to educate ourselves. If you're unsure about something, or want to clarify what practices will be used, please ask but remember to do so respectfully. Asking someone "what diseases do you have?" is not going to get you off to the right start. (And yes, I have been asked that!)

Calling CMJ directly might get you a faster answer :)

Megan/Cuteasabutton has also participated in a fitness competition: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=194844&highlight=megan

Not necessarily. Prostitution in the US is 100% illegal and yet review sites exist there.

It has to pass through the Senate, where it will go through three readings and a vote. If the Senate votes for the bill, it will then be presented to the Governor General for Royal Assent; the GG may assent, reserve assent, or hold assent. If assent is given, then it becomes law. http://library.queensu.ca/gov/bills_federal

I think it would have had more of an impact if the bill had passed with a narrower margin. Of those who didn't vote: 1 Independent 3 Liberals 14 NDPs, of which: Alexandre Boulerice tweeted about "building safe workspaces for everybody" and then decided a public speaking engagement at a Toronto Steel Workers' Health and Safety conference was more important than voting on safe workspaces for sex workers. Eve Peclet has been very vocal against C36, and "had a personal emergency". Peggy Nash was speaking at a CUPE conference in Toronto. CUPE has publicly declared their support against C36. Even a vote FOR C36 would have meant more. Not voting says to me that they just don't care. And I'm pretty mad about that.

It's not law - yet. It needs to pass through the Senate and obtain Royal Assent. Here's how MPs voted -- or more importantly, DIDN'T vote -- and how to get in touch with them: http://openparliament.ca/votes/41-2/249/

There is a lot of speculation and fear mongering going on about c36, and honestly, I think a lot of people are putting far too much energy into worrying about it now. We don't know what's going to happen. We don't know if the bill will pass, and if it does, how they are going to enforce it. Incalls have been illegal all this time, and people have not worried about it nearly as much as the fear I'm noticing now. Discretion goes two ways, folks. I, like many other companions, do not wish to draw attention to myself that might end badly. And, if this bill passes, I will be taking measures to protect my privacy, which may include more in-depth screening so that I can assure my current guests of their privacy as well. Let's not needlessly panic and throw accusations at people. I don't agree with the threat of outing clients, as much as I can understand that it comes from a place of well-deserved anger at the hypocrisy of some lawmakers and politicians.

Considering she stated that there's a police investigation, I'm going to assume there is information on him. That's not something that is going to be posted publicly on a forum, though.

Well, he's looking for an outcall to his *home*, so I don't think he needs to be all cloak-and-dagger. I've received several Interac e-transfers from gents and couples with no issues on their end about that issue. Some of us don't explicitly list payment options, so I would suggest finding a provider you're interested in seeing, and send her a message explaining your situation and asking if she'd accept a payment method other than cash.

Thank you for making this point :)

This website might help you with the questions you have: http://www.cra-arc.gc.ca/tx/bsnss/sm/menu-eng.html Honestly, these questions and their answers are going to differ from person to person. HST registration, for example, is voluntary for revenue under $30,000. There seems to be a common misconception that because sex work is primarily a cash business, that we don't pay our taxes. However, other cash businesses don't seem to be questioned in the same manner. Yes, there are some people who are not honest about their income. There are many many more of us who do file our taxes and pay HST, because it helps us do things like pay for our housing, get credit cards, buy a car, pay for tuition. Also, because we are legally required, like any other person working in Canada, to claim our income.

And I've had the opposite experience -- when I don't post an ad daily (or it's been a few days between), people seem to assume that I'm not available! (Point being, don't assume. We post or don't post for a variety of reasons :))

And this article. http://www.forbes.com/sites/scottmendelson/2014/09/01/jennifer-lawrence-nude-photo-leak-isnt-a-scandal-its-a-sex-crime/

You may have more luck looking in the area of the hotel, as there are quite a number of hotels nearby as well as a number of providers in the Centretown/downtown area. Good luck in your search!

I'm in total agreement with the last few posters, but would like to offer another point of view. I use a sponge during appointments, not because I am on my period, but because I have an IUD (and it has stopped my periods) and have found that some guests do not respect my boundaries when it comes to digits (deep, forceful ones are really not that pleasant at all), or that I've found when a gentleman is well-endowed or in a really good position to hit my cervix (or using really deep digits), that sometimes that force can trigger some bleeding. Also, vigorous digits, especially with someone who has not trimmed/filed their nails, can also cause tears in the vaginal tissue, which could also lead to bleeding. Just a thought. Point being: I think this should have been a discussion between you and the lady in question, not something made public, whether you intend to name her or not. As someone who has used sponges, I agree with previous posters that they do not just "fall out" from oral sex alone -- when tucked away properly, they are very very difficult to find sometimes, and often require some contortionist efforts to remove them.

"Comments Miss Jessica Lee: I never said your feelings "don't fucking matter" ... shockingly, that offended me. Go figure...???" Where exactly did I say that? My feelings aren't part of this discussion, I have taken issue with your exclusionary and stigmatizing language.

I was biting my tongue up until this point because I didn't see the point of continuing when you were so intent on finding things to be offended about rather than considering what people were finding problematic. However, you don't see anything rude or disrespectful about what you posted? I personally took offense to your comment about "people who do sweet fuck all" -- because you have NO idea of what people have or have not contributed. Nor is it an excuse for you to dismiss their valid concerns.