I read your brief review, took your advice and went for it. Your details were bang on. I dropped by last Tuesday and Thursday and was surprised to find the place virtually empty around lunch. A handful of older gay men were present and yes they were quite aggressive and definitely creepy. Not really what I was looking for. I'm sure it is hit or miss but there were no women alone during my visit. For those wondering if SP's were present - never saw any during my visits and I don't think this place allows it. Someone there suggested that I try Saturday night and I did. The place was rather busy with a much higher ratio of men vs women. There were voyeurs, swingers, trans, gays and straights. Some doors we're open and attracted a lot of attention for obvious reasons. I walked around and passed a cute blonde and smiled. That's it. She sat with her man talked to some others she knew while others lingered and just watched. Again a little creepy one women surrounded by 12 men hoping for some action. Remember your school yard years "pick me, pick me," kinda the same. I just stood by a corner in the room and made some eye contact from time to time not thinking this attractive women would ever pick a normal average guy like myself. A show started in a dark corner which attracted a lot of other men which left me quite uncomfortable and I was ready to leave. I guess this women could read my expression. Got up, walked past me while asking if I'd like to join her and her husband. I followed. She had a really nice smile. I'll never forget the looks I got as a walked away with her. The next couple hours was a once in a lifetime experience for me as her husband just watched. There is a point here - be patient, respectful, curteous and non aggressive. For many this is a lifestyle not a quick fill. There was a lot of talking and curiosity. All can be found at Aquarius. It may take a few visits and it is an interesting place. Will I go back? Probably not. The place is full time co-ed but there is a clear majority of gay men. I'm not judging, it's just not my thing. The memories of that Saturday night might make me reconsider. And two more things... Get a room upstairs and take some sandals. You'll thank me later.
