stevecurious

From my understanding, keep in mind I have never or will never read it, it is fairly uninspired, vanilla soft core porn that can be found in any Harlequin romance novel with Fabio on the cover. Again I have never read it but from what I have been told that is my impression.

Aubrey I read your thread for the first time last evening and I have re-read it a few times since so I could let it all soak in sort of speak. While I have attempted to understand what in the hell this guy was thinking my admittedly overheated mind just can not wrap itself around this notion of (A) negotiating (B) cancelling and © dicking around in such a manner. To say I am confused is an understatement, in fact you might as well start referring to me as steveCONFUSED if this BS is to taken as good dating practice. I would say that it is fairly clear (thus far) as to where I stand in regards to his behavior. That said I will attempt to add my voice to the growing chorus of people, SP and Hobbyist alike, who have commented and no doubt will continue to comment. I will begin by addressing the idea of negotiating at least from this mans perspective. Why, why, why do people insist on attempting this? It is crude, unprofessional, low brow and is just downright insulting! I mean do we go to the grocery store and as the cashier if she will sell the milk for two dollars instead of four? NOPE! When was the last time you went to the dentist and after insurance picked up there 80% you offered to pay the clerk for only 10 of the remaining 20% because "you are such a good patient?" After you were laughed at I imagine the bill would be settled, no? Cancelling can be a tricky and dicey topic best summed up by saying legitimate reasons for cancelling exist! We are all human and therefore understanding of life and we have all heard the expression shit happens. This does not give anyone the right to abuse or exploit someones understanding and forgiveness of real life getting in the way of playtime however. Ask yourself this question, if I had an appointment with my dentist and I didn't show up for it what would happen? What would happen if this happened again and again? Would I be charged and eventually asked to go away? Same thing as cancelling/no showing on your SP. Guys we compare notes on the ladies, what the makes you think they don't chat about us? The world is small and word gets around...keep that behavior up and you may never get laid again (at least not from a woman on this board) As far as dicking around is concerned, see above paragraph. So Aubrey and the rest of Cerb those are my thoughts such as they are. Please keep in mind that Prince Edward Island is far too small to be pissing of one of the few local ladies that we have. Oh, and don't think for one minute that this is contained to the local population of SP's, this is happening to local and travelling lady alike so keep this thread in mind the next time YOU need an itch scratched and there aren't any ladies to meet with you!

She was suspended for three months in May.

I know of one person who will sorely miss him:

Excellent point and very true of smaller cities...like mine!

Mmm I have met ladies from 18 right through to 50+ and generally I am attracted to the ladies who are seasoned or experienced (never use the word older to describe a woman). For my part I find that the ladies who are more experienced tend to feel more comfortable in their own skin and therefore aren't afraid to tell you what they like/want. Confidence and the ability to carry themselves seem to come with age. Now that is not to say this is a hard and fast rule but rather what I have experienced. I find if you compare a lady to a bottle of wine you will usually go to the vintage that has some time and experience under the...err...cork. Ahh you know what I mean.

Oh I agree and I have done so many, many times! Remember, I don't call myself SteveCURIOUS because I am timid.

Very true, but be careful the same can be said of anal as well.;)

I have to admit I have done it and I find it pretty cool, kinky, hot...whatever you want to call it. It is amazing what you may enjoy if you just give in and try something new on occasion. Forget about what "society" may say and ignore pre-conceived notions and just do it! I mean who is going to know? After all isn't trying new things sexually part of, if not the entire reason why we are all here?

All of her contact info. can be found on her profile page. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=32199

If you are in Prince Edward Island you might consider contacting Aubrey, I know she sees M/F couples.

I am going to take this opportunity to wish everyone who is attending I great time and congratulate all those who organized this event. If memory serves this event was first discussed last summer and now it is finally going to happen. Sadly I will not be able to attend due to a combination of geography and marriage (mostly marriage) but I really, really, really wish I could be in attendance! Best of luck everyone and enjoy yourselves. Oh, one last thing Cathy (still Cathy to me) has one hell of a wardrobe so it should be an interesting night. It's too bad it wasn't a closed venue because some of her more adventurous ensembles are quite stunning...and adventurous!

Yes, I did notice that.

Mmm last I read she was given a permanent ban from Cerb. I guess Mod reinstated her, unless...

I tend to get headaches often as well and although mine are usually triggered by fluorescent lighting OR being dehydrated the results are the same...annoying pain. I too tend to stay away from such over the counter meds such as Tylenol or Advil as often as I can due to the (potential) harm each can do to various internal organs by prolonged use. The active ingredient in Tylenol, and most over the counter allergy medications, is Acetaminophen which can cause unwanted issues in ones liver after prolonged useage. Advil on the other had contains Ibuprofen which is an anti-inflammatory and vessel constrictor which limits blood flow within said vessels but its long term damage is centered more in the kidneys as opposed to the liver. All that said I try to prevent headaches by drinking PLENTY of fluids, water works best, in order to keep my body hydrated and keep my blood pressure and stress to a minimum. If I do develop a headache I remove myself from the problem (i.e. excessive fluorescent lighting) and try to find a darker, quieter area and attempt to relax. This in conjunction with copious amounts of water usually works for me. If not I will take a small dosage (one tablet) and wait for the pain to pass.

Congrats and well done Katherine! You have certainly come along way since the first time we met when you had less than 20 posts. Still the same great lady...only better!

Happy birthday and all the best Angela!

Take care and don't give in to it. From someone who has been there, admittedly not the same as you, all the best and take care!

Since you presented the opportunity Gabriella I would like to thank you for visiting. I too hope you return for a follow up visit (much sooner than later) and that this trip is the first in many return visits.

At one time being in very close contact with a lady friend here on Cerb and having your last few messages go unreplied. Very concerned and very sad.:icon_sad:

When I am contacting a lady whom I have never met before and/or have had little to no contact with in other ways such as private conversations, etc. I usually start off with an introduction as to who I am, etc. Come to think of it here is a copy of a message I recently sent to a lady via email which is her preferred method of contact. Hello Lady X, My name is Steve (stevecurious on Cerb), how are you this evening? I hope the answer to that question is "well." The reason I am contacting you is to hopefully arrange a date on your upcoming visit to Charlottetown. I realize we have yet to meet but I am hoping that will change in the near future. I was hoping for an encounter on DATES PURPOSELY LEFT OUT for two hours if that is possible and if you are willing, of course. I have references ready and available if/when you would like them, all you need do is ask and I will provide them. Looking forward to your reply so we can continue this conversation. All the best, Steve In a nutshell that is how I begin a conversation with a lady that I have yet to meet. As I said in your other thread Peachy this method seems to work for me as I prefer to be upfront and relatively to the point. N.B., If I remember I hyper-link stevecurious in my opening sentence directly to my profile page just to show sincerity.

When building a fence a small wood splinter enters your eye, scratches your cornea and you require a trip to the ER. Now I know why I hate carpentry so much!

In theory I agree with Peachy, having a "reference field" is a great idea. It would provide a quick and easy go to for any lady to inquire about a potential new client. That said this reference area would seem to put the onus on the lady to seek a reference from another rather than the gent. in question volunteering a reference. Plus with a public forum the lady or ladies who are acting as the reference may run the risk of being ostracized if the gent were to commit a faux pas either privately or publicly. Vouching for someone (in any line of work) is more than just saying "so and so is a cool guy." Vouching for someone means that the person being vouched for is up to MY standards and therefore MY reputation is on the line if he/she f@*ks up. If it were me I would prefer to have that conversation in private hence anyone who is on someone elses friends list become a reliable reference. More to the point, this whole topic could be erased if when a gent. contacts a lady for the first time he volunteers his reference(s) to her in his opening message. I have done this many, many times and it has served me VERY well. It shows that I am being open and honest and that I am serious about continuing the conversation with the end result ultimately being an encounter. Of course these are just my thoughts...as they are.

Building a fence with my father and enjoying each others company.

I spend too much money on clothes. I have a wardrobe that could clothe three men. Oh well looking your best isn't a terrible thing to be guilty of. I shaved my head once...I am no longer allowed to do it again. I have a temper which I strive to control. I love visiting new places but I hate the travel portion of vacations. I love performing on stage even though I can't sing. I consider myself a good public speaker...but I get so afraid of making mistakes. I write better than I speak. I will do anything for a friend. I will do nothing for someone who has betrayed me! I am a very "black or white" type of man...I don't have a grey area to speak of. I have had a cat my entire life.