stevecurious

I am not sure if there are any ladies on this board who would answer these particular questions as they seem to be of questionable content. Perhaps they, the questions, should be changed. Sooner than later would seem to be in order!

Okay where to start?? A little while ago, actually that is not correct quite some time ago I came across an advert for Miss Jaded a Halifax Fetish and Kink provider is how she labeled herself. Since I have always been interested in and more to the point curious about certain aspects of Kink and Fetish I considered contacting her. Admittedly I was hesitant at first...for a couple of reasons. The first being her advertisement was on CL and the second was what is it like to be involved in a session such as this. I decided that it was time to find out and put my curiosities and concerns to rest...I contacted her! What followed was not at all what this man expected. Of course she replied in a prompt, courteous and VERY professional manner but she also requested that I read, fill out and send back to her a questionnaire on various types of services. Of course I agreed, figuring that it would be a quick couple of yes, no's and maybe an absolutely. Boy was I wrong, in my happy disbelief Miss Jaded sent a very detailed form asking me to rate various services, thoughts, opinions, likes and dislikes on a 0 to 5 scale. There were detailed questions about health, safety, etc. as well so I new right then and there that I was in good hands, talented hands as well as I would later find out! So after reading and filling out the questionnaire we started to finalize dates/times, etc. that worked for us. All was progressing so well until...until I was asked to send a photo of myself and a deposit for our "encounter." I felt like I was hit by a car as this was something that I had major issues with. But instead of jumping ship I inquired as to why these steps needed to be taken...Miss Jaded assured me it was for her safety and for securing her "play area." My hesitation continued! But after some conversation and some explanation on both parts the proceedings continued, the deposit and a photo sent...a wise choice on my part!! Why do I make mention of this, well I would not be doing this recommendation or Miss Jaded justice by not making note of her VERY detailed and unique booking process for new friends! Oh yes before I forget Miss Jaded does not provide FS in any way so please keep that in mind when you contact her! Okay so onto the main event which was a cold, damp fall day. However the temperature was not to remain low for long! When I knocked on her door I did not know what to think. An attractive, very well dressed (at least for what was coming) lady stood before me. I quickly thought "mmm" but remained calm and cool. After I was let in and some financial proceedings were taken care of she showed me around her "play area." I was thinking to myself "WTF" is that and that and this used for. Again I chose to remain calm and cool...difficult as it was becoming. Long of the short we sat, talked and she then said to me "ready" and I replied with an exhaled gasp "yep." At that point the agreed upon session began and continued through two of the most eye opening and enjoyable two hours you could imagine. Details purposely left out...as usual! I assure you however that if you require or are interested in kink, fetish, etc. Miss Jaded is the lady for you as she is skilled, talented, attractive, sincere, honest and first timer friendly! Her "play area" is clean, spacious, well stocked and full of things that I have no idea what they are used for. Thing is after seeing her twice now I kinda have an urge to find out even more! So to sum up if you are looking for something new and you have an open mind and a willing body contact her. She does not offer FS but as I mentioned her hands are oh so very talented! Since she does not have a Cerb account (yet) I will provide her contact info. to anyone who wants it. This is of course with her permission, just PM me for her email address.

Anyone that knows me knows that I am an AVID Boston Red Sox fan so I simply selected the Boston "B" as my avatar. I felt that this represented my passion for the team and sport in general as well as being very much in keeping with my personality!

I too have had conversations that end with "let me know" and unfortunately I have yet to hear back from these people. I believe that if you are going to participate in a conversation with people either via pm, email, etc. than you should respond to that person if a question is asked. If the time is taken to initiate a conversation, of any type, and the person you contact asks a question in return don't you think you should respond?

Absolutely you can still do a recommendation. Just because you saw her about a month ago doesn't change the fact that in your opinion she is worthy of a reco. To my knowledge there is no rule here on Cerb saying a reco. has to be written within a certain time frame. I am sure a month is quite acceptable and I know the members would appreciate the information.

Mods entire list can be found by clicking on the "Rules and FAQ" button at the top of the screen.

So here it is three months since I first met Cathy, a long three months at that. Well I had the perfect solution to the long period of time and to the cool fall weather and that solution was supposed to be a duo session with Cathy and Angel last week. However, due to my ever evolving schedule it was not meant to be...at least for now. But as I say "my schedule giveth and my schedule taketh away." By that I mean my schedule had me travelling recently and put me close...very close to Cathys in call location. So without hesitation I contacted her in order for us to catch up on...well each other. Let me say that when I saw her originally she was in great shape, well ladies and gentlemen she is in EXCELLENT physical shape now. To call her a "hard body" is not doing her justice, what a fine physical form! It was also great to see that her skills had not diminished and her mind remained oh so very open. Cathy is a lady who is very open, creative and far from shy once a certain level of trust and comfort is reached. So as is the case with most if not all dates YMMV but I have no complaints about the mileage I receive. So to sum up I honestly and faithfully recommend Cathy to any and all prospective, but respectable, "clients!" However anyone that plans on seeing her should be well aware of the "physical demands" placed on the male body due in no small part to her.

Here is the link to the rest of Sierras recommendations.

With a headache, really? Angel I have left your locale light headed but never with a headache.;) Back to the topic at hand. Although I enjoy the smell of lightly scented candles others do not, for varying reasons. As Ava has already pointed out some people have alergies or sensitivities to various scents or aromas therefore they can not enjoy themselves fully during the encounter. I actually had a lady ask me in a pm prior to us meeting if I had any allergies or sensitivities that might be brought on by her choice of candles or incense. At the time I never thought anything of it...that is until I read this thread. A wise question indeed!

Firstly let me contribute to the ever growing choir of well wishers who say "thank you" and "don't worry about it." Your work, time, effort, etc. is appreciated if not truly understood by all of us. On another somewhat related topic, related since MOD himself brought it up, is there any new developments on the council idea? If so perhaps you (MOD) could bring us up to date in a seperate thread?

One thing that I have learned since I started meeting the ladies of Cerb is that I didn't know what I thought I knew. When I first started in this hobby my opinions, beliefs and general thoughts were very different than they are now. One might say my eyes, ears and mind were not completely open to the way the world of respectable hobbying goes. I am somewhat embarrassed to say that my beliefs at the time were very stereotypical of the world of prostitution. Being educated, thoughtful and therefore knowledgeable I very much believed the media when it reported on my soon to be hobby of choice...boy was I wrong. Thankfully I am a quick learner and after a very short period of time, and some pointers by a local lady, I refined my approach and beliefs. My eyes, ears and mind are now very much open to the different aspects of the hobby!

I am not sure if any of these movies actually are "hidden gems" but I am going to list them regardless. The Libertine - Johnny Depp Thirteen Days - Bruce Greenwood and Kevin Costner Evelyn - Pierce Brosnan The Tailor of Panama - Pierce Brosnan and Geoffrey Rush

Enjoy yourself and have a happy birthday!

Honestly I have never admitted to anyone that I have a "hobby" such as this and I can not ever see myself telling anyone. It is not that I am ashamed, fearful, nervous or anything of the sort. To be truthful I don't think people that are not involved in this "hobby" of mine can or would understand it as a whole. Generally speaking I find that unless people are experienced in something, prostitution in this case, they will never fully understand it. I know what I am doing and I understand the risks and benefits of "hobbying" and I am both comfortable with and prepared for the consequences. This however does not mean that I will ever take any unnecessary risks...especially by talking about it. In my view discretion starts and ends with the decisions I make and the fewer people in my "other life" that know about my lady friends the better and safer it is for me and my marriage.

It seems as though Carlos has edited, to the point of deletion, the original offending post at 10:50a.m. this (Saturday) morning and the reason given "stupid post."

I thought I should take a moment to publicly apologise to my friends here on Cerb who I have seemingly neglected as of late. As I have said in a few late responses to some pm's my non Cerb life has been "complicated" as of late and I haven't had the time, energy, confidence or even willingness to be as sociable as I normally would have been. To that end I apologise to you all and thank you all for taking time out of your schedule to tolerate my short comings. Thank you, Steve(curious)

Seems as though we have lost sight of the big picture here since, as redmachine points out, there was a 16yr old present! Perhaps we should all be more concerned about the presence of a minor as opposed to finding out who the lady or ladies are! Excellent point redmachine thank you for providing perspective.

Ordinarily during discussions such as this I would let the offender "hang himself" sort of speak but I feel the need to comment. As Mod has pointed out some of your recent posts are being flagged...for good reason I might add. I have no idea why you felt the need to post this, or any other questionable topic, but I encourage you to stop it IMMEDIATELY! If you don't like it here no Cerb no one is making you stay. Afterall I believe it was you who posted in a recent thread that after three years on Cerb you were leaving...but here you remain posting questionable topics! Why!?

Happy birthday...hope you enjoyed your day.

Hope you had a great day, happy birthday.

Wayne's World, Liar Liar, Happy Gilmore, Austin Powers, Dumb & Dumber, There's Something About Mary and American Pie among others.