stevecurious

Great to know...I stand corrected and glad to be!

Sadly I do not think this is a workable plan as PEI just doesn't have the population to sustain such a tour. Evidence of this is Emilys recent cancellation of her trip to PEI for varying reasons. If we "Islanders" can't get it together for Emily, one of THE BEST, to visit then I don't know who else may try??

Too bad...the CEO of Dominos would love what you would do for his financial statements!

No need to apologize Emily everything that you said should go without saying! Further to that anyone who feels the need to accept your apology probably isn't worth meeting anyway! As you said everyone has a life outside of Cerb and the SP/hobbyist relationship and therefore unforeseen situations can arise on both ends (yours and ours). That is no reason to blatantly waste someones time or disrespect them in anyway. Unfortunately we have all had to cancel a date with a lady who we really wanted to see either for the first time or as a "repeat offender" as Alley Allure would say. Sadly I had to cancel on you recently, and although that was difficult I knew YOU would not be disrespecting me either in public or private. The same applies in reverse gentlemen! Respect is something your mother should have taught you a long time ago!

I didn't realize that there were 10-15 ladies in total on CL.

I have been pondering a question that has been bothering me as of late. I am wondering why do certain people, and for the purpose of this thread by people I mean "the ladies," not respond in a prompt manner to email's or PM's? I have tried to contact a certain lady twice in the past week to week and a half. I have yet to get a response! I understand that I might not be worthy of a response if my messages were crude, ignorant, inappropriate or consisted of some other form disrespectful language. I think I can confidently say that I have NEVER posted or sent a disrespectful message! So I am left wondering does this person not want my business? Because that is essentially what we are all engaged in...a business of sorts. I can not for the life of me (wow that is a real Maritime saying) figure out why people do not respond to messages in a prompt manner. Obviously I have seen something in either her website, her profile or just her profile picture that caused me to explore a possible meeting. I also know that she has visited my profile page here on Cerb and would thus know that I am not some crazed axe murderer with a poor reputation. Having said all of that I realize that peoples lives are busy and complicated both personal and professional I mean. So obviously a little bit of time to respond is both given and expected but really a week and a half while still being active on Cerb?? If she does not want to meet could a simple reply stating that she is not available, not interested or possibly just has to wash her hair on that day be too much to ask? I must also clarify that not all ladies are this way, in fact before this I had yet to message a lady on Cerb who has not responded promptly and professionally! So there it is one of my annoyances as it were, so please ladies and gentlemen if you are contacted by someone be respectful enough to respond to the message in a polite and prompt manner!

Another great one from "Diamonds Are Forever" Bond: I tend to notice little things like that--whether a girl is a blonde or a brunette... Tiffany: And which do you prefer? Bond: Well, as long as the collars and cuffs match...(shrugs)

MOD, wondering if there have been any new developments concerning the topic of this thread? Is there anything new to share with the Cerb community? Thanks

OMG that is a description of me...well except for the 6'2 part. Oh well guess I missed my chance...pathetic!

Point taken, I believe I must have misread one of your previous posts and assumed a level of responsibility where in fact there is none. My mistake...D'oh!

MOD did the correct thing here, he/they have a responsibility to protect Cerb and its clientele from ANYTHING resembling underage activities. You should ask yourself "do I want to get caught with a 17 year old high school girl?" If the answer is yes you don't belong here! If the answer is no you should retract your post. This board is not a forum for slander, gossip, excessive drama or anything illegal or illicit! We (SP's and Hobbyists) are all here for essentially the same reason to meet one another in a safe, fun and legal manner. Underage activity jeopardizes all of us! To continue to support such activities and businesses is wrong both morally and legally! If MOD were to allow such posts with the knowledge that the poster was underage Cerb could be targeted by law enforcement! Further to that MOD may very well have kept some Cerb men out of legal trouble by addressing this situation publicly. These are my thoughts and my views and I don't expect everyone to agree with me on everything, but on this topic I believe all reputable members of Cerb will agree with me! I must also ask this question since I am in a particularly inquisitive mood. Are you associated with Dylans Finest? I am curious why a random poster would be concerned about the financial situation of a business...any business???

To quote Glen Quagmire from Family Guy: Huh, huh soccer moms awww right...giggity, giggity, giggity!

One of my all time favorites from Goldfinger (James Bond): Bond: “Who are you?” Pussy: “My name is Pussy Galore.” Bond: “I must be dreaming.”

I agree, it is always interesting to hear the original posters views on their own thread! An interesting way to keep the thread fresh and intersting with a possible plot twist??

Although I do not feel guilty seeing a twenty year old I find that I do not (generally speaking) connect mentally with ladies this young. I find that a woman who is more experienced...with life in general has more to offer.In my experience younger ladies are more concerned with getting you in and getting you off! Where as women of an older age are more open to conversation and getting to know you prior to "going into the other room."

I have heard of this before from some well known and respected ladies. At first I took issue with it, seeing as I am in my late twenties. However after I took a step back and looked at it from HER point of view I started to understand why ladies have this opinion. Charlotte is quite correct if you are under the ladies age limit as it were and you are able to conduct an initial contact in an adult manner you will usually be lucky enough to meet that particular lady. FYI the first impression you get of a person who uses: gr8, dis, dat, u, luv, etc. in his opening email is generally not good.

After reading and replying to this thread I am wondering how old is too old for a CLIENT? Ladies what age client is too old for you to see? Guys how old will you be when you stop hobbying?

Sure, why not? Much better to start a conversation as opposed to a straight up poll. You can gain much more insight this way than simply asking a yes or no question.

Physical condition and appearance aside I believe it is inevitably up to both the lady and the clients she has as to what age is too high. To some 40 maybe too high, to others 50, still others may find 35 to be "over the hill." Since this conversation is not about physical appearances it is all dependant on individual tastes and beliefs as to how old is too old. I believe this industry is like every other industry. As long as you are willing and capable to perform the tasks demanded of you in your work place it should be up to you to determine when it is time to retire! Personally speaking I find a mature more experienced woman much preferable than a younger less mature girl. There are aspects of life that a mature lady can conversate with you that a younger girl may not be aware of...yet. Of course I am speaking in general terms and by no means am I lumping all ladies into two categories of "young and old." Strictly speaking I find ladies who are over, let's say 30 years of age for an arbitrary number, to be much more fun and confident than someone who is less "seasoned."

Stacey, I am wondering if you have asked these questions with the intent to possibly incorporate them into your list of offered services? If so it is a very inventive way to gauge the demand for said services!

I imagine that this is a similar issue as kissing to a lot of ladies. Not everything is shared in a "SP/client" situation. To state such a personal preference publicly takes a lot of guts!

I don't necessarily believe that the lady has to scream or moan during the session. After all as Stacey had previously mentioned some women breathe heavily during ogasm. Having an orgasm does not require loud shouts or screams. As long as the lady is indeed enjoying the sensation whatever natural response occurs is fine with me. I find over the top screaching, as in porn, to be annoying and rather dishonest. I would much rather a natural response over one designed to stroke my ego!

I believe an SP that provides as many services as possible is just that much more fun to see and potentially see again! Although an "economical" choice "full service" tends to lack some of the excitement of full GFE. I believe the use of toys can be fun and exciting, for both, if done right. However it can be slightly mechanical if either party is not into the act. As far as MSOG and COB go I believe both are important aspects of a GFE service but as I have already said if you go with FS you are generally not looking for these options. I tend to gravitate to GFE ladies, especially ones who offer a wider variety of services. I find having options open to me is the most rewarding and worthwhile. So to answer your question yes to toys, MSOG, COB and maybe some other choices as well...

Yes, yes and yes!

Be sure when you do contact a lady and request "what is on the menu" that you do it tactfully and respectfully! It would be best not to ask this question in your initial email. You will have the best results by starting an adult conversation and leaving out such details until later conversations. Remember most "first dates" with an SP are not finalized in your initial contact.