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In the Maritimes I think if you want to start an agency there are several things you should be cautious of. Competition can be catty. With other agencies booking fake appointments and sending you on calls that aren't legit. Also if you are going to open a new agency you will immediately be on the radar L.e. From what I've seen they usually don't bother people involved in the. Business as long as there is no issues and business is kept generally low key I think there are pros and cons to agency vs independent. My personal opinion is for the area that your isn indepedent is the way to go When opening an agency your biggest cost will be advertising. Yellow pages ads, internet ads. And ibdont think you should hire someone I think you should alternate shifts between women working so that way clients can feel assured trgt their privacy and discretion is maintained That is just my personal opinon, but whatever you may decide I wish you the best and good luck in the future Take care and happy new year

Over the Christmas holidays I had a request from a client who is not from my province. He had requested a duo which I had arranged. He than cancelled due to funds unavailable and than rescheduled and than calncelled. Than wanted an appointment with just me to which he cancelled again Because of the constant planning and cancelling I asked him to pay 150.00 cancellation fee and he seemed quite agreeable to this idea I received a message from him this morning with accusations that he has text messages on his cell phone saying that he better pay up or else and do right by her or else. I never gave his cell phone number out at all and I feel like he is just saying these so that he has a reason to not pay the cancellation fee, which I find extremely pathetic. He is saying that the text messages came from an unavailable number that he can not propvide - but not once have i ever received a text from a number that did not show up, as far as I knew this was not possible. A number is always available when a text message is sent It is one thing to not want to pay it - no big deal if he doesnt, but to insult my reputation because he doesnt want to pay is another. I am not even worried about the money anymore, but his accusations are unfair? How should I handle this - just ignore the message and forward the members name to the SP only area? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated

First time posting is no excuse for ignorance. What you are requesting is something that puts us ALL at jeopardy and at risk for disease. It is obvious it is a real question but it is a completely careless question. There is no way to prove to an SP or a Client that you are completely clean unless you went and got tested together and remained side by side until the results were returned. Seriously think your question through a few more times... I dont think Ill be the only one disgusted with this.

Luckily for me we 'click' lol

I offered to host one previously, and I am not quite sure the men of PEI are able to handle it :P

That's exactly what I was saying, in case it wasn't meant for intentional ignorance I was kindly trying to salvage a situation that could've moved forward from the awkward moment, but obviously if it happens again his intentions were just as the original situation. Slap in the face is a definite NO NO - ESPECIALLY if not agreed about previously Some people go into split personality mode during sex and change dramatically..

Is there a location where we are able to see the amount of points that we give to someone when we do give them rep points?

I completely agree but not one red flag went up beforehand. He was very kind and sweet and nothing made me uncomfortable until that moment. You're right though, I am greatful that this is not an ongoing situation cause the awesome clients definitely outweigh the disrespectful ones Also to add further to my post. My intent here was not to air out dirty laundry. I posted it within the PEI area because it is E member from my area, but beside this incident I feel that this does need to be mentioned. And because I am unaware of who made told this new member I decided to address it to everyone since obviously I am not the only one this happens to Sometimes people don't change theirQ actins unless they see there are consequences and I dont think for a second that the member who divulged out private info about our encounterhad any knowledge that this would happen, but the reason I posted my situation was so maybe those who like to eiscuss encounters could see that although innocent intentions can have negative outcomes. As Pete said previously some people just like to exagetate and I think thus may have been the issue here. I see other threads meant to bring light to topics by discussing personal situations and that is all I meant by this

Hey Darlin' I know this is an old post but I have the answer :P I am almost sure you would have the shout box back by now, but this exact same incident had happened to me and the reason was there are rules for the shout box and one of them is that you may not post more than one visible post in the shoutbox. Such as there are usually 6 or 7 visual posts until the scroll takes over. The rule wasn't really enforced until some people were just having conversations on the shoutbox and was flooding actual intentful comments. So if you had more than one visible post they took away your shoutbox I think it was for a couple weeks or a month? The reason I know this is because I am guilty of it as well :( lol But now I know and I have it back...Although I have seen it happen several times lately where there have been the same people posting consistantly, I guess it is only forced when someone kicks a stink up over it Hope this helps!

To the wonderful men of PEI I understand the hobbyists of CERB use the pm system to share both positive and negative experiences regarding an SP which I fully believe that it is a vital need when choosing a provider and deciding where your hard earned money goes. My issue with this though is when you start discussing the details of an encounter that are shared between the provider and the hobbyist. Sometimes with a client who I feel comfortable with I sometimes provide services that I would not noramally share with someone I have just met or even if I have met them several times I still may not offer this service for whatever reason I choose I have the right to do so. I am unsure of who it is but there is only a select few of who it could be but I am very hurt and disappointed after an encounter I had here tonight. There is obviously some messages being exchanged back and forth between new hobbyists and regular ones, discussing the events of our date and telling the new hobbyists about things that had gone on during our session. This service is NOT Listed on my website nor have I ever advertised that I would provide this, but tonight I had a first time client attempt to do something that I was definitely not comfortable with. At first I played it cute and told him no I don't do this because sometimes men are not aware in what you are comfortable with - although it would've been nice for him to ask first. He continued to do so over and over until I firmly said NO. In my mind the date was ruined but I was willing to give it one more try and yet again an attempt was made. I stood up and said firmly the date is over and I'm asking you to leave. Only than did he realise how serious I was about how uncomfortable I was and how apologetic he was only than. This man was a lot bigger than I and during this time I felt extremely uncomfortable about the situation on what would happen with me not wanting to partake in this and he did not continue to try anything else after this thankfully. After he had left he had sent me a message apologizing for not listening and I explained to him why you should always listen when a lady does not want you to do something you stop immediately. The response I received was this : ''Maybe if you told me the first time that if I kept going I would lose my money I would've stopped immediately. I lost out big time'' What that told me was he wasn't sorry that I felt scared, and uncomfortable or that my boundaries were crossed. What that told me was that he was sorry he just lost out on his money and that the only person he felt sorry for was himself. I can't make you fellas do anything - but hopefully in reading this, you can see the result in what happens when you divulge too many personal details regarding a private encounter. Although your intentions may be well, each and every encounter is different the same as no two people are alike. For my own personal take on things, If you wish to discuss me to other members please keep the intimate details private and only discuss the quality of the encounter and your opinion on the experience. Thank you

Oh I didn't know that. But I guess in saying yhat if someone i@ going to go to the extent of stealing pics and removing the watermark they will do anything to get it

I have heard some of the women use watermarks on their photos, and that it where their name is transparent across the photo kind of thing, sort of like what photographers do to their picture proofs

I meant to write I hope your first experience was spectacular lol

That was an incredible job, Christan!