Secrets of Victoria

I have seen all the flack in several different sites in regards to these ladies. I usually check through other sites to see just who is in town, and that way I can get a feel for how my week is going to be. Nothing wrong with ladies travelling and advertising their availability, I do believe that most of us do that. The problem that I found in question was the fact that these ladies were advertising themselves under several different names on the same sites at the same times. It just seemed a little obvious due to the fact that the pictures used in their ads were of the same three ladies with the exact same pictures. Coincidence? I'm not sure. Tattoos are a wonderful way of identifying someone, so if your going to show them in pics, use the same name in your ad. I mean, if your going to try to flood the market with advertising, at least use the same ads. If you are going to advertise yourself, at least place your ads and pictures with the same information. Guys that call us, use a variety of methods, believe me, word gets around when you are advertising that you are only 'arrived in Freddy', but guys saw you three weeks ago here. Be truthful in your ads, use pictures that are actually of you. Don't try to flood the market just to get clients, the guys do talk to each other. I too have been a victim of 'flagging' and bashing on cl, and on other sites, so I just stopped using them. I find that the gentlemen that use cerb are more courteous to us as sp's, and I value that. I see that the ladies in question have been suspended as users of this site, as someone basically said in a previous post in this thread, what goes around will come around. Just my two cents on this thought.

I for one will chat a bit with a prospective client. I ask them to contact me by TEXT ONLY to my cell, or by PM message right here on Cerb., and that way I may call them to discuss their needs. I am more than willing to spend the time on an email or private phone conversation, but when someone sends you pm after pm after pm, and still won't give you a contact number for confirmation (or in case I am running late and need to let them know), there has to be an end to the conversation. I ask for a contact, just for reasons such as this, I am running late. Today I was involved in an accident, so therefore I knew that I would not be able to be available for an appointment. After numerous (36) bantering pm's back and forth, I instituted the rule I have again, no contact, no booking. I am doing this from my phone, and have no way of getting through to this one particular person. My ad clearly stated, TEXT with your name/phone number and I will call you. What part of that didn't he get? I understand the need for the clients privacy, but I also need to be able to reach you in emergencies, it's not like I am going to call you up randomly and start a conversation with you. Appointment over, number deleted, unless you ask that I retain it for future appointments. With all of that said, the first thing the client asked me, after noting that my ad was for a 'reduced rate' was to reduce my rate even further! I am not the bargain bin at Walmart here! So for all the gentlemen on here, of which I have had some fabulous conversations, pm's and emails with, thank you for being polite. For the others that don't read the rules on Cerb, where it clearly states: Guys, do not post rates of the ladies and please do not try to get the ladies to lower prices! Discussions here are not to be based on prices. The ladies have the right to choose the price they wish to charge and they have the right to post their rates publicly if they wish to. Even with the ladies permission we ask that you do not post the ladies prices. please read the rules of Cerb first! They are there for a reason.

I absolutely LOVE this post that Emily has put up! I wonder how many of us have had to go through this with clients? I would love to 'steal' this from Emily to put on my website! lol (with her permission of course), so that clients may get a clue. I agree with what Sophia said, with the endless 'sexting'. Too many times I will be in a meeting, and get asked for, 'can u just send a quick pic of you naked so I can get through the day until our time' scenario!! Everyone knows the answer to this will be a very quick no. I am not here for you to jack off too. I have an etiquette that I keep in place, all I ask is that the client respect that, discretion wise, as I know that I am discrete. I would NEVER consider calling someone, unless I was instructed to. And I agree again with the calling form a hotel lobby .... how discrete is that? I love the places that I stay too, and want to keep going back to the upscale places. I am discrete when I walk into your hotel, please have the same respect for me when you walk into mine.

A lot of people have questions about the legality of what we do, and I am so glad to see that some have posted the threads here for anyone to see. The grey areas are what have people confused, but when a client calls for me, they are paying for my time as a 'companion', just like any other job, if I am there, I am being paid. What happens during the course of my time with them, is between two consenting adults and is no one else's business. I have explained it in this way to people that ask. If a guy meets a girl in a bar, buys her a drink or two, then they go to his or her place and have sex, is the girl soliciting or the guy being a 'john'? No. Just as the analogy above, the guy has basically 'bought' services, in a round about way, but still, he has basically paid for sex. That is how I look at it. or you wine and dine a girl for weeks, and in the end you get laid, you've paid something to get it. It is a good thing for people to ask questions, as they should. I for one do callbacks to legitimize the client, unless it is someone that I have seen before, but it is a good checkpoint to have.

I love the names that people have chosen in this thread! I think I might change mine to Miss Kitty Mew, it is actually a name I had for myself when I first started in this industry, and have always thought of going back to it.

I am a firm believer that the rates for time, or donations, that we set for ourselves are done so with a lot of thought in mind. Those that ask for a discount, deal, last minute giveaway, or whatever reason they give, I just don't have time for. Gentlemen are paying us for our time. Our time is valuable, and when we take into consideration what we do to be 'ready' for our gentlemen, it adds up. What the 'discounters' don't realize is the costs of hair, manicures/pedicures, spa treatments, lingerie, clothing, transportation, accommodations, it all costs. If you want us to look good and be as prepared as we can be, then look at the fees that we have set. I, for one, find it very insulting if someone asks me for a lower rate. Does that mean if I give a lower rate I can offer a lower standard of service? OMG I hope not. I like to think that I offer a very high standard of service, and I am sure that all the ladies on this service will agree with that, that they too offer a very high standard of service, so why are we being asked to reduce rates? My advice is to politely refer the potential client to your website (if you have one) that outlines your etiquette page and your rates (most sp's have this right on their etiquette page that fees are not negotiable) or just tell them politely that your fees are what they are, and use your best judgment.

as a newer member on here (but certainly not new to the business) I love the idea of the chat room. But I have to agree with some of the posts that if the cam is not on, its not on for a reason. That reason could be anything, someone else in the room, just stepped out of the shower, etc, and I do believe it disrespectful to ask someone without the cam on, to turn it on. I also agree with being polite. I will say hello upon entering the room, and if someone is private chatting to me, I am very respectful and polite. If I have to leave the room, I say so, as I do have other things to do. I like this site so far and would welcome the opportunity to utilize it more.

I like to think that I am perfectly groomed at all times, but that is not always the case. I do have my usual routine, and I have it down to a 'fine art' how I get it done. There are several styles that I can get into and I have managed to set those styles up so that I can be ready in no time. My dress is always of high quality and I use fine products. What gets to me is the person that will call me, at 5am, asking me to be there in 15 minutes! As though I am sitting at the end of their driveway, just 'praying' that person in particular might call me. A true gentleman will know that a lady cannot be rushed and that appointments are a necessity. It will take me a few minutes just to 'spruce up' what I have already done for the day, but I am not available 24 hours a day, I do sleep at times and have a schedule for personal errands. I cannot go out of the house without checking myself in a full length mirror, and knowing that I am fresh and ready. I always carry a few 'spares' in my purse, such as lipstick, brush, perfume, gum, and have them in small travel sizes. That way I am always ready, just in case.