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For me this is a tricky question. After doing a lot of research here on cerb and listen to a lot of peoples opinions on this subject the one major thing I've picked up is the ladies rates are what they are for a reason. And to me it is disrespectful to negotiate that rate. I also realize that in some cases this might be their sole line of income, and so in that case it is no longer a case of just being disrespectful but also infringing on their livelihood and that is the last thing I would want to do. When I was doing my research on who to see my main concern was looks, personality, and whether or not me and the lady would mesh during the encounter. Money was a factor but at the same time I would rather save my nickels and dimes so that I could see the lady I wanted to see. When I contact a particular lady I've pretty much already made up my mind, it's more or less a final check to see if we will click or to fill in some blanks rather than a negotiation. So in all honesty if at that point a lady suddenly dropped her rates I would question why and I'll admit it might make me more hesitant to see them. Now in my mind it's a little bit different if say a lady is offering a repeat client a deal, or a deal on longer sessions and she specifically states that in her info. But if it's out of the blue it would raise some red flags for me.
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I do believe that people are inherently good and generally take people on their word. That being said though there have been a few occasions in the past that I have trusted people or taken them at their word and have been burned by it. So I guess you could say that I still believe the best in people but I have also learned to be a bit more cautious as I've grown older. Regardless of that though I always try to treat people the way I would want to be treated. It just makes for cleaner concious. And you just never know how much that simple act of kindness or respect could mean to someone, even if it doesn't mean much to you it could mean the world to someone else or just go a long way to really making someone's day.
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Probably one of the sports I'm looking forward to is tennis. I actually do enjoy playing tennis, although I haven't played in a while. Maybe I just need some extra motivation, lol. And well gymnastics, it's amazing watching watching what the human body can do but it also doesn't hurt when the competition looks like this :)
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A very Happy Birthday Alexa Cummings!
tokan replied to spud271's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Happy Birthday Alexa! Hope you have a great one :) -
Yeah Yeah Yeahs - Zero
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Enjoy the vacation Cato :)
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Electric Light Orchestra - Don't Bring Me Down
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What Was The Best Part of Your Day...?
tokan replied to Jade-S (Retired)'s topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Just happen to check my email not today and realized that I had won a free movie from a scene points card contest. Awesome! Best part though is that I almost had enough points for a free movie anyway so it looks like I'll get too see two free movies this summer! Now just have to decide what movies to see. Decisions....Decisions, lol. -
Going to the dentist. Enough said. Fortunately no cavities or other work so all and all wasn't a bad visit. But I always dread going just in case they find a cavity, or worse have to get a root canal. Thankfully already had my wisdom teeth out so don't have to worry about that :)
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I have always been a sucker for a pretty face. There is just something about a woman's smile that can do things to me that nothing else can. I will say this though I am more of an ass man than a tits man, but WIT does have a good point in that sometimes it depends on the situation, lol.
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Hawksley Workman - Striptease
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LL Cool J - Phenomenon
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AC/DC - Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap
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Europe - The Final Countdown http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AyggY_R3jU8
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Nirvana - The Man Who Sold The World
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Sure! Would you ever have sex on the beach?
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Travelling Willburys - Handle With Care
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No, there is no way I'd ever bend over in a prison shower...especially after watching more than a couple episodes of OZ (Nothing to do with the wizard of OZ) and shawshank redemption, lol. Would you take an sp on a weekend camping trip or as an sp go on a weekend camping trip with a client? That includes tents, cabins, or trailers.
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Huey Lewis & The News - The Power Of Love
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What Was The Best Part of Your Day...?
tokan replied to Jade-S (Retired)'s topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Going for a swim in a lake up around Perth on a beautiful day like today. The water was awesome too, almost 80 degrees. Than spending the rest of the day with some of my favourite relatives and getting a few games of washers in, think horseshoes but with metal washers. Just an all around great day :) -
Bob Seger & The Silver Bullet Band - Mainstreet
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Glad to here the party rocked after all the effort everyone put in. Looking forward to hearing some interesting stories from the party :)
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Pink Floyd - Hey You
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Congratulations Boomer On 500 Posts
tokan replied to roamingguy's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Congrats Boomer and well done :) -
The Strokes - 12:51