Derek

Hello wonderful LYLA ladies of Ottawa, My wife and I have been infrequent hobbyists in the city for years. Every experience initiated through this site has been incredible. I'm posting because I'm looking for a lady who'd be interested in a specific type of encounter. To explain I need to give some back story: I'm a 200lb 34yo white male, I've been happily married for 13 years. For the last year I've been doing some personal exploration to decide what the next chapter of my life will bring. I spent the prior 13 years solving technical problems for the government. I hang out with a psychologist every couple of months to have conversations focusing on my experience of life. The thought experiments we engage in range widely. We've played with ideas like trying to use language to express intensity and specificity of emotion. We've engaged in mindful meditation together. Sometimes we just engage in free form dialogue on topics of my choosing. Now my request: I'm looking for ladies in Ottawa who'd be interested in having this type of conversation during an intimate physical encounter with just me. Let me know if this is something you'd be up for and if you're willing maybe say a little about what you'd like get out of an encounter like this. Thanks in advance, Derek

I recently visited Makayla at Vibe Urban Spa. Her online pictures made me feel like I needed to see her. I called a couple of hours before heading to the spa and said I was interested in a nuru massage with Makayla. When I arrived she met me at the door with a big smile. We undressed and she put on some music. When we got out of the shower the nuru gel was already warmed up. The way she moved against my body and the way she touched me was incredible. Her skin is soft and her ass and breasts are perfect. She is an ebony goddess. I'm looking forward to seeing her again.

I agree that some drugs can negatively affect your sex life. I have dealt with some mental health problems. I've taken Effexor, Cymbalta, Lamotrigine, and Seroquel. They all had negative effects on my sex life. The one drug that has consistently helped my sex life has been marijuana. It has increased my desire, strengthened my erections, increased the overall pleasure of the physical experience, increased the intensity of my orgasms, and increased the feelings of intimacy when having sex. I'm sure that marijuana has a negative effect for some people but for some it's definitely a plus. I found a site with a couple of other stories about people having positive experience with sex and marijuana so there are others who like it too. http://nickkarras.com/stories.html

I love boobies. I love them all. They're the very best when they're just a little chilly and their perfect nipples are standing up.

For my nuru massage at Vibe the gel was very warm and quite comfortable.

I lived with someone who went through school to be an RMT. We had a pretty nice place near a beach and we had a hot tub. So our place was the spot where the RMT students would often hold their study sessions. Sometimes they would practice their massage skills on me. It was great. These massages were very therapeutic. Last week I went for my first nuru massage. It was with Makayla at Vibe Urban Spa. It was amazing. It wasn't a therapeutic massage but I don't feel like it was supposed to be. Instead it was an extremely intimate and sensual experience. It was the most relaxed I had ever felt. Traditional massage and nuru massage are very different from each other. Both are wonderful.

I think I would rather visit the ladies slightly less often and use that extra money to provide a nice tip on each visit. I'm not sure if this makes sense but it seems like a good idea to me.

This site is great. The rules in place make it a really good resource for learning about this wonderful hobby. I've been visiting the site of and on for almost two years and last week I finally went out and had my first experience. Now I've got to get up to my five post count so that I can write a recommendation about the amazing time I spent with Makayla at Vibe Urban Spa.