Wallace48

Sad to say still in Calgary but visit Playmates in Ottawa when I can

I can understand that point of view too. It is just beyond my ( limited ) experience. Be interested in other SP points of view.

What do you think of this? http://www.torontosun.com/2014/01/12/a-strip-club-plan-for-one-stop-sex Maybe some of this is already going on such as playmate/sweet300

Just saw an ad of interest and went to website to learn SP does not see men over 60. Surprised.

I never thought of proposing "by time" rather " by song". What have you done in terms of time blocks and what did you manage to negotiate? Not trying to be a cheapskate here even willing to do this even if it cost a bit more - just counting songs is so distracting. More on calgary: -most of the time especially during the day and early evening dancers to not go around approaching clients. After 8:00 a few will but generally you must book a dance through the DJ and pay for it at the bar. You can't pay thr dancer. -dancers are paid a salary and dances are added minus tipping out. - dancer I liked said we could go upstairs to where the real SR's were and the rate was $120 for 30 minutes still no contact though. -one club ing the north provides private booths - the other club in the south has just one large room with about 10 lazyboys/love seats and too well lit for my liking

With so many lovely tattoos are you really naked? Love your images

As a social liberal I object to racial filtering but I have been told by girls that some cultural groups have attitudes towards women that are just plain wrong.

The concept of paying by song is irritating and I believe I was cheated a couple of times. The girls in calgary set a timer but the downside is no contact.

I suspect the Tories will kick this can down the road. Since we have a British common law tradition this would not be bad

Must be nervous of the "bored walk"

Confined to the house and training an eight week old puppy. Sigh.

While I travel to Ottawa occasionally and use cerb I live in Calgary where CAF (canada adult fun) has most information I find cerb to be the most engaging.

Just got back from the Dr. Renewed cialis which is sometimes called the "weekend pill" since it lasts 36 hours while I also tried Viagra good for 6 hours ( confirmed at least personally )

What a well written article! I suspect the Tories have no stomach for this issue given an election is looming. They are embroiled in so many other hot issues, senate issues and more. Mandatory minimum sentences and fines thar accompany prison sentences among them should discourage a high profile legal set back. Really a "do nothing" policy would strategically be in their best interest. As a fiscally conservative but socially liberal voter I will be voting liberal. Liked Jack Layton but new leader seems sinister.

While I agree racism is not acceptable i know from chatting in photo sessions with SPs that they are reluctant to see some men who posess some culturally instilled attitudes they hold towards women. Additional Comments: there are also a few that will not meet those younger or older than certain ages. Additional Comments: I have talked to some girls and they feel a need to exclude some individuals with socially and culturally unacceptable attitudes. Since the find it difficult to filter individuals feel compelled to generalize racially or culturally (do I hear some muslim here?)

I must agree with Bridgette with regards to conversation. I have been amazed more than once by chatting to dancers who have fascinating backgrounds and talents ( in the arts, hobbies) beyond dancing in a club. Additional Comments: I should also add that I respect dancers who will invest a lot of time chatting but not get a dance. It is also great for my ego. I was mostly tongue tied talking with pretty women.

Should be interesting to see how the Sweet300 and Playmate combo evolves if the prostitution laws remain in limbo although they are to be considered in force for the next year. Occasionally dancers will suggest going upstairs to 300 where a room can be rented

So if you don't go upstairs is there another option I should consider? Thanks.

Hmmm If Toronto has Ford then do we have Dodge? Coming on my annual trip to Ottawa soon. I save my spare lunies for this. Was invited to go upstairs with a girl last time. Have forgotten the details. Am I correct in remembering room rent is $50 and you negotiate with the girl? Has anyone experienced this ? Are the couches wide enough for side by side reclining?

Hi I take the 2.5 daily. It keeps me ready and the dr. Recommended it as it works positively with my blood pressure meds - isn't it fun to age?!

What do the booths in the cr look like?

Looking for recommendation for a provider/dancer who provides a private lap Dance possibly ending in a happy ending.

Well I am back home now after my annual junket to Ottawa on a mixture of business and pleasure. I am a professional photographer. I decided to visit Playmate on several occasions and since I try to go into every situation understanding all the rules and practices I want to thank several members of this thread who answered early questions. I thoroughly enjoy the intimate atmosphere in this club. The staff are friendly and not pushing drinks at every time and the girls are low key and seem really wanting to make a connection before offering a private dance. All in all I went there four times over ten days. Some observations: -I was able to touch the most intimate parts of every girl who I engaged for a private dance. There was only one exception - a very tall blonde from Madrid Spain who gently moved my hand away. I completely respect those kinds of boundaries. She had a very exciting figure as I love very tall girls with narrow hips. -Emma patiently explained how it works if I was interested in renting a private room and inviting a girl along. I was amused since she asked in the end if I was hypothetically interested in a private room but at that point it was too early for me to take that step. -The most exciting girl I met was called Lolita. She was milk chocolate in colour and had blondish dreadlocks. She spoke with a French accent but I think she must have been originally from the Caribbean. She was visiting from Toronto. She certainly turned me on. She flashed bright pink "lips" during her dances on stage. In the CR her hands were all over me and she allowed the most intimate of touches. Kissing lips was a definite no but everything else was ok. She had little dark nipples and loved kisses down her throat and behind her ears. She was very complementary about the size of my member since she touched and stroked it frequently. She also loved to unbutton my shirt and seemed turned on by my chest hair.She was visiting from Toronto where she lives with her daughter but loved Playmate and wants to become a regular visitor. -Another girl who turned me on was a very tall black girl. She also had roaming hands and was generous in access. She did offer some extras including a trip upstairs. I can't remember her name but I learned that our esteemed colleague the "General" was there and I noticed they had had a dance together. For me, this was unusual since I love black girls but have not had a lot of success in the CR with them. -Well I could go on and on. I only get to come to Playmate once a year so I save up all year. I guess it was noticed since on my very last night a dancer came over for a chat and said something like "aren't you a bit of a pervie - back again?" One of the things I do in Ottawa is try to support the gay community and I take family and individual portraits. I met a lesbian girl who I am going to call "Jamie". So as I photographed her we chatted and I explained about attending the Playmate. She said that she would love to go to a strip bar as she has never done that before and I promised to check it out. I checked with management to make sure she would be welcome (in Calgary there always seems to be girls enjoying the shows) and was told that she would be welcome and there was no issues with her asking girls for a private dance. So we arrived and she was so excited. It was like being with a kid on his very first trip to a candy store. She kept commenting on girls and gradually settled on which ones really turned her on. As well as the manager, I had talked with Emma about hosting her first dance just in case other girls were standoffish but she was not working that night. Jamie needed go to the washroom and when she walked in the door (she was dressed very much like a boy) she was told by a girl, "hey this is the girls' washroom". Jamie explained that she was a girl and the dancer said "oh, you are - sorry but we get guys coming in here all the time and have to chase them out. Jamie learned that this girl was called Brianna. She came out and my ever helpful Lolitta offered to see if she could broker a dance. Brianna admitted that she had never danced for a girl before but she was indeed willing (very professional). Jamie came back from the dance so excited and turned on. I suspect her vibrator got a heavy workout that night. So sad I had to leave Ottawa and no longer able to settle into the Playmate for a very pleasant few hours. You might be interested in reading my SP review of Loraine Lacey

Well, based on your review I made an appointment with Loraine for early in the week. There was a lot in your review that appealed - in particular that she was able to give a credible massage. I arrived a little early and she invited me up. Her condo was indeed clean and neat and the bathroom provided a large shower. At the start of the massage she gave me a list of the "extras" that I could choose from but I thought I would wait and see how things developed. I thoroughly enjoyed the chat and together with her lovely touch asked if I could opt for full service. So we finished the massage and retired to the bedroom off the massage area. I had already warmed to her gentle, kind and sort of quiet personality that, combined with a firm little body, shaved pussy certainly increased my excitement. We finished the session with another chat and a cup of tea. She told me about a book she had been writing over the past ten years. It is posted on her website. In the intervening few days I had a read of the book and asked a few questions and made a few comments. I was leaving town so I booked another appointment. This time I asked for reverse massage followed by full service so after a few minutes to catch up she laid face down on the table and I gave her a massage. My "junior" certainly got excited and when I massaged between her thighs she certainly made pleasure noises as I proceeded to stroke those intimate parts. Finally, she flipped over an I enjoyed massaging her front. I did her legs and shoulders and paid particular attention to those little nipples of hers. Later in bed we talked about fantasies and I was delighted to hear that she would not only indulge my fantasy of gently spanking a pretty bum but she would enjoy it. Well that ended in a orgasm for her and one later for me! We ended with another cup of tea. She is certainly what I would call a gentle soul

Hello all I went to PM this evening and it was very quiet. I only come to Ottawa once a year and I sort of take an erotic vacation while I am here. I have booked an SP and a MP while here. Anyway, I went to PM tonight and it is slightly a time warp. I booked one dancer who offered me a bj in the booth and asked if I was interested in "fucking" her up stairs. She asked if I knew about upstairs and I did not. I think it is a good idea and a safe way for girls to work. Do all dancers offer services upstairs or just some. How does one know. The first dancer was good but did not turn me on. The second said she was from Sicily and she was rather exciting. I have a policy of limiting myself to one or two dances initially to see how things go. I agreed to one dance with this girl and she-was pretty open to my touches. At one point I reminded her that she said she would watch the clock and then she said this is dance number three. So I said whoa I booked for only one dance. We had a testy conversation and I paid $30. She was sweet though so no regrets. Does anyone have "upstairs" experience to share?