Madmaili

Nice, where are we talking about specifically? The two clubs at gatineau are where people get irritatingly social, and when I comment about the food I'm mainly talking about Barbellas where I go because the clients and the girls are less social generally.

I have a confession to make , I'm new so new to the whole hobby thing, primarily because the situation feels weird to me. I go to strip clubs every once in a while and lap dances are fun but you know that a lap dance has boundaries and there is something reassuring about it being a public business environment where everyone knows what everyone else is doing ect. I once screwed up the courage to see an sp though, (can I name the agency?), I arranged the appointment and arrived on time only to have some door difficulties the text message kept saying buzz #123 and I kept not getting a reply. 5 confusing minutes later I get a text from the SP telling me that she does not see black people. People have and are entitled to their racist preferences, but I think for the sake of the client they should publicize them, it might hurt their business but frankly they hired her. In the trade of between the agency's name and my time why is it that it's my time that is sacrificed?

I'm sure someone has mentioned these already but here goes : 1) Dudes you don't know talking to you, every time I go for a smoke the guy next to me acts like its a god dam social. This never happens at regular bars or nightclubs only at strip clubs late at night and its annoying. I'm not social by nature but I'm also very averse to rude conduct catch .22 2) Lunch buffets, the food looks disgusting and smells even worse, they leave it out for too long and when I'm sitting next to it at least 1 in 5 dudes who approach the food touch it with their hands, jesus there's a large pasta spoon dude use it.

It is. Its a dancers prerogative to approach me or not, and I dont mind that they don't but it does annoy me to high heaven when a dancer walks up to a guy sitting next to me and spends 30 minutes "playing the game" with him before asking him if he would like to go for a dance but that same dancer strolls over to my table and just asks me if I want a dance right away, not even a hello or how are you. Like I said I'm not a social person as a matter of fact one of the primary reasons I go to strip clubs is because no one I know is likely to be there and I can drink in peace, and I rarely get a lap dance, but this kind of behaviour annoys me. Nope, as a matter of fact whenever a girl approaches me I feel bad and try to as politely as possible cut straight to the no so she doesn't waste too much time on me.

That's why I like going during slow days, because there is less rucus and because while hanging out and not buying dances might not be rude actively sabotaging the dancers by hogging a table on a busy day is just malicious. Right, but there is a certain fantasy element in the strip club visit for me at least, a dancer who just walks up to me and says "wanna dance" is not playing to it just being all direct which is boring. I'm tall and muscular and rarely smile, yeah it could be that I look scary to some although in fairness the bouncers are usually my size or bigger at most places. Your probably right I usually have a shhh I'm watching a movie look on my face. I usually hit the same places this is true, but I do get a dance on occasion, and maybe I just have poor memory but the day shift at most strip clubs is a lot more varied than the night shift. People do sometimes assume I'm a cop, the buzz cut and the constant cell phone checking probably do not help Thanks for the replies guys, sorry I bunched them all up but i have a moderated account and an individual reply to each response might have given the mod a seizure. :icon_wink:

So I have a question for ye gentlemen of more hobby experience: I don't usually go to strip clubs with people, since I prefer to get my perv on all alone. Yet whenever I go to a strip clubs the dancers rarely approach me, I buy my drink and just sit there and dancers approach all the other guys in the club but not me. In the rare instances that they do its always a direct " do you want a dance" rather than " hi my name is...". Usually I refuse those offers, and I am not complaining about the lack of approach since I don't really like lap dances (all dressed up with no where to go) and I don't mind the lack of chit chat since I am not a social person by nature. However I was just curious is it rude if I come in buy drinks and just watch the floor show? Does the management care? Do the girls perceive me as creepy?

Went there last night, very limited selection but the girls and staff were incredibly nice. Also despite the fact that the club was empty there wasn't much parking outside you should plan on some walking.

They seem to exist , and are according to these guys good at what they do. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=86298