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Late into this, but if you have an iPhone or one of the newer BlackBerries (9900/9850/9810), the best option imo for a second number is Dell Voice. While it does require your address, it does so for the sole purpose of directing police in an emergency. Put a fake address if you so wish. As well, you can indicate where your local calling region is and get a local number. I travel a lot between Ottawa/Montreal/Toronto. I use Dell voice for a Montreal number to hand over to clients from Quebec, and as long as the app is running in the background, I can receive calls. Long distance within Canada is free (or anywhere you have wifi). And you also have a voicemail option. https://itunes.apple.com/ca/app/dell-voice-free-phone-app/id473770452?mt=8

I love my mom, and cannot imagine childhood without her. But I love that I have a father too, and even though we are very different people with little common interests, I am ever grateful of his presence, wisdom, and teachings throughout my life. I'm sorry if this point is a repeat (I tried to read as much of the other comments, but there are a lot!), but think of it from the child's perspective. They are successful single parents out there, but why intentionally subject a child (or in the case of twins or more) to that? Personally, I think the potential love for whoever carries my genes far outweighs any primal urge to continue on my line. My 2 very humble pennies

Scrabble Monopoly - I'm the guy who always wins this and want to kill at the end of the game because I become insanely greedy and cruel Risk Chess

If I had a friend who happens to be an escort, I couldn't care less. If I'm seeing an escort, and we started being more friendly (non romantically, just casual mutual interests), I'd like to think that I'd be open enough to have no problems with it at all. But then being intimate with a person, and being friends with them, I'd be a bit cautious that I might develop some feelings for them. Not to say that I'd hit the brakes if an escort I see and I are becoming more friendly, I'd just like to be very careful at that point, and set up boundaries.

As a straight guy, after that description, I gotta say, I'm curious on how he looks now

As a single person, I said something along the lines... I'm heading out, see you later

I still feel weird calling it a hobby, but it seems to be the prevailing word here to describe meeting an escort. So as some of you may remember, I lost my virginty to an SP, a positive experience looking back. However, at this age, I am supposed to be at the peak of my physical ability, but feel far from it. Looking back, I'm at times at awe with all the stuff I used to be able to do, before I started to live a much more sedetentary lifestyle combined with my love for lavish food. Obviously not a good combo. After meeting Peachy, I had an even higher respect for escorts. I'm sorry if this sounds shallow, but on top of the utter dedication an sp shows her client (a good sp), she maintain's her own health. I have no idea why this was a big realizaton, or a realization at all, but it was one for me. And it clicked, and it was the first step for accepting that I would die much earlier, struggle much more, and enjoy life a lot less if I kept on this path. I find myself wanting to slip a lot, but instead of giving myself food rewards, I thought I'd visit an SP for every milestone. And not simple ones, but time regulated ones that would probably last months. Anyhow, 20 lbs, 4 months later, I did just that. Felt a little bit more confident, lighter, and that spring to my step following just seemed to be higher. Just as long as I followed a no crash diet rule. A lot of people say this industry is wrong. Well, this might be one that gives me years of healthy life to live.

About a year and a half ago, I came across Jessica's Nuru website, and wondered to myself, what if I allow myself this one indulgence, wouldn't it be awesome? Soon forgotten, I happened across her website a few months ago, and I found Cerb, and all you wonderful cerbies actually through it. And because our schedules didn't match up, I didn't get the chance to see her. I promised myself, at the beginning of May, that if I lost 20 lbs by eating right and working out, instead of rewarding myself with something fatty and counter-productive, I'd go and see her. Well, 20 lbs lighter, I can say it was well beyond what I had imagined it would be. During the session, I found myself thinking, there's no way I just feel this good, that's just not fair. A little about the session, I had booked a 60 minute Nuru, with an additional 30 minute massage. As her website states, we started off with a nice shower, and despite my bumbling awe of what was happening, she went well beyond what I imagined would be possible, and safe in a bath tub. The massage was a surprise, a very very good one. You will definitely want to opt for that option. And the famous nuru did not disappoint. Ever seen those nuru videos? If not, google it. It gives you an idea of what it's all about. I can say that it is much more erotic than it looks. Now for me, it was a way better experience than I could've asked for. I feel like writing every little detail of every little moment, since it all contributed to an amazing time. But I feel that no matter how well I say it, it just won't even come close to experiencing it. Besides, there were one or two surprises that I thoroughly enjoyed, why spoil it? Oh, and the pictures don't do her justice (and I like the pictures too) So to conclude, on four separate occasions since yesterday, I've had to give some lame excuse as to why I had a silly smile on my face (one of my friends is convinced I've eaten some special brownies). It's a problem I don't mind dealing with :D

Never been to either. Went to Mexico, Riviera Maya. Loved every moment of it.

As a kid (around grade 7), it became for some reason acceptable among my classmates to swear, so I started to as well. It was exciting to say one of those adult words, like I was playing with fire (I was a kid in a very conservative society). About a year later, in school among my friends I swore constantly. Instead of umm...I'd replace it with fuck. I learned how to swear in 4-5 different languages. And then it just kinda hit me that I was being quite stupid. I'm not saying that I don't swear any more, I just save it for when I really mean it. I started to be more angrier and aggressive just by the words I was using. Anyhow, I don't care how someone speaks. I just tend to avoid those (subconsciously) or being turned of by those who seem to swear for no apparent reason. I stopped, by stopping completely. Catching myself, and just being more careful. Of course, it's completely different when a girl says "Hey, wanna fuck?". That's just hot So if nothing else, get it in the right context!

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This question has been mentioned as a big no no for very obvious reasons. All the more surprising when an MA I visited indirectly told me without me asking or going near that subject (it was oddly related to something completely different to what we were talking about). It didn't creep me out or leave me with any negative reaction, it just surprised me, at the time, I remembered thinking it wasn't something spoken about usually.

I'm confused about this one, what does this even mean? 13 might have been asked due to a previous bad experience (a member posted here about an SP he was with that informed another client that she'd be with him in the matter of minutes while he was still in the room).

As far as I'm concerned, this would make it one of my favourite books if my S.O. reacted like this :D

I'm not too experienced in this area, but I know a few that are. Boudoir photographers are ideal for what you want, and if you're camera shy, then perhaps a female one is for you (There are some amazing male ones out there). When it comes to boudoir photography (or any other out there), just like everything else you get what you pay for. A good friend of mine starts at $450 for a session that includes 8 full resolution images (whichever the client selects). She lets her clients purchase additional images a la carte. I would say she is in the mid range for her market in terms of skill and price. A quick search got me this: http://www.google.ca/webhp?rlz=1C1CHFX_enUS453US453&sourceid=chrome-instant&ie=UTF-8#hl=en&rlz=1C1CHFX_enUS453US453&output=search&sclient=psy-ab&q=boudoir%20photographer%20new%20brunswick&oq=&gs_l=&pbx=1&fp=c0a71f853a7e4a00&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.r_qf.,cf.osb&biw=1280&bih=923 Let them know you don't want your image to be posted in their portfolio (some photographers charge extra for that). You don't need to tell them what you do, it's none of our concern (At least unless I'm shooting a minor or doing something illegal, or beyond my comfort zone, I couldn't give a care what my clients use my pictures for as long as they pay me accordingly) Depending on whether you want your face in the pictures or not, a good boudoir photographer should be able to accommodate your request (without blurring your face). They are used to shooting nude and semi-nude, so that's not a big deal as well, just let them know your expectations before hand. Finally, keep in mind that most clients are regular women who require touch up on Photoshop, not models. Depending on what your feelings are towards this, my friend spends hours on editing scars, pimples, lines, etc. If your purpose is for your work, you might want to get as much make up done as you would a normal clients session, and just ask for a little bit of touch on during the editing stage. Studio lights have a habit on picking up even the smallest blemish on someone's face/body.

I'm young, and naive, and I believe in love. Just not the Hollywood notion of it. I think there are tons of factors today that make for an unsuccessful marriage. Cohabitation prior to marriage in my humble opinion is one of them. Of all my friends, and everyone else I know who've opted for this, the top two reasons I hear are "Save money" and "test the waters". Moving in with someone is massive, and doing so for financial reasons, or just because it's convinient seems like they're just rushing along before their heart's really in it. And the whole test the waters notion is completely foreign to me. I can't imagine anyone (with the exception of extreme cases) finding out that the love of their life is intolerable to live with. I believe that if you love someone, they will have some bad, oh so annoying habits. He may snore, she may leave tons of hair at the bottom of the shower drain, no big deal. It's not to say that they aren't a few exceptions to this, I've seen some, but it's rare. I just feel that marriage should have some privileges, some amazing rights that I am not able to experience prior to it. Being able to wake up in the morning every day, or hold her in my arms every night, that's what I want when I'm married. And a lot more. A lot of my clients say the same thing after getting married - they feel the exact same, no big difference, and the honeymoon was awesome. There is no new phase, annoying habits will remain, except instead of working together committed to a life together and working it all out, they have come to tolerate them. However, I'm only speaking of what I've seen oh so many times, not personal experience. But I'll say it again, I believe in love. I see my parents, and their cute little habits, how my mom stays quiet when my dad goes on his droning about something insanely insignificant, or my dad listens, and does everything my mom says when she goes on a cleaning/gardening rampage. They don't say "I love you", they don't need to. They call each other in the middle of the day at work, constantly offer to do the dishes so the other can sit down and relax. Not always grand or public gestures of love, just a constant, steady stream of seemingly insignificant moments - That's love to me.

Some potential clients that get in touch with me are though my website. On occasion, I have to deal with someone who is shopping around, and checking out 5-6 different photographers, with all tabs open, and a generic "Hey, I'm so and so, I need this, how much do you charge". This is despite me having the information available on my website. Initially I would get a little confused, then realized how it looked from their end. A lot of them, if not all have no idea what to ask, how to approach me, etc. Now, thinking about how absolutely nervous I was when I first thought of seeing an MA, if the person who contacted you was going through the same thing, then common sense might not be readily available. At the end of my first session, I had such an amazing time, I told the MA that I'd photograph anything she'd like complimentary. It was later I realized how sketchy that offer probably sounded. Anyhow, as for the people who ask for rates, or seem to ignore your website, it could be for a number of things. Laziness as you pointed out; you might just be one of a number of SPs they contacted, and quickly glanced over; they want to confirm the price again because of a previous bad experience; or common sense escaping them just because they are brand new at this and nervous because of it. Either way, I can't begin to imagine the sorts of frustrations you go through, just thought I'd shed some light on what could be the cause of said frustrations beyond the obvious.

As I client, I constantly look at the clock. I just hope I haven't given the impression that I'm waiting for our time to end, just to mentally prepare myself for what's next. 2 hrs on the clock remaining, keep it slow, maybe speed it up in a bit, an hr, something should be happening bby now, 20 minutes, relax, talk, and soak it in.

I doubt that I'd get involved with an SP (Not that I think less of them, just that if I had any feelings for one, I'd stop seeing them since I wouldn't know how to approach the subject and don't want to set myself up for a rejection). But if somehow I end up dating someone who was one, I'd be fine with it. If she is one, then I think I'd want her to stop if we got serious and started talking about marriage.

I gotta be honest, I'm not black, but this sort of question makes me feel just sick. Everyone is within their rights to do/see who they want, but I think if agencies want to legitimize their business, someone with hang ups about certain races should not be hired. But I would never patron a business that has an employee that refuses to service any particular group of people because of their race, regardless of what they do. If it's an indy, it's a whole other discussion unfortunately.

Check out ModelMayhem.com It's how I usually set up shoots.

I've heard of tantric sex, and familiar with bits and pieces of it. But Pete's write up just sounded spectacular. Definitely added to the todo list!

I've seen two individuals in this industry. One is an MA, the other is an SP. As for how my personality factored in; I would think that I put in the same amount of effort into researching someone I would be happy with in the end, as I would with anything else that I'm unfamiliar with. So the more information that was out there about this particular individual, the easier it became for me to identify with the person. I looked at some of their posts here, and wanted to get a sense that they wanted to do what they do. I may just be another client to them, but in the time that we shared together, I wanted to ensure that they gave me the impression that they were actually not doing this solely for the money, but because they are enthusiastic about what they do. I'm happy to say that both ladies blew me away, and I wish their dedication to client services was applied in other industries (I'm speaking about the non-sexual stuff). I have to say an equal dose of both physical and emotional. I initially looked for someone my own age, give or take 3 years or so. It wasn't so much of a physical thing at that point, as much as it was my own inadequacies with seeing someone much younger then I while being barely experienced in sex. I didn't end up seeking someone older then this range mainly because I just wanted to identify with the SP for my first time age wise. I am not particularly concerned with age now that I have a tad bit of experience. And I'd be lying if I didn't say that I don't have a preference with some body types over others. But paired with the wrong personality, I would never get in touch with that SP. Intelligence is sexy. A point of view, backed up with logic and reason (even if it's the polar opposite of mine) is sexy. Creativity is sexy, the willingness and drive to do more is...you guessed it, sexy! As for desires, I don't really care for the GFE, I mean, I love the conversations and all that stuff, but the fantasy of a GF is not my cup of tea. What I love is the independence of being able to truly explore myself sexually. There are some things that I think back to my last session and just start day dreaming about, but I like the freedom of being able to learn (without feeling as if I'm looking like a fool, or ruining something). Anyhow, hopefully I haven't rambled too much off topic

Hey that's me! And naturally I agree :D I'm happy you're comfortable here, it is a great place

lol, would definitely not complain about that. It's kinda hard to explain, I guess my fantasy are the girls who don't mind getting their hands dirty :) But I love this thread so far