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I try to avoid assumptions, so I'm going to avoid making one of the OP's intention. Since he is suspended, this post is for mainly newcomers. This is a sort of online forum etiquette for Cerb, and for almost any other forum out there. Firstly, I noticed that the OP started a fairly sizable number of threads. In theory there is nothing wrong with this, a curious person is a person open to new ideas. But there is such a thing as too soon. Get to talk to people on the forum (again this isn't only for Cerb). Let them feel you out. This matters because when someone new comes along with a sort of thread that may bring out trouble, the first thing that comes to mind is that person is simply a troll intent of pissing people off. Now your questions may be genuine, but being new to any forum you don't completely get a sense of what the culture is. Speaking from experience, one of my first threads was on the matter of race and preferences - A topic that by itself requires a delicate touch, unaided by the fact that others really had no method to gauge my intentions. On to Cerb specifics. If any newcomer were to go to other erb sites, they may notice a very different forum culture. From being active on one, I can see how Cerb takes a different approach towards forum behaviour. Many people seem to like it, and are wary of someone new coming in with a possible agenda to stir some trouble.

I wouldn't consider it double standards. I'm a photographer, I occasionally meet up with other photographers, we fool around, socialize, take pictures, learn, etc. I don't casually photograph for clients. On occasion, I've been offered to go out for dinner, or something, but the entire time that I'm with that client, I have to behave completely. I have to put that professional part of me first. Now in my line of business, I can spare the time, as the time required for dinner would be considered time spent on marketing my service, by building up loyalty. But now consider SPs. Their service is companionship. To spend additional time with a client is the same as giving away services for free. And perhaps the most important point, SPs are people. They have the right like you or I to socialize with whoever they want.

Don't call someone home. Some SPs have mentioned a bad time going to a married client's house and then having an uncomfortable situation when an SO comes home unexpectedly. Find a reputable SP. Use this link - http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=162 Read reviews, read until you are bored of reading, till you find some sort of satisfaction or piece of mind. If you're like me, the first time is going to be a bit nerve-racking. Find a well established, well reviewed SP, you will be better off.

I'm cheating here...but Switch! Paddle or whip?

Schrödinger Tease, or be teased?

Cerb name: Lexx Stroker I gotta say, I'm quite happy with that name.

I normally (almost always) prefer appointments that have been booked at least the day before. On one memorable occasion, an SP cancelled because she wasn't feeling well. I didn't read her cancellation email, and had already traveled to her general area (Downtown Toronto is big, don't worry I wasn't standing around someone's building). I decided that if a particular provider had posted an ad saying she was available, I'd message her and see what happens. It so happened that 10 minutes prior she posted an ad for that day, saying she was available after an hour and a half. I emailed her, she responded back almost immediately. So that is the story of the only time I booked at the last minute..er hour. It happens, but for me it's rare.

I know where you're coming from, because I was thinking the same thing. Then I read this It just clicked in my head. The restraint for short terms gains are disregarded in favour of a long term goal. One major leak like an MP list would throw the industry in such a disarray, it would risk causing similar harm as C36, as any future clients would be extremely cautious about sharing their own information during a vetting process.

This! New meetings are great, but there is so much more with someone I've seen before regularly. And setting up an appointment is a cinch. Just a short email - Hey! Awesome day...so Sat at 3? (Okay, maybe not that short, but you get the idea)

Coming from a background with real dictatorship regimes, titles like this are upsetting at best. I am not a Harper fan by any means, but lets not get carried away. Most Canadians thankfully do not know how bad a dictator can truly be.

I come from a poor country. A lot of people go into crime and extremism (terrorism) because it's literally their only option. If I have to just pick one item of my bucket list, I'd like to open a big school/community center for people to learn, do activities, let kids be kids, provide birth control and other family support for parents. I'd like the center to be run be those people in the community, and promote good values. Ideally, I'd like it to be the first of many centers. If I was somehow able to do this, I would die with absolutely no regrets.

I have a theory on C36. With the 2015 election coming up, and some speculating it will be held in Spring instead of October, the Conservatives are gearing up for a fight. And the best way to do it is with something to galvanize the base to donate as much money as possible. C36 is the best thing that could've happened to the conservatives. Its the best sort of fundraising tool they could imagine. Sadly, while I am wholeheartedly opposed to such a list, it would be so helpful to fight the bill. It would put the cons on the defensive, their main speaking point for fundraising will have dried up, and they would have to move onto other things to make this a distant memory before the next election. SPs could collectively end conservative rule and help their cause and safety, yet have the decency to protect their privacy.

I don't think I can say any better then Emily why it has been great having you in Cerb - Good luck with all your future endeavors!

A lot of people share your fantasy. Nothing to feel weird about.

I can answer this one! I was with a woman, and the alarm started ringing. Naked, we thought about just ignoring it, then I kept on thinking about the following day's headlines "Two corpses found in sex position in building fire". It seemed like a stupid way to go. So we packed up, and went down together. Escort left alone after fire/fire alarm -

I would like to start of by saying that you took a step towards a very selfless act that I honestly am not sure I'd take for a friend's relative. I feel horrible admitting that, but your selfless deed did push me over the edge to do something else I've been contemplating for a while. So thank you.

Fear mongering may be true, but here is the key difference. The previous laws penalized the people who were providing the service, will not explicitly criminalizing the actual service. The police seemed to have enough sense to not bother. Here is a case where the actual transaction is now illegal, for the client. Now, I'm not familiar with the statute of limitations on this, but as pointed out, it's not the direct approach that scares me, but an indirect approach. Assume the DC Madam scandal happened here. With no C-36, the police would be sued if they released 15,000 phone numbers. After C-36, it's the owners of those numbers that are on the defensive. Like I said above, giving police powers that they don't need, like the ones C-36 does by criminalizing clients, is scary shit. Power to you if you think we're being too cautious about the whole thing.

Something similar did happen to US. A DC Madam was being investigated for a bunch of charges, and some of her clients were exposed, even though it seems that no charges were brought to them. They went after her for racketeering, and using the mail for illegal purposes, not prostitution. This is exactly what scares the living shit out of me.

If the Nordic Model becomes a law, I will be waiting for all those who say it won't change a thing because of budget restrictions and stuff, to test out how things are. The way I see it, this just gives the police more powers that it doesn't need. Piss one of them off, they go snooping around to see if there is anything that they can use on you. An SP getting caught for violating the bizarre proposed rules (or some other trumped out charge), they pressure her into sharing correspondences for something favourable. There are many possibilities that are running through my mind, and I may be more scared then I need to be, but seeing how I have according to many medical journals, more life ahead of me then behind, I'd rather not continue the rest of my life with the threat like this over my head.

I found your post funny and quite representative of my thoughts OD. If I may though: I know you meant this as a joke, but consider this: If she has been a bitch, you have the right to kill her and dissolve her body in the bathtub. Chilling, isn't it? Especially given the context of this forum. Humbly request that people try to abstain from overtly violent imagery

There are a few things that make me want to repeat. Some are in the lady's control, some are not. There is an SP who is amazing in every sense of the word. I just don't feel as comfortable with her as I do with another. And that's okay, because if the reviews have to say anything is that she has a line of admirers. One lady always likes to tries to bring something new. Which is awesome, I never know what to expect.

I've only mentioned it when asked. So if in her booking form there is a section where she asks if I'm a member of a board, and my username, I give it. If she isn't asking for it, then it just doesn't pop into my mind. If this is something that you really value (knowing someone's handle on Cerb for comfort and/or other reasons), I'd say go for it. But I haven't checked your website, but if you don't have that question on your booking form, maybe just add it?

Why do you repeat with the same woman?

I'm a bit surprised with how passionate this thread has gotten. There are a couple of things that I'd like to share. Someone mentioned that it takes 7 and a half minutes to start (donations, clothes, etc). I just want to say that there was one person that I visited where we had gone through that, and were quite in the thick of it after probably 5 minutes (Memorable moments of my life :) ). It was also the first time I met her. But since I like longer appointments, I had an hour and 25 minutes left! 15 minutes are great option if there are two willing participants, who have already established a chemistry. If I worked somewhere close by an SP, I'd be more inclined to make a sort of arrangement for repeated visits. Financially speaking, it would be great. Plus there is a bit of a thrill with just having one thing in your mind. I don't think a lady should offer it if she feels uncomfortable with it, but for those who are, great! And for the men who want those appointments, as long as they are respectful, I have no issue with them. I get the feeling that some people are projecting their anger for rude people who seek 15 minutes appointments, with everyone seeking 15 minutes appointments.