Capital Hunter

I started a thread laat year that expressed my views and perception about hobbying (and was criticized strongly by some SPs for that). In that thread (which was nominated by many by the way) I said that my perception of hobbying is I buy a gift for my DATE (rendezvous) and I don't perceive that as pay for sex. And that still is my perception and stronger even. Mind you some SPs (even some who criticized me last year) and many members are now using the same word or concept for their paid encounters. I view my encounters as dates and regard my dates as someone's daughter or sister and do my best so that she would enjoy the date as much as I do and have her as guest and treat her with full respect like a guest at my home. In fact the extreme elements in the government are now using the same principals (pay for sex, exploitation of human bodies, abuse......) to make prostitution illegal in this country and a private bill will be before parliament soon. If the perception was like mine and that is we hobbyists and SPs have dates with each other and we are willing participants who have matually a fun full of joy encounter and we exchanged gifts for our time (like a BF taking a GF to a dinner and have sex later) these backward elements would have never been able to convince the public and the MPs in the parliament to support or pass this bill. To answer the OP YES it is wrong to have sex for money or pay for sex if the lady is NOT a willing participant (forced into either by someone or extreme need for money) or if one of the participants in the encounter is not happy about the other side or attracted too and is doing it because of extreme need for the money or if she hates what she does but do it for extreme need for money to buy drugs or ask for services that the lady do not wish to do but does it because of need for money or sex with underaged or conduct what I perceive as inhuman sex acts on the other side (especially if she is under the influence of drugs) because she needs money and have to agree because of her need or be abusive or violent towards the date. NO there is nothing wrong to pay for sex as a gift for her time if she is a willing adult participant, if you treat her like your guest with utmost respect and if you do your best to make her fell good and that she enjoys the encounter. Any bill before the parliament or new related law must only ban the former (and rightly so for clients and pimps to be jailed or heavily fined) and the latter should be decriminalized.

I consider kissing and daty as relatively safe within my acceptable risk level (There has been no documented cases of HIV transmission by these activities but theoretical risk exists and yes before kissing or daty watch out in full light for possible signs of stds). I consider BBBJ unsafe for myself (more than my acceptable level of risk I am willing to take) and also unsafe for the lady and all types of contact with seminal fluid (on lady's face or body or in the mouth) very unsafe for the lady and I personally totally avoid all these services even if offered. I consider normal CFS as relatively safe too provided latex condoms are used.

Strip bars are public places and having anything other than dances (like HJ) is considered sexual act and will make the strip bar in attendance a bawdy house and can NOT be discussed on cerb and strip bar cannot be named either. Dancers offering the services (in a public place) break the law too as solicitation in public is illegal as well. I don't think that you will get many responses to your post Frenchbrute. I personally strongly advise against accepting such services in a strip bar, Frenchbrute. But yes You can have fun with dancers outside the club as long as the place is private (your place of residence, a hotel room used by you as the only client). As law stands now, what happens in a private place (outcalls) between consenting adults is private and legal. Just be careful NOT to get into any details while you are in the club or in the car or in common areas of your residence (lobby, corridors, elevator....) or hotel common areas (otherwise solicitation law may apply). Ask her for a date and exchange contact info. So yes you likely can do this if you can afford the usually overpriced dancers. Just be careful that some dancers may suggest out of club services in order to get more dances from you inside the club and afterwards, once the CR dances are over, they may disappear and never see you again that night until they see you again another night with same old proposal and hoping for more dances out of you. In summary to answer your question, the standards are not new and the rules are the same too (illegal). Hope it helps. PS - I am not a lawyer just responded to the best of my knowledge on current related laws.

Allice is an independent asian SP who is very friendly and openminded and loves daty too. She is also shaven. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=44247&highlight=alice Also Candyland is an agency who sometimes has openminded SPs. Read their services when advertised or their girls after they are reviewed. Most do what you are looking for. If you look exclusively for independent asian SPs other than Allice then I let our asian expert, slurp to comment on that. Good luck with hunting.

Nice review of the evening at Pigale Frenchbrute, thanks for sharing. Would love to know the names of dancers that you have described and reviewed as well as I would like to recognize them if and when I am there and match the name with this review (especially girls no. 3, the tall pale brunettes and final dancer who had white skin and nice big lips). Yes I agree dancers are more expensive than escorts. We pay for the trill of the hunt lol. Seeing someone in flesh and pick her up for an immediate encounter. $500 has been the norm for me (longer than one hour though). However, with dancers I have picked up, I never had full service as I didn't want them to cross into another teritory on my account. Just very intimate contact dances at home with lots of huggings and kissings and to be honest in most cases I loved it as much if not more.

All of the above well stated comments lol...

Saturdays only for me when I feel intense sexual desire. Monday to Friday I am so busy no time to think about horny stuff and sundays I am hibernating all day lol.

Beautiful pictures of beautiful ladies above, Cato. Why I always run out of rep points lol when I need them.

Sorry Claire, I misheard it as Blaire. Thanks for correction DM. I had my eyes (and ears) on the very sexy brunette (Megan) all the time :-).

Thank you all so very much dear friends for your very kind and nice comments. It is great to be part of such kind community and thanks all for being here and making this community the great one that it is now by your presence, posts and kindness. Best regards to all cerbites Secret Admirer

Yes I booked a room at the Hotel across Barbs (Delta aka Crown Plaza) because of my summer visitor and checked in and called an agency for the girl I had in mind but no responses as I was directed to their voice mail (I told them via email a few days before and again yesterday as well as today that I plan to call them at 4:00 pm on Saturday for that girl and they responded that she will be waiiting for my call!!!, but in all fairness no firm commitment was made by either side). So I decided to walk across to Barbs. No regrets there as there were plenty of beautiful ladies at Barbs daytime. Not many customers though. I met a BEAUTIFUL girl with glorious massive black hair and beautiful face and sexy body by the name of Megan (When I saw the beauty and she told me her name I thought may be out of sudden good luck it is our own Megan ('sTouch). She is 22 and student and is tall with natural tanned skin and blue eyes. It took her more than an hour to come to me but I was very happy that eventually she came over and sat with me (after me smiling at her several times). I was in heaven with her for 5 songs. And oh yes I saw Jessica with glasses too when I entered the bar and was greeted warmly. She has moved from Playmates to Barbs recently (I had intelligence report by a friend on cerb about her move a few days ago so wasn't a surprise). I had a special one-hour private dance with her too later in the afternoon. I saw a few other girls on stage Roxy, Nadia and a redhead (Blaire or something like that. Actually the next post confirms her name as Claire),... Oh they were all beautiful. I let you go and see them for yourself lol.

I will never have a problem with location as it is always my own. And yes I design the light, music, setting, and everything else to my liking and is always clean and has never had a case of turn down for a second visit when I asked. To respond to the OP though 1 - Bad hygiene (breath, body smell....) - Rare but happens 2 - Aggressiveness/passiveness - Very rare but has happened 3 - Answering calls during the session (only happened once) 4 - being late by more than half hour.

Thanks for your contributions. Always enjoy your posts. Keep them coming.

Yeah, those were the days before women started shaving their kitties. Musy have been very sexy great days lol....

3000 posts wow!!!. Congratulations Meg.

Yes thanks for the link. Again ran out of rep points for you WIT. Yes Niki was great. We need more women like her when it comes to voting on Swedish model in the parliament to clarify issues so that MPs don't vote blindedly. My view is that there are many cases of prostitution which are exploitation and/or violence against women. There are sex acts committed against some sex workers which in my view are inhuman not to mention pimping, beatings and forced prostitution. BUT NOT ALL. So it is wrong to have laws that bans ALL forms of prostitution even consenting ones and ones without any violence. But unconditional legalization of prostitution in my view also increases exploitation/violence as well as trafficking from third world countries as has been the case in those countries which legalized the trade. Making it illegal will also push the trade underground and therefore more dangerous for sex workers not to mention it is wrong to ban those cases of non-violent consenting sex. Therefore in my view both complete legalization and illegalization of sex trade are wrong and counter-productive and in my view keeping the status quo in which prostitution is legal but under certain conditions is the best option with some modifications to make it legal for sex workers to hire bodyguards and able to support relatives and share a work place with co-workers and some additional enforcable harsh laws against certain sex acts, pimping, forced prostitution and human sex trafficking.

NuDen was never my favorite even during the 2001 to 2008 when I was going to strip bars two-three times a week. The large place never felt like a cozy party like environment that I preferred. Not to mention the open CRs where you paid for private dance but never could get one (even when private CR was permitted at other bars before 2009, it was open at NuDen!!!). And if you run out of cash you can't even watch the stage and enjoy ladies on stage unless you have a telescope with you lol (likely not allowed) as the stage is so high up..... I was there may be 10 times between 2001 and 2008 as opposed to over 1000 times which I must have been to Barbs and Playmates and Taboo lol. I remember once I was in the CR with a lovely young girl and she was kissing me on lips (and of course I was kissing back) and the bouncer walked in and he was very rude to the young lady (at least if he was rude to me I would have let him have it but I stayed quiet as I didn't want the young lady in more trouble). I stayed away for a couple of years until last year I went back a couple of times to see my all time favorite blonde, Foxy (but she was on leave as she was pregnant) however when I heard that they are treating their ladies badlly I boycotted the place until further notice (until they change management). This was the second strip bar I was boycotting for the same reason (Cabaret Canada is the other, I boycotted in 2005). I think that it is our (hobbyists') obligation and responsibiliy to boycott those bars and escort agencies who are treating their ladies badly. We don't need these weeds in this industry lol.

2500 is a great number. Congratulations.

While searching various sites to find a date or two for my Saturday I came across an interesting ad. The ad by the lady says : "I do what your girlfriend doesnt want to do,......." I personally don't look for kinky services and has never taken anything bare or kinky with an SP, however I found it interesting and funny at the same time as my imagination running wild lol as what they may be...Would that be a kinky time or a time spent without the nagging/yelling part, just kidding lol :-). I am also not sure what I call this service. A Not a-GirlFriend Experience :-). First time i see an ad like this lol. She should patent her ad lol.. I can't attach a link or mention the site for obvious reasons lol..

This may be a good link to email to our MPs if and when it comes to a vote on this private bill, in the parliament... It comes directly from the source.

Congratulations and look forward to 1000 more.

Congratulations Angela :-).

Read my lips. No new taxes.......

Yes I had a second Date with this lovely classy lady today and enjoyed it as much as my first date last year. Annika Reiley has been reviewed extensively by myself in this thread and no need for repeation just to say that she is here for the weekend. So don't miss on this lovely lady while she is here. Annika's Secret Admirer