Capital Hunter

The visiting lady from bella_escorts (Layla) ia Arabic and looks hot too. Unfortunately for me,they don't bringf her over to Ottawa (she comes from Montreal) weekends as yet, so I haven't been able to see her yet. Btw if I am not mistaken Malika is half Arabic too (in fact I remember she told me her name means princess in Arabic). So if you want a hot GFE, she is from Ottawa, but I think recently her hair is not dark anymore if dark hair is what you look for.

I have my information from Canadian news media (various newspapers throughtout the country) that in 80% of cases of prostitution, childhood abuse or drug addiction or forced/pimpimg is the reason behind it (you seem to agree with the childhood abuse and drug component and I didn't say that 80% is pimp/forced either). I sincerely hope those figures are wrong and the majority are willing participants and pimp/drug/abuse free. Btw,they also say only small portion of prostitutes are SWs. So thinking that only SWs have those problems is not likely correct. I also don't agree that the demand for paid companionship will not go down if Nordic style is implemented in Canada (only one side of equation is guilty (opening the door to blackmail and extorsion by the other side of the equation) and punishable up to 6 months in jail). I for one will stop hobbying altogether and many like myself will do same too. It is just not worth taking such a huge risk lol. The important point in my post however was not about percentages (I conceded that I am not sure about exact figure) but the fact that they are two sides of prostitution. The dark side (involves childhood abuse, underage, human trafficking, drugs, pimps) and the good side (consenting date for exchange of gifts to help out education,career,temporary financial problem between adults) and banning prostitution altogether (both the dark and the right side) is wrong and that is what the cons are planning to do as they are not intelligent enough to distinguish between the two and want an easy way out so they brush everyone with the same paint, so to speak.

As far as the cons wanting to adopt backwards policies, painting all types of exchange of money for sex as abuse of women and human slavery, well I told you so when I was pleading with you not to vote for a Harper majority, post after post lol. However, as far as opposing sexual exploitation I agree with them completely. Enough is enough with exploitation of women and treating them like sex objects performing the most disgusting sexual acts causing pain and humiliation on likely drugged young ladies. Enough with human trafficking and underage exploitaion of children. Enough to see or hear young girls selling their bodies to buy drugs or finance their pimps or some specific agencies. If they oppose to all that and pass harsh laws and enforce the laws as well to stop for once and all, all of the above I am all for it and based on my recent reading about 80% of prostitution actually falls into above categories. What I am opposed to, is the remaining 20% that there is consensual sex between two adults. A drug free, pimp free environment where two adults can have a date and exchange gifts for their time which the lady can use to finance college education (and we all know how expensive they have become) or as a temporary job to pay off some big debts or as a bridge (again temporary) to cross into better lives (by putting themselves in college,taking care of new born, pay off long standing debt, helping family members),otherwise yes it must become illegal and enforced too, especially when forced or pimping or drugs or inhuman sexual acts are involved. And no prostitution should not be normalized when large percentage of that is as a result of childhood abuse, or drug addiction or forced sexual act or pimping. There is nothing normal about any of above. The normalized prostitution is a party or date between totally consenting adults which would be mutually beneficial without the use of force, pimps or drugs. We need progressive prostitution laws that bans the dark sides of prostitution (and they exits. There is no point to deny that but not sure by what percent though) and distingush the consenting dates for money or gifts and make the former totally illegal and only the latter legal. I am not a lawyer or constitutive experts sonot sure how it can be accomplished but the cons are not intelligent enough to do it. They are likely going to take the easy way out and ban all forms of prostitution in Canada.... PS - This post expresses my personal views on how prostitution laws should be and may not be shared by some or many. But they are mine.

A very happy birthday to you Angela. Enjoy your day.

Thanks qwertyaccounts for the link. I will follow up on similar private cares that may exist in Ottawa as well. Not inffecting others of course was one of the reasons for me not wanting to go but equally important was the fact that I was so very sick with very high fever close to 40C (but likely not life threatening at my age) that I couldn't even come out of my bedroom without fiercely shivering (and all the heaters were on in my appartment in that summer day). Oh,btw, in my childhood I was living in a country with a 2-tier health care system and I really don't see why it is unfair. it is not that expensive. I think that really everyone can afford a visit or two per year by a doctor. It would be less than what most of us spend on booze annually I am sure. Also this way we will really give a big boost to our ailing health care system. What I am suggesting is private nurses or physicians visiting patients at home not private hospitals or even clinics. May be we need a new thread on opinions on a 2-tier health care system in this country lol .....

Thank you very much Shortcake. I am glad your child is okay. I usually come down with mild fevers (37.5) as a result of a flu (once or twice a year) but this time round it was really bad (lung infection). I remember my father used to wet a towel with cold water and place it on my forehead and that was effective in bringing down my fever. Would you agree? Do you have another suggestion to make as how to bring down high fever (at 39.8C I started feeling dizzy too as the ceiling in my bedroom started turning around my head lol).

Thanks for your responses both Boomer and qwertyaccount and the positive feedbacks. My condition was serious (high fever, having real difficulty breathing because of lung blockage and it could have been deadly if I was in my 80's or older) but at this age was not life threatening. However, with proper medications (like anti-biotics for lung infection as in most cases lung infections are bacteria caused rather than virus) it would have been treated much faster and would have been less severe. But what I was asked like going to my doctor's office to wait in the waiting room for hours to see my doctor (and likely also infect the poor people sitting there as I was highly infectious with coughing) and then see a doctor and get presciptions and then take prescription to a pharmacy (and wait another half hour) in the condition that I was at the time (close to 40C fever and heavy coughing) was totally unacceptable. I would have been willing to pay anything for the doctor to come and visit me at home (and that was the reason for this thread for me to know if there is a homecare system in place somewhere where we can call and ask for a nurse or doctor to visit us, at the time of need that I may not be aware of???). I remember my father was visiting his patients at their homes, even in the middle of the night. If that is a 2-tier system then I am fully for it. I have noproblem spending on my health.What could be more important than that?.

Romance between dancer and customer do occur but very very rarely and it also depends so much on the customer. A yuppy eligible bachelor who is young, educated, handsome or rich is a good pick for a dancer who is about same age or a few years younger. Otherwise it is fake at best (to get more dances in the CR) or scam at worse (to jump into a taxi and disappear after getting lots of money from customer) but who knows there is always the possibility of truth regardless (If you believe in parting of the Nile lol).

BP is the site that I cannot mention it in full out of respect for cerb Bryan. I have PMed you. Thanks Cato for the kind comments and you are welcome.

Yes I saw the picture on BP (no it doesn't stand for British Petroleum lol) and somehow I became determined to see her even though all risk signs were on and she didn't appear very friendly on the phone either I decided to go ahead. She was about half hour late because of traffic however when elevator door opened I realized it was well worth waiting. This 21 year old cutie has a beautiful latin European face and youthful soft skin and those blue eyes make her even prettier and very black hair around her face. Her boobs are sharp out and sexy and her kitty very soft and sweet and very very clean. I was amazed by how absolutely great her hygiene was and that is a very important factor for me. Daty and digits were great but sorry guys no dfk or even lfk (her only restrictions). She is extremely relaxed and quiet. My only complain, her skin is tanned :icon_sad: (most men love it though) and her cell phone kept ringing during the encounter. She actually texted them back several times intrrupting the session (most men hate it). She promised to turn it off next time (and I told her I will write about this to be fair and honest in my review). Also I think the emotional aspects of GFE was not fully there but may be YMMV. She is also a smoker. I asked her to join cerb and gave her the web site. She is from Montreal and only visits Ottawa weekends (likely a student).Sorry that I can't attach the link to her ad guys. She is like one of those hot young girls with plenty of self esteem who is aware of the fact that she is pretty and eveyone's dreamgirl that you may see in a classy expensive dance bar like Dome in Montreal who is already taken or you feel not daring to approach and you wish to spend the night with. But your wish is a dream never come true. Well mine came through tonight and I met her on the internet instead of a dance bar lol. She is recommended for those who love young relatively tall, very pretty females with latin looks (very European pretty young face with blue eyes and naturally tanned skin) who prefer the physical (rather than emotional) aspects of a young beautiful latin GFE with very incredibly clean hygiene.

You know, it never crossed my mind that greeting my guests at the elevator would be such an issue whatsoever...., until now. I always thought it is a friendly gesture to make them feel welcomed and feel at home and at ease. I am going to think twice for first time visitors from now on or make sure that they are fully aware of the greeting beforehand. So fixing your make up in the elevator huh... That is cute. There are so many mirrors in the lobby of where I live that ladies can do that before taking the elevator. On giving a ride back...., well I think about that too but I think that if they accept my gesture then it will be okay with them lol. That is another advantage of cerb debating issues. It makes you think of the unthinkable (that friendly gestures like greeting a lady or offering a ride back may be an unwelcomed gesture or offensive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!).

Yes I would like to extend my congratulations too on becoming double crown poster. Look forward to many thousands more posts by you Roamingguy.

You should report them to mod if you know of them. I don't know any.....but cerb is meant to be a safe place for ladies to make a livining and meet safe clients and my statement as naive as it looked like was based on that.

Thank you very much Angela for the kind comments. I am not offended. I had to respond and clarify that I don't do anything to break the law. So reason for my response. Examples of bad behaviour that you have described are absolutely horible and it is regretful that they have actually happened to ladies. It is likely that we don't have anyone on cerb like that. On the greeting issue, Please note that if it ever happens to you and an idiot client meets you in public place and talks business it is him who is breaking the law not you (you should just not respond). So no reason to panic or be irritated. In SCs it happens to me too (i guess seeing me taking numeous ladies to CR....) that a lady dancer asks me for outside activity or illegal activity in the CR (like HJ,BJ things that I never even do with escorts LOL) but I remain cool as I know I am not the one who is breaking the law.I just say no thanks and remind her that such a public solicitation is against the law. On the car plate issue, still it is same with incalls, I think. I guess a devious client can get name and address of the lady if he knows where she lives or what hotel room she has rented except that obtaining info based on car plate number is a lot more difficult (unless the client has connections to LE who is ready to break the law and release confidential info, then I think name and address based on car plate number is totally confidential....) PS - Just to clarify that I don't walk with ladies to their cars but rather to my car, and only when I give them a ride (otherwise I say bye at the elevator) . After having an intimate date with a lovely lady I can't just say okay I am done with you and now you walk back to your place and that is the reason for giving them a ride back, if they come without a ride (which I always advise against that) and if they accept.

Yes you are right Lowdark, however we have been debating the most recent federal election rather than the ones 13-17 years ago but you are correct. The liberals won a majority with I believe 42%-43% of popular vote then still not a true majority. That was why I said in my past posts that the entire electoral system of the country should be re-visited however I am not a constitutional expert as how.....

Yes also remember almost exact same percentage gave them a majority (39.6% approved their agenda and 60.4% opposed) but they are going ahead with it anyways. Not sure they would be concerned with what the 60% think really. I hope I am wrong. Yes That is correct. And you know if they want to pass it through I am not sure jack Layton would be in a great position to oppose it either since he was caught in a MP in 1995 (may be he was innocent) and he doesn't want to show that he approves of bawdy houses by voting against it. Again I hope I am wrong.

Yes I agree Canada is best place to live and come back to as of now, and no body disputed this fact. However, I am not sure that it would remain the best place to live after 4-5 years of a majority conservative regime if the religious right oversee their agenda to fruitition and take away our freedom of choice and liberty or if the cons create a two tier society (the have and have not, by cut backs to the middle class and rewarding the rich and corporations or cutting social programs like health care and pensions). Lets hope none of those will happen but unlike a few weeks ago (when I urged cerbites not to vote for cons) we have no other option than waiting and hoping for the best. They now have a majority and they can do whatever they wish.

I asked this question in another thread and got no responses. I guess the answer is only time can tell. I share your concerns and what i fear is a scenario much worse than yours and that is the majority conservative government adopts the Nordic model (which is much worse than the US style) which bans prostitution altogether and sends hobbyists to six months in jail for having consensual sex, even outcalls in the privacy of their home with consenting adults!!!!!. I repeat what I asked the day after the dark election day, and that was: "if anyone cares (or dares) to comment on the consequences of a majority conservative government as far as hobbying is concerned???".

They did advertise someone named Alice a couple of weeks ago for a short couple of days. But I don't think she is with them or in Ottawa anymore. Slurp is right, there is an indie Alice too. But if you want to stick to ALLD then they have a new girl named bella. they say she is 19 years old.

I hate to say this but I told you so... I share your concerns also......

Not sure why you have posted the same comment, three times!!!. Bibi is likely older than 20 (she looks very very young and that is how all small cute girls look like that is younger than their age but the smile gives her away otherwise I would have insisted on an ID if the wrinkles were not there due to smiling lol), but I really don't think she is older than 30 LOL!!!!!!!!!!.

Yes you are correct. Bawdy house law does not extend to a massage parlour where no act of indecency is committed.

Penelope Cruz: Anne Hatheway:

Prostitution is legal in all of Canada, but incalls are technically illegal based on the 1800's Bawdy House law. But it is seldom enforced (unless complains made by neighbors or underage or human trafficking) and there are many trying to repeal the law or modify it more in accordance with European or Australian laws which permit a limited number of prostitutes to share a flat/apartment/home since it provides them protection and keeps them off the streets. I personally don't risk it myself however, I have a very very low threshold when it come sto taking risks in life.