Capital Hunter

My sincere condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

I always direct ladies I see to cerb because I genuinely believe they will be a lot safer if they are on cerb and advertise here instead of former CL or present **. A number of already cerb SPs can testify to this statement. Unfortunately I have had a hard time convincng all because most don't follow this genuine good advice for reasons of their own (one was saying that she doesn't want a permanent record and prefers CL because after 45 days her ad disappears the other was asking the legality of all these and the other ..... some are in the business for a short while and they wish to forget the passing moment once done). Some promise that they will but they don't fall through. On your other point, I used to advise them to join cerb and check the SP private area for safety but then recently I realized that that area is only open to long time or established SPs or those who are advertising on EC (I advise them on EC too). So a new SP joining cerb can't get immediate access to that area, based on my understanding. On the trustworthy contact on cerb such as yourself, I have done that too a couple of times, after they decided to join and needed tips.

Yes Megan I agree (I learned it the hard way) but I was responding to fortunateone's suggestion that I think she was suggesting that I should help out those young SPs who may be too scared to ask for safety info from the clients. Also I consider myself as a friend to them who care for their safety .... even though you are correct again as no matter how I try to look at it, I am a client but one who cared more than it was called for and that was why I was burned likely.....

Believe me I do. I always advise them when doing outcalls they must have someone to watch them over outside and someone should know where they go or for how long.... Even though I have been burned once or twice before......... Believe me ladies in that age range (most) don't wish to hear advice (even sensible advice which clearly is out of care). Once I was accused of trying to run someone's life and all I was trying to do was trying to help out. Another time a young SP who had come all by herself on a first date, I told her that she should not do this ever again for her safety as she never knows who may be the next guy she may come across. But she got very hostile and aggressive.... I guess she didn't want to be told even for her own good. So past year or so I have change my way a bit. I still do care but realized that at the end it is always her life, her decision and I am always a passing friend at the best. Minimum interference policy has become my policy even though on occasions I can't help and still give free safety advice (on not providing certain unsafe services or safety tips on outcalls or legality of incalls....) but again I tell you most don't like hearing it. I was like that myself when I was 19-20 lol, so I can't blame them for what I used to be myself lol.

To OP, remember that outcalls are legal so as far as your nosy neighbors concerned there isn't much they can do legally, though yes I undertand they could cause problems in other ways... It has happened (in fact many times) that when I greet my guests upon arrival at the elevator door or walk them back to the elevator (as I don't wish them feel abandoned) or on those occasions with some indies or private dancers whom I give a ride back (so we walk together to the garage) we come across neighbors often (usually my immediate neighbor who continuosly walk his small cute puppy). We walk also like two in love not strangers. So they have seen me with all these different girls and likely they wonder what the heck is going on with me!!! or I must be a real ladies man lol. They almost always smile and even say Hi but not sure what they are thinking in their minds lol. No one can be this lucky to be with so many different girls lol!!. As I mentioned earlier almost all guests are dressed casually looking like the girl next door. The other good thing is that it is a very quiet classy complex but I can see potential problems in some neighborhoods but as I said remember that in outcalls you are not breaking any law and even nosy neighbors can't do much as long as you are careful while in public place (lobby, driveway, corridors). Close the door first and ask questions later lol!! :-).

Good point (my prefer age range is 19 to 25 though). Yes this could be another reason. Though in my view I think that girls in this age range are equally in danger and most likely even more in danger and they should screen clients even more rigorousy..

Hey Reddog. If I am not mistaken I think it was most likely 2006 or may be 2005 even. She was walking around and introducing herself, shaking hands with management and patrons as well. That was why the event remained in my mind so many years later. I was impressed how social she was on her first day and she appeared very happy too with her new job.

No but I think you forgot to mention she is busty :-). I remember the very first day that Jenny started dancing at barbs I was there and I said to myself wow this lady will go far in this business. She was very pale then, a natural blue eyed blonde and pale Wow but a few months later she decided on tanning.

I saw Mercedez for a second time today and I am glad I did. She looks cuter and like the girl next door when she is natural, that is without make up as I requested and she obliged me. Her blue eyes and younng age (19) shows better and she was completely at ease this time like her own home and happy. She has naturally such a bubbly personality. A complete girlfriend in any way which in my book is higher than GFE and include lots of love and passion, you know emotional aspects of the experience with lots of kisses and hugs and passion and love. Last time I felt like I had a perfect experience but she is the one who beat the perfection this time lol!!!. Inn summary it was an explosive experience lol!!!especially at the end. If you see her please treat her like a princess that she is. And yes as Reddog reminded me (in the next post) Mercedez is Dutch and she is proud of it too. Additional Info: Ottawa PlayGirls has now a new web site. You can now click on each picture and see magnified pictures of each lady. http://www.613girls.com/girls3.html

Harper's double standard disgusts me. As Michael Ignatieff said it well, "booting out of his party in April 2010 the female MP Helena Guergis for allegations that turned out to be unsubstantiated by the RCMP, while tolerating Carson, working as his right-hand man for two years despite a raft of documented legal transgressions. Having a convicted criminal in his office as advisor (Bruce Carson) and then dismissing someone cleared of any wrong doing by RCMP (Helena Guergis) and not apologizing or admitting mistake shows his true right wing anti-feminism nature. Disgusting!!!.

Is this real!!?? .I expect to have a guest 3 summer months so that would be great. Is this day rate to check in for a few hours available in any Ottawa hotels? If so which ones? Anyone knows of any specific Ottawa hotel which offers daytime rates?

Great news that she is back with Ottawa PlayGirls. Yes true, she went indie for a while but as always in case of OPG when indies come back they always come back to this agency. I have seen Serina aka Izabella several times (lost count) and she is indeed everyone's dream girl lol. She is now a tall blue eyed young brunette (so my earlier description of a tall blue eyed blonde has changed). What could be better than this. Though she may be highly YMMV however, she has always been GFE for me, especially in our most recent encounter.

And how about the contempt of parliament and how about his lack of respect for democracy and his arrogance and how about his close secretive campaign and how about the face book secret police and how about scandals after scandals by his government and advisors and all that FROM SOMEONE WHO PROMISED TO BRING ACCOUNTABILITY to the political scene of this country and how about... shall I go on...... He has broken the long Canadian tradition of respect for democracy and that is the worst that any leader can do in a democratic country. Yes the liberals too have their own (plenty) wrong doings and as I have said before, for me at least it is a less of two evils. NDP stands more for what I believe but I know my vote for NDP is in fact a vote for conservatives as it will divide the center-left vote. Also though I like Jack Layton but the years of NDP Bob Rae in Ontario still haunts me lol.

I third that :-).

I beg to differ!!. The liberals may indeed have done some wrong doings but they are in the past and current liberal leader has nothing to do with them. Not so with conservatives. Their wrong doings is present time and keep accumulating and the current leader has everything to do with it. So respectfully this is the difference http://exile.wordpress.com/2011/03/24/scandals-conservative-party-of-canada-2006-2011-always-under-construction/ Warning - The attached file is a list of recent wrong doings by the current conservative administration headed by Harper since 2006. It is large enough to freeze your computer for a while while loading it because IT IS SO BIG :-).

Un-democratic too

Apart from the Bawdy houses that WIT mentioned, also they can stick it as living off the avails of prostitution since the rent is paid from the money obtain by prostitution, I guess.

Just to clarify that I never said this type of discussion rarely happens on cerb. I said that in my three years of experience seeing over 200 different SPs I was personally never asked for my name and I cited one possible reason as may be because I am outcalls only to my home and in all cases the ladies would know my full address which may be as good as my full name. We have an open forum and every subject of interest can be and has been discussed and debated (especially when it comes to the safety of our ladies) and safety of our SPs or privacy of the hobbyists (and SPs) have been discussed many times before on this forum. If you don't want to be quoted as you have asked, the least you can do is not to misquote others.

Yes I always invite guests to my home and me too like yourself thought so too that because they have my full address...., but reading a few posts in the thread I noticed that there are quite a few other gents who also stated that they have never been asked for their full name. So, my impression is that though it happens but likely very rare and only if the lady for some reason feels unsafe but I could be wrong.

Okay we have discussed the subject of SPs asking for gent's full name for 10 pages now with some heated responses. Something that I think very rarely happens. I am not sure how frequent it happens that an SP asks for the full name because as I said it has never happened to me and I have seen over 200 different ladies past three years and not once I was even asked for my first name not alone full!!!. May be because for outcalls they will have the full address so they feel safe enough not to ask for full name in my cases but I noticed that quite a few other long time gents also indicated that it has never happened to them either!!!

I sometimes ask for my dates to wear mini skirts (when it is not a cold day since she is outcall). I find a lady wearing a mini skirt very sexy. If I know the lady for a while I also ask for no make ups and if I know her very well and I am one of the few she sees (or the only one, usually a dancer), I request that she would remain natural for me for a few weeks if she could.

Reading some posts so far I think what may be likely missing is that again like any other subject it is a personal choice that I think we have to respect that choice. It is a personal choice for an SP to ask for full name (and likely even more like work address or work number!!!!!), and also it is a personal choice for the hobbyist to provide (as some have indicated they have no problem with) or decline (again some have indicated they would). If they both match on their requirements then they will meet, otherwise they won't. and likely it is the hobbyist who will move to the next SP who will better match his requirements. Please bear in mind though that it is a lot riskier for an SP to take someone in her private home that a hobbyists. Hobbyists don't get raped, stalked, assaulted, murdered. SPs (God forbid) are at risk for all those. It is an unfortunate reality and statistics speaks well for itself. Additional comments: Kubrickfan, I posted mine right after yours (before seeing your comments) and again I very much agree with you. Too bad I couldn't give you more rep points.

Layton was passionate and best got his message across in my view, Ignatieff comes second as he attacked Harper fairly well on his record on ethics and accountability and contempt of parliament and lack of respect for democracy but I feel he could have done better and Harper appeared programmed to repeat same sentences as how great the economy is. Harper was most prime ministerial but at one point I thought that he was going to get the knock out when both Layton and Duceppe contradict him that he sign a draft in 2004 to bring down the minority liberal govenment and become prime minister himself. Layton's attack on Ignatieff's lack of attendance in parliament could have been a knock out too for Ignatieff. Duceppe's comments on multi-culturalism was weird too!!!!. Likely Harper came out as winner because he kept his head cool during the debate and didn't get a knock out and likely will keep his party's lead over liberals but may be his 10% gap will narrow down.

I have been looking forward to this debate for a long time. What I am looking forward to, is for the opposition to clearly reveal the corrupt, unethical unCanadian nature of Harper and his govenment. I also want to see Ignatieff showing his human nature to Canadians and that he is not a walking robot academia. I also hope Layton do well.

I have never been asked for my full name. I have provided my first name to repeat dates. I won't have any problem to provide references (again never been asked) by those I have seen (plenty on cerb) and I will never of course block my phone number and the lady would also know my full address in details (exactly where I live) so what else is there to know? Why a need for my full name. I do understand however if I do incalls (which I never do) the lady may like to know my full name for her safety because she would invite me into her private home, but again I feel references would be a good enough choice.