Capital Hunter

In between 2001 and 2007 when I was going to strip bars 2-3 times a week, I stayed in touch with my most favorite dancers via phone mostly (Email was not very commom those days). http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=5665&highlight=favorite Since I was single and living by myself then and I knew the dancers for years I fully trusted them to give them my home phone number and sometimes they were calling me to let me know that they are dancing and invited me to come over (mostly at Barbs where we could have dinner together but a few at Playmates too) or me calling some of them inviting them home for dinner and private dances (those who accepted my invitation as some declined). On one occasion I was stalked by a dancer for a while whom I invited home for private dancing (but she had a different idea in mind) but this was a rare exception rather than a rule. Since I switched to escorts in late 2007, I almost stopped going to strip bars and gradually lost contact with all those beautiful ladies. Either they moved away (two of my very most favorites graduated from college and moved to another city) or changed bars or changed profession. The last time I was at Barbs I didn't know anyone there!!!!. I have exchanged contact contact info with few escorts out of many escort ladies that I have seen since beginning of 2008. I see an escort lady mostly once sometimes twice and on very few occasions I am hooked to one lady for a while. so one may say the mutual trust that I built with dancers over years is not there with escorts to pass each others' private contact info (with very few exceptions).

Thanks for your comments and sharing masterowls. I can not fully comprehend or relate to your situation and therefore it would be wrong of me to comment or assess how easy or difficult it is for you to have a permanent relationship with a GF and I apologize if my earlier post appeared that way. All I was saying was that finding/having a GF it is not a no option case for you or anyone in a similar situation (though I acknowledge it might be relatively more difficult).

Thank you all for responses. It is now clearer to me as why a single person may prefer to repeat with an SP many times rather than having a GF. Lack of time and the baggage that may come with a GF were noted as the main reasons. I can understand and may be even able to relate to both reasons somewhat. Just a comment on the post by masterrowls. You did say that you love to have a GF and you have had two relationships that did not work out (most of us have had relationships likely more than two that did not work out either) and that is unfortunate that those two relationships did not work out however, I think that there are many ladies out there that can easily see beyond the wheelchair and establish a lasting relationship regardless. I know I would, if I see a lady that I love, the wheelchair will not get into my way and same will be true for many ladies. I do realize however, that I may not be in the right position to say this, however, I just express what is my view that the majority of people in our society would see the person with good heart and soul only and nothing more. If however, you feel more comfortable in seeing SPs for whatever reason (like myself) by all means please do so, but at the same time please do not feel the other option is a no option just because you are in a wheelchair. Just my view.

cato and whatsup you are both very much missed on cerbland and all we cerbites look forward to your return soon.

Thank you whocares for the review and bringing Caroline up to my mind. I saw this young beautiful lady a couple of years ago and the good memory is now freshen up as a result of your reminder and I think it is time to call her one more time.

As I mentioned before, I like change and variety and this is basically the reason as why I hobby and though I fully respect the individuals' decision for the repeats with same lady as the choice and preference but can"t really fully understand the logic behind it for those who may be single. So the unresolved question in my mind is if a single person in no relationship prefers so strongly to repeat with the same lady again and again, then why not just find a GF and I am sure in most cases it would be a lot less expensive. I used to do this 12-15 years ago when I was student with little money (each relationship lasted a few months at the most) and the cost of taking the lady to the dinner or a dance bar in a month was significantly less than what I spend now on hobby in a week.

I can think of one name that I have been called before. I used to go to Rigaud at Quebec-Ontario border years ago and everyone was seeing me going into locked cabins with a large number of different girls . I was having just (intimate) dances but of course they didn't know. So, one night one of the girls came to me and smiling and called me slut:shock:. I asked her why she called me that and she said in a surprising manner and I quote "You go with every girl, you slut":).

I do get wet dreams occasionally (used to be significantly more frequent in my teenage years) but strangely enough with some girls that I have never met in my life:confused:. I remember only on one occasion it was with a favorite SP. She was all natural young girl that I was hooked on for months. I do daydream about my favorite SPs though a lot:) (even at work).

Jim you got the words quoted above right out of my mouth. I am very much like you. I like to experience a variety and that is mainly the reason why I continue hobbying that I started two years ago and before that I was going to strip bars where I met and made friends with hundreds of ladies and seeing 10 to 15 different ladies every week. As you said it very well, the excitement of meeting new ladies of different shape, size, color, smell, etc. is overwhelming. I repeat with about half of ladies for a second time but hooked on (more than two repeats) less than 10% of the ladies that I see (escorts but I always repeat with dancers) and they have to be absolutely outstanding for me to be hooked on however, it has happened that I repeated with the same lady many times spanning over several months. The criteria for being hooked on are looks (pale soft skin, youth, tall, slander, cuteness, blue eyes, naturally unshaven), personality (friendly, happy, she must like to be with me, honesty) , services (kissing is very important to me and so is daty, no BJ), class (clean, polite and ability to carry out mature conversation, educated).

Thanks for the review of Jessy, itsallgood. I was wondering about her. She appears to be a small girl but gfe lol. Thanks also for brief comments on Jojo. So many choices in Ottawa and so little time. This gives me some ideas for my post-retirement plans lol:) ( in about 20 years time).

Tall slender blue eyed pale brunettes are my most favorites. On the hair alone, I have preference for black hair, however, if it is in combination with pale skin and natural (unshaven), then that would be absolutely heavenly for me. I am a variety seeking type of person and that is the reason for my hobbying. However when I find a favorite like that, I am hooked to her for months.

I was looking for a pale brunette and saw the ad for Luna on cerb and decided to call HoneyGirls for her. A very friendly dispatcher with very cute voice responded and we arranged the date with her for this evening. The lady arrived a bit late but not a problem. She is a small young girl of Polish origin. She has pale soft skin and black hair and also dressed in black and having nice sexy boobs and Pink, sweet, sexy kitty. A lot of pleasurable kissings on her body except that kissing her lips was off limits and so were digits. We tried several positions and finish in doggy. I had a good time with her and will repeat (she suggested that she would stop shaving for me but I will repeat regardless). She told me that she is a strong case of YMMV so guys please be clean and respectful and treat her well. I asked her to join cerb, so she will join cerb soon and I believe that she told me her new cerb handle will be SexyLuna. Edit : Her handle is Sexy Luna 13. She joined cerb last night. You can now PM her directly.

Thanks for the nice recommendation franc. Brief and to the point. From the sound of it Carley is an East coast treasure. You are a lucky man to have had the pleasure franc.

Welcome to the beautiful city beautiful Carley and the pleasure will be all ours.

My pick for 2010, is Spain. They have been doing quite well.

Good advice Pete. I remember it next time that it happens to me. It was the beginning of the hobby for me then and I wasn't 100% sure about outcalls being legal then.

Yes and I acknowledged your statement to be true Megan, but on the top of that I also commented on a separate possible LE issue with incalls. I was not critical of your true statement, however, since I quoted you, it may have appeared that way. So, I apologize for my mistake and will go back and remove the quote.

As a frequent visitor to Montreal (and former resident) I have noticed that in Montreal (contrary to Ottawa) it is overwhelmingly outcalls only:confused:. This is the case with agencies (about 90% of escorts work with agencies, another contradiction with Ottawa where ladies are mostly indies) and indies alike over there. Not so far able to figure out why!!!!. True enough that reputatble cerb SPs will never lead you to a crack den, however, as a separate issue, sometimes with incalls, it is not the SP which may be a problem but rather the neighbours (especially in a hotel room) who may see, hear or notice incoming traffic and may call the cops (or may be a noisy previous client) while I am still in the room. I remember 2 years ago I was in a CLASSY hotel in Montreal calling for girls (taking advantage of better rates I called for 3 ladies that night) and as the third one knocked on my door and when I opened the door, the neighbouring guy came out and gave me a strange suspecious and angry looks. That made me quite nervous (even though in my mind it was outcall and legal) that I wasn't able to ..... for the whole hour (the lady I called for was supposed to give me a hard time not the nosy neighbour lol:D).

No, that is me too:). And likely many others.

cerb versus other boards, simply no comparison because: 1 - Members are friendly and respectful. 2 - Ladies are classy and beautiful. 3 - mod is fair and decisive. 3 - There is so much interaction with ladies (I mean on the board). Ladies frequently take part in debates and exchange of info (yes flirting on the board too). 4 - Provides a safe environment for ladies (and gents) to meet and exchange pleasure. 5 - Provides the SP private area where ladies can check clients for unsafe behaviour or no shows. 6 - Provides free advertisement for ladies. Important for new indies. I don't know of any other board as such. 7 - Very active board in Ottawa section and large number of ladies highly recommended. 8 - The only board I know of with reputation points where members are rewarded for their positive contributions. 9 - The semi annual valued SP event rewarding freely elected SP as valued SP 10 - The semi annual valued member event, rewarding freely elected member as valued member, 11 - The nominated value members nominated by members for their contributions. Do you want some more .....:) 12-The albums where we can look at our beautiful ladies. 13 - The Appreciation Groups where we can join and enjoy. 14-The No fighting or negative comments rules credited for providing a friendly classy environment free of hostility or lies and deception or cheating (unlike the other board). Nobody no matter how valued can get away with any of that. 15-A board that rigorously fights bait and switch and deception where pictures are verified. In summary, friendly, respectful, classy, trusty and safe environment for all where all are equal and treated with respect. Now, can anyone give an example of any other board with even half all that above???!!!!.

Yes I realized that after I got a heavy $400+ ticket lol. Also, I meant it as a joke when I posted the story and a lesson learned!!!. I never said it is a right thing to do either. It happened 10 years ago. I had Just moved to Ottawa and being young and restless. It was NOT something that I used to do often either BUT: It was a very hot July day and on my way to the SC I saw the corner store and decided to stop by and get a few boxes of chocolate for the regular ladies I used to see at the SC. Then I saw cold cans of beer in the window shelves and decided to get one. Then I drove to the SC. The SC was closed (it was about 4:45 pm and the SC used to open at 5:00 on Saturdays then. Parked outside and turn off the engine and took out the key. Decided to have a few sips of beer as I was very hot and thirsty. I had the very first sip that I noticed flashing lights behind me and later came the ticket and the explanation as why. It was an exception rather than a rule and I paid the price for it. Have I known that it was illegal I would have never done that. I never break the law. That is why I am an outcall only guy, in spite of all the extra cost and loss (missing out on all those lovely incall only ladies). Gatineau is great. I haven't been there since I stopped going to SCs, but it is a great place to visit. As someone said very correctly we are lucky to be living close to Quebec. It is a great province with great people.

Yes, don't shave:). I believe every lady would make herself suddenly more popular as 20% of men who strongly prefer the natural looking lady (like myself lol) would opt for the single lady who is natural looking:). I can not think of a single act that a lady can do to make herself so popular by such a large portion of population. Lol, the hair is grown there for a reason (as everything else in/on our bodies) to make the 'Y' look very sexy. PS - This post reflects my personal views on the subject.

I used to go to SCs across the bridge hundreds of times over many years and had no problem at all except: If you do this make sure you don't drink it while in your car :) or you will be fined for a very large sum (even with engine off and keys out) as inside your car is considered to be a public place across the bridge (since you can be seen by public) and drinking in public carries heavy fine.

Zeek, you are correct that incalls are illegal and outcalls are legal. I agree with Meg however, that reputable cerb indies are very safe to see even for incalls. So, from legal point of view it is safe to be an outcall only hobbyist but there is always a price to pay for that (a bit more expensive and in my case to miss out on a number of beautiful incall only SPs). From safety point of view there are pros and cons. I suggest you refer to this old thread for more details and discussions on the subject. . http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=4562&highlight=outcall This updated thread may be useful too on the legal aspects of incall versus outcall. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=25973

Happy birthday Cindy. Wish you many many more happy and healthy years ahead.