Capital Hunter

Dropped by Barefax during the lunch hour briefly. Very busy, almost no place to sit. forget about the next to the stage. A few attractive ladies there. Kept my ears open to hear the name Isabelle or Isabella but among those 7 or 8 ladies who came on the stage during my short stay none was called Isabella. There was a tall attractive brunette and a shorter one both seemed to be more interested in older customers and both were relatively busy. The waitress named Suzi was both cute and sweet and also very polite. Had a pepsi as usual as I had to drive back to work soon.

Anybody knows where Kitty is? I dropped by there this Wednesday (and last week too) for a brief visit but no sign of her, I miss that angelic face (she resembles the snow white princess in Mirror Mirror).

I just came from a brief visit to Barbs. I saw no model waitress but the place was quiet with about 7-8 ladies and twice that customers at 2:00 pm. Maybe I need to go back evening time? Is she an evening or daytime waitress? I stayed for about half hour until half my glass of pepsi was consumed.

May not be a popular post this one but I personally think it may have been taken a bit too far. I mean services are fine if the lady enjoys offering them rather than she has to because otherwise she won't make money and as well her safety (and the hobbyist's safety) is not put in jeopardy within a reasonable tolerance level and I beleived that though kissing/daty falls in that category (though some may disagree) but not sure about CIM or greek. And though kissing and hugging will not most likely have any long term adverse psychological affects on a provider but I am not sure about the other two unless they enjoy offering it which would be fine then. My opinion anyways. As for your question it may go either way. It is possible that it may become even more liberalized some years from now as they find cures for more STDs (like 10-15 years ago it was the fear of aids now they can treat it quite successfully) OR we may decriminatize prostitution and adopt a system like New Zealand which many aspects of that is absolutely great but anything bare even the relatively safe Daty is prohibited by law and providers even if they enjoy it they cannot offer it by law. Which btw, though I find the model as a whole attractive but not that particular aspect of it. Services are up to provider to decide (based on her likes and dislikes and the YMMV factor) and should not be legislated. Government has no business in nation's bedrooms!!. My view anyways.

See the girls from MoonBay to avoid B & S and see them outcall if you want to be 100% safe.

Congratulations and many thanks for valuable contributions.

Phaedrus, pricing for lap dance everywhere and for every girl is fixed at $20 per song. Now some may try overcharge by lying about the number of songs but no one can ask for more than the standard price of $20 per song, especially if she doesn't tell you beforehand. A complain to the management would have worked well in this case. Thanks for the update.

A win-win situation so no reason to feel bad: I see both as one and same. The former, one will have to wine and dine and buy presents and likely a lot more (if living together) and the latter some cash in an envelop as a compensation for her time. I treat providers as like my dates and guests in my house and somebody's daughters with full respect and considerate for their comfort and well being while my guests just like I do for any date. The end result is happiness and good time in life. It is a win-win situation as most cases providers will use up the donation to better their lives or get education or provide for families and we get good time in return. No reason to feel bad at all as long as (and this is the key point) the provider is in this by her own choice or don't use the money on drugs or wastes.

The reason for paying for date (and I pay for date and sex may or may not come with it) is not only limited to lack of ability to find date or get laid. They could be many other reasons like 1-someone maybe too pre-occupied with work and life who as a result may not have time to invest in finding dates though may have good looks and the ability to do so, 2-One may hobby for variety to see different ladies of different looks and ages and races and cultures and enjoy life to the fullest. 3- Or it may be because in his middle age it may be relatively difficult to socialize with ladies half his age in early 20's and go out with them in public for romance. 4 - Or maybe in an unhappy relationship and one who needs to get what he cannot get from that relationship. 5 - To deal with dialy stress of work and life. 6 - some or all of above. There are many reasons some of which may not be a failure on hobbyist part So no reason to feel bad about hobbying.

Brief and to the point mrgreen. Sums it up perfectly. On another note, in every debate different points of view exist and are expressed otherwise it is no debate but a collective agreement!!. A few people have expressed support for the other board (and a few who haven't but have been or admitted to have been long time members of the other board!!!) and its usefulness and that is our view. Supporting the other board does NOT mean opposing this board in any form or shape. It is just looking at both sides of the coin or debate. No body is stirring up problems here either, it is just a debate between civil adults. No body said anything differently than what has been said on terb and if it is somewhat different choice of wording or phrasing or style of writing (in between lines rather than straight out) is because of certain limitations as per rules on cerb that doesn't exist on terb regarding negativity and as I said we all have to respect that when posting here.

Other board has it advantages too, A combination is the best of the both worlds. This board is mainly to find good providers and the other is useful mainly to avoid bad ones. I know what you are saying and believe me I dislike negativity too and I hate hurtful reviews but having a bad encounter like a provider who falsely advertises her services, looks or age or resorts to bait and swicth or breaks her promises or rushes, or an uncaring money hungry or drunk or drugged provider (especially a new provider who no body knows) or the no shows time and money wasters or more importantly an unsafe encounter (like someone with a pimp around, someone who robs or fights or threats or block your way out and many examples of unsafe encounters) and moving on without speaking out about it then will create more victims in the future and those victims may well be members of the community you care about. Why I call them victims because most of us work very hard for our money and some have hard time saving for that single encounter and are really excited about it and then wasting all that on a bad provider and worse even having an unsafe provider is really unfair to say the least. It was mentioned that we should do homework or research to avoid bad encounters. I couldn't agree more. But for any successful research we also need to have the best of available resources to do research and those resources in this hobby in my view absolutely includes cerb as most important step to find the potential desirable or compatible provider but in my view it also includes at terb, infact i would said especially terb to check and see if the potential compatible provider has also same compatibility on the other board where dislikes can be commented too and of course lets not forget Cowboy's diary as another good resource to avoid bad or especially B & S or unsafe encounters. I also agree completely that communications are very important. Communicate extensively with provider you wish to meet. Detail your likes and dislikes and your expectations in writting but this tachnic only works with honest providers.

To each their own: I agree with you explorer69, sometimes on rare occasions it maybe but it doesn't have to be. Cerb motto is if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all, which means negativity is prohibited but it doesn't say if you have something to say then sugar coat what you have to say!!!! I agree also that here too sometimes things can be written between the lines without being negative or hurtful. And I have done so myself on both boards. As an example in a recent recommendation I suggested that maybe the provider in review should spend less time on texting during the session as an area of improvement. That said I strongly oppose hurtful reviews that on very few occasions happening on the other board (very rare but still even one is more than enough) On the other board some are complaining that they have been burned by acting on the recommendations here likely because they only saw one side of the story (the likes) rather than both (the likes and dislikes) or maybe they saw sugar coated ones as per your quoted post. On another time I myself was burned by an SP I chose from BP (she was a cerb SP too with a recommendation) only that the original reco giver could not modify his reco or even if he could to write about what he found out later. And btw, I wasn't able of course to post anything here about that provider. Today for example I avoided a provider I was about to call when I read a thread about her on terb. I think the best strategy is to check both boards. To each their own. Cerb is especially very valuable for the advertisement sections and the separate strip bar sections and various general discussion sections we have and the friendly classy environment (Cerb has become a much more peaceful place to be on, past year thanks in part to decisive actions taken by the mods) and in my view terb for its more complete reviews. The bottom line is that cerb is a recommendation board. no negativity is allowed. We all knew this when we joined and we have to respect what we accepted when we joined. I gave my honest opinion in this post (without sugar coating it lol) and it is only an opinion (the way I see it) by no means it means my opinion is correct or universal.

I just came from there too (couldn't push myself to go to Barb as per staff there). Paradise got my attention. There were about 10 ladies and 20 customers between 3:00 to 4:00 pm. The Paradise-Brittany duo show (which wasn't a show but really they were going at each other) was the highlight of the hour. Nice friendly staff.

Enjoy your birthday to the fullest and wish you all the best.

happy birthday Meg and best wishes for many many more happy birthdays.

You may be correct on the 5 posts if it wasn't there and it is there now. I know that posts are moderated before being posted when the post count is under 5. What I didn't know was that low counters can't even thank someone. Maybe same rule applies to Rep points at the top right?.

LOL it is not in your post because you can't or aren't supposed to thank yourself. It is in OTHER members posts and as themastershake said it is at the lower right corner of someone else's post. A red Thanks button next to "Nominate Post" button.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=118066&highlight=thanked

I am in this hobby to see younger girls in their early to mid 20's which is almost half my age. If I wanted to see ladies my own age I meet them in the bars or at work are plenty around. I think it is normal for a gentleman to be attracted to younger ladies. I don't see why younger providers won't see you if you are nice to them and treat them well. Some even strongly prefer more mature guys than guys their own age because they are likely treated better in all probabilities by more mature gents. Remember this is not chossing a GF or BF. It is more like you will be paying for their time in a private place not a romantic relationship in public. If you are asking about dating someone much younger in public then it may be a different story altogether. It depends on how well maintained you are yourself for your age. A young looking gent with head full of youthful hair with little or no face wrinkes has a better chance to date in public with a much younger lady without drawing attention than the one who looks older with a belly and grey or balding hair and face full of wrinkes and the young lady may not accept the invitation fear embarassment. Mind you I have witnessed even in semi public places like strip bars men more than 2 to 3 times older hugging and kissing the younger girls like a GF lol even I become sometimes astonished to see that and rub my eyes a few times!!!!!!!. but no it does not happen in dance bars, restaurants and parks and libraries lol. Remember if it is a paid date nothing of sexual nature must occur in a public place (or even talk of it). In any case as long as it is private, and you treat them well, it will be fine, regardless.

Best wishes from me too and good luck.

Cover your personal information by your hand or fingers (like your name for example). your client is only interested in two things. Your birthday and your picture none of which is personal information.

After a quiet night in downtown ottawa I returned home and it was 9:00 pm and looked into BP to find a date and contacted several for which almost all failed my screening process with the exception of a cute young pale brunette lady whom I invited over for an hour. I had a bit of convincing to do as she was incall only (she is new to Ottawa) and I am outcall only so we exchanged texts and calls and I needed some persuation for her to come over and I assured her that she will be my guest in a safe environment. She took a cap and arrived on time and after her arrival I actually found out that she is Destiny Devine on cerb!!!! A nice surprise. And she found out I am on cerb too!!. Even though it was late at night (late for me as I usually go to sleep at 9:00 pm) and I was tired and sleepy but I had good time with her. She is tall, with nice feminine body , very pretty face and fairly large firm pair of boobs and more importantly very pale soft skin and long brown hair. She provided safe GFE services as listed above but I felt like she wasn't comfortable with DFK so I didn't try it. She is relatively new and especially new to Ottawa and doesn't know the city and may need to work a bit on emotional aspects of GFE (maybe YMMV though), and also less texting during the date, otherwise a good date for a mild quiet wintry night in Ottawa. She also has a recommendation thread in Nova Scotia section of cerb where she is visiting from. She does like Ottawa and hopefully she would decide to stay on for a while. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=94798&highlight=destiny Thank you Destiny for a good time.

Exchange of money for sex is illegal in the US whereas it is legal in Canada. There are therefore sting operations routinely carried out in the US by LE there and that explains the likely reason for providers in the US being stricter on reference checks. That said I am all for it. As I have said before I fully understand reference checks as a lady takes enormous risks coming to a total stranger's home (or accepting him in her home or being alone in a hotel room) so they are entitled to asking for references. Besides I don't see any reason for not providing it or being reluctant to provide one if one has one to provide!!.

I used to catch flu 3 to 5 times a year each lasting 2 to 4 days. I have been getting flu shots past 10 years and each year I still come down with mild flu once or twice a year each lasting one to two days. I can't be all coincidental. I always get my flu shot in early November.

Well this is not true!!. Tamika is there and she was quite surprised when I told her about what is posted here. I was happy to see her too as I thought I lost her again. So Tamika-lovers go and see her as she will be there at Barefax dancing. Back to Barefax review. I took this sunny mild January afternoon off and it was my lucky afternoon. As I arrive at Barefax at 1:30 pm it was quiet. Surprisingly it was only a few weeks ago same place and same time, I wasn't able to find a table or seat to sit and had to stand up for the whole hour. I sat and ordered a pepsi and watched the stage dance and suddenly to my surprise Tamika appeared coming down the stairs (basically I was there to see Diabla and Kitty - my other Barefax favorites). So she saw me and came to me and we went upstairs and had some (real) private dances. She said that she will be working at Barefax as she used to, daytime and had no plans for retiring. I left the bar after the CR dances as I didn't know any of the ladies there and headed to Barbarellas. Read about my Barbs adventure as to my another surprise I saw both my favorites (who I was looking for at Barefax) were actually at Barbarellas!!!!!.