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I think you described her the best possible way, YS. Physical attractiveness does not stay for ever and disappears with time however, the spiritual attraction is inside the hearts and is like writings on the stone and only strengthens with time. Thanks for the ultimate description of a dreamgirl.

Maya on CL here in Ottawa. $90 for half hour incall. Check her reviews here and on the other board. She advertises on CL. Search for Maya on CL and go to her web site. She offers a variety and at different prices starting with half hour GFE at $90. Oh yes, she is also a cerb member. I think her name here is Mayacurves. Good Luck.

So if I say that I prefer tall girls I am prejudice against short cute girls and if I say I prefer unshaved, I am prejudice against shaved ones. Or if I say I prefer small boobs I am prejudice against the ones with large boobs!. If so, then we have to be on guard all the time not to be prejudice. For example at the strip bars we have to make sure we take all girls (or none at all) to the CR and spend totally equal number of songs with them in the CR!!!. We should not be calling our possibly favorite SP a second time (in fact it may be prejudism to have a favorite SP) until we have called all other SPs at least once!!!. And when we highly recommend a lady then automatically we are prejudice against those who are recommended or when we assign 10 we are prejudice against all those graded 9!!Also donations range from $200 to $300 in Ottawa. Everytime we call or donate the $300 we become prejudice against all those at less than $300!!! If so, in my view I think there is a whole new definition of prejudism. BTW in my original post stating my preferences for the one and only I did not state any preferences related to any lady's race, religion, nationality or orientation because I HAVE NONE when it comes to these factors.

I thought I was clear in my earlier post as why I am curious about responses in regard to preferences for ladies as I explained it in depth with examples. I don't know of any other way I can explain to clarify it further except may be suggesting to please read my earlier post once more. Yes, I love them all but I love the one and only more than the others as we all do ( we all marry one, the dreamgirl and not all the ladies on the planet. On second thought I like the latter more :-)).

A little bit prejudice!!!:shock:. Where did that come from (asking men what qualities they like in ladies or their dreamgirl is prejudism :shock:). I sometimes ask fellow gentlemen about their likes and dislikes to see how widely they differ to mine (or look into similarities). For example a few months ago, I started a thread asking about shave versus unshaved kitties and I found out about 20% like unshaved (From what I heard in the SCs I thought I am the only one). A couple of months ago I started a thread about gentlemen's sexual act preferences and to my nice surprise I found out that very similar to myself, Daty came out at the top and FS in the middle lower than daty and hence found out many have similar preferences. In fact the above two threads ended up with a large number of comments and replies (75 and 96 replies respectively) that they showed up at the top 10-15 threads with most responses a few weeks ago. I was in a debate with a friend a few months ago who used to have a pale skin and tanned recently citing her reason that most men prefer tanned or colored skin and again out of my curiousity I wanted to know if that is really a fact or a fiction in many ladies' mind (many dancers tan and almost all shave). I am sure that many men do love tanned or colored skin but is that a majority? I was also curious to know as how many (or what percentage) of gentlemen prefer taller larger ladies (like myself) and how many small cute, schoolgirl type (again became curious as someone told me most men prefer smallies!!). I was also curious to know as what percentage of gentlemen prefer large boobs and how many small ones (again out of SC discussions). I see many ladies going through expensive breast enhancement operations and wondering why. Do overwhelmimg majority of men prefer large boobs that some ladies go ahead with that? In fact I think that many ladies would also be interested in the responses to those questions. As why I ask those questions on cerb, well for one thing I think this is a place to discuss ladies and sex. I wouldn't have asked those, if this was a religous board or something. What place better to ask sexual questions that you would like to know how others would respond openly and honestly (and anonymously) than an escort recommendation board. This is not the type of everyday questions (favorite sex acts, shave/unshaved kitties/dreamgirl qualities) that everyone can pose in public (i.e. at workplace or school) or even get open honest replies, if they do. It is important to note that the question in the thread asks about preferences NOT dislikes. For example if I say my dreamgirl is one who is tall that does NOT mean I don't like small girls!! I do like all ladies. In fact love them. And when I say my dreamgirl is one with pale skin does NOT mean I don't like tanned or colored ones. Or if I say I prefer small boobs does not mean I am not going to take a peek down a lady's blouse, if she has large boobs :-). I do love them all. It just states my preferences.

I had the great pleasure of spending some time with Miss Olsen this afternoon and it was a wonderful and unforgettable experience. Miss Olsen is everything that a gentleman desires. She is beautiful, very classy, relatively tall, with soft pale skin, absolutely beautiful sky blue eyes and natural light blonde hair. She is also very friendly and a true GFE. She has the sweetest and most beautiful kitty and pink nipples. She was visting Ottawa for a few days from Montreal and I would like to extend my sincere thanks to Miss Olsen for the great time and also to Montreal French Kiss Society for arranging her trip to Ottawa. I Look forward to her next Ottawa visit. Emmie's (not so Secret) Admirer

Just to clarify that the question in the thread was not intended as a reference to escorts or SPs but a question in general as what description would fit a guy's dreamgirl (the one and only that most of us eventually get married to at some time). She could be a wife, a girlfriend a co-worker, a classmate, a neigbor, a stranger in a bus or shopping center as well as possibly an SP, cerb member or not.

Very informative and detailed post. Thanks MOD. Often the ladies (especially invited nude dancers/friends and invited new SPs) ask me about the legality of the issue and now I have a great post that I can easily refer them to, which I am sure will be most reassuring to them. So fantastically well said Paige. Bravo.

It is my understanding that outcalls are legal for both the lady and the hobbyist for as long as details of sex and/or exchange of money is NOT carried out in a public place (that is if the lady gets inside the hotel room or apartment or house and close the door and discusses sex or exchange the money inside the closed doors, they are both legal in canada). I personally never take incalls. I greet the lady at the elevator. Kiss her on the face. Walk with her to my apartment. I close the door. Hung her jacket. Ask her to please take a sit on the sofa and the money is in an open envelope right in front of her with her name and the dollar amount written on the back of the envelope.

No offence taken. I explained (in my PM) why I don't cook food, but I do like those girls who are cooking with me :lol:.

Not a problem dear Emma. No need at all for apology. I was just surprised as I knew we have never met :shock:. I sometimes do that too. May be even worse (I called my ex-girlfriend's name, Melissa, when I was making love to the new one, Stephanie, the girl I picked up from the Dome in Montreal 10 years ago :oops:). Lucky Simon guy though lol.

You guys can not be a judge in a Miss Universe contest :lol: as you have to choose only one out of all the competing beauties lol. Or is that because you are being diplomatic:-). No seriously, although I can't personaly relate to that, but I can understand that. In a way I think you guys are lucky that all the girls are your dreamgirls (everytime you sit in a bus, half the people are your dreamgirls :lol: or in a shopping centre or .....). I spend more time on researching (reading reviews, exchanging PMs, inquiring when I call, etc.) to get someone close to my dreamgirl than the time that I have to do research related to my work.

Sure fully appreciated. We all love ladies regardless of height/weight/skincolor/eyecolor/shaved/unshaved/..... for sure. But we all have only one dreamgirl even though we love them all. It is like choosing the Miss Universe. All the participants are obviously beautiful but only one can become Miss Universe of the year. As another example we meet hundreds or may be thousands of girls in our lifetime but we marry only one (the dreamgirl).

Oh I miss Sofia so much,:cry:. She was my height (5 10) but I am not sure about her weight. I used to look right into her very emotional eyes while making love to her. We matched perfectly. I have met two more 5 10 ladies (Abby also retired but Natasha still around) since Sofia retired and the experience has been equaly great. However, I can't see how it is possible to be face to face for someone 6 feet like yourself against someone 5 feet!!!. This require a huge angle not a slight one :-).

You are a very lucky man. I envy you:smile:.

I remember to have met an SP several months ago about 5 10 and was advertised as 125 lbs. She was perfect (not skinny and not fat and at the same time spinner enough). I based my dreamgirl size (5 10 and 120-130 lbs) on that. Sometimes in the ad, they exagerate the height (she was indeed 5 10 as our eyes and heads were at the same level) and understate the weight (and almost always the age!!!). So that is a possibility. BTW, the reason for the 5 10 height preference is because I like the girl at exact same height as myself. It is such a huge pleasure (for me and I wonder if others share this) to be looking right into her eyes while making love to her at the same time witnessing her pleasure (and her mine) and kissing her at the same time which means our eyes and lips should be at the same level (in other words our heights should be same - 5 10).

How about wearing a loose mini skirt in a windy day:grin: with no underwear:wink:

Actually Tstorm I am not so sure as preferences vary so widely between individuals. For example when I was cruising strip bars for years then after a while my very favorite very pale skin dancers started tanning:cry: and their reason was that many guys don't like pale skin and prefer some tan or colored. There is also an 80% preference for totally shaved kitties as the poll I conducted on cerb indicated only a 20% preference for unshaved kitties. That is why almost all nude dancers are shaved as they don't make money if they don't (their customers and clubs are demanding it). I also know for sure many guys prefer small cute short girls rather than 6 feet tall and some like big boobs and some like myself prefer small natural boobs. Also some prefer submissive and some controling among other differences in eye and hair color, as well as other stuff like hair length (which I like fairy short hair but some men have strong preference for very long hair on their girl). But it appears you and me go for the same girl :-), as we seem to seek same qualities in our dreamgirl.

If you want to describe your dreamgirl, how would you describe her?? I start the thread by describing my deamgirl. Body - Tall (5 10 +), spinner but not skinny, some meat but not fat (120-130 lbs), long legs. Skin - Soft, very pale, spotless Eyes - Big blue shining eyes Boobs - Natural, hard, small to medium size with pink large nipples. Face - Cute and feminine, small nose, thick lips, big blue eyes, small ears, spherical head and face. Hair - Natural blonde or real dark black, short (about 6 - 10 inches long) Soul - Very friendly and intimate and understanding. Must love kissing and hugging, not bossy but not submissive either (relationship based on equality and equal decisions). Proud of her man and loyal and supportive at all times. Loving and caring. Dress - Wearing (mini) skirts (I am not into pants), and little or no make ups. Unshaved but trimmed kitty. Wearing a smile at all times :smile:.

Yes but their web site is old and most of girls shown don't work there anymore and the pictures of new ones are not there either. Best to look at the CL ads they are placing for their available girls.

The last time I was there (two years ago) also was a Saturaday night. The place was almost empty at 9:00 pm. Dancers and people started coming at around 10 pm when stage dancing started. Then lot of loud kids sitting all around the stage. There were plenty of girls but the open concept CR made the dances all low mileage. I haven't been there since. It may be better other nights, but if you have to work the next day like I do, it is hard to start your night at 10 pm when the party at this bar just starts!!.

I have no problem with hugging a cop (or anyone female as a matter) as long as she is a female cop :lol:. No seriously their hard work is highly appreciated. All the best regards to Ottawa police. Thumbs up (male or female).

If is amazing to find out how we all differ in our preferences. To the best of my memory about 20% of members who responded had strong preferences for an unshaved kitties (myself included) and the remaining 80% indicated preferences for totally shaved. I was happy to find out though that I am not the only one. While I have been lucky recently to see girls with my other strong preferences (Tall, pale skin, spinner, very young and very pretty) but I have not been lucky in this "unshaved" area. There have been a couple of dancers I have been seeing in private who did not shaved for two three weeks for me (and then soon after they saw me, they shaved because they were losing money), however, I have had no luck in this area with service providers:sad:. I may start offering incentive (say a certain donation over and above their usual donation), if they are not shaved for at least a month. But with 80% preference rate for shaved, it may falsely appear that whoever takes up the offer will lose a lot more than she will gain!!! at first. But, the missing point is that the single unshaved SP will become popular with the entire 20% of the hobbyists which overall I think it will work out to her favor significantly.

I haven't been there myself for a while as I have switched to escorts (I go to SC's once every couple of months these days as opposed t twice a week before 2008. But have you tried jessica (with glasses). She is really good looking and good mileage too (with 3+ dances). And then there is Mia (Spanish) with very sexy lips, cute face and kitty and good mileage too. They both dance on Wednesdays. Tamika is also there but not as often. She is very cute baby looking very pretty girl and for her your mileage is proportional to the number of dances you take with her!!!. But she is real cutey. And if you want more, there is another named Veronica. She is from Czech republic and a blonde with a very pretty face and blue eyes WOW!!. I am not sure about her schedule though. Out of curiosity, who was the best looking waitress??? There has been one for many years (Anita) whom you can hear her laughing from long distance (very loud) but she is friendly though and they have a new very friendly, very cute blonde waitress (Naomi) with Eastern European looks but I think she works weekends only.

I am not clear which bar you are referring to!! Are you referring to club 77? There are not even open weekends until early evening and girls (dancers) start showing up after 8 pm (stage dances starts around 9 pm) unless there has been a big change there recently. So I don't think it is busier weekends (unless you are talking about another bar). It used to be a busy fun place when I moved to Ottawa ten years ago with many beautiful dancers from Montreal (I was up to my eye balls emotionally involved with a French Hungarian Virginie) and only for $10 per song, contact dance. And then (I think it was in 2002) they made a big mistake and raise the dance price to $15 and $20 overnight and the place start going down. No more incentive for Ottawans to drive all the way to there to get dances at half price (as it used to be $10).