Capital Hunter

Yes I did :grin: and thank you very much Seymour, it is nice to be back.

Have a very happy birthday PP.

I had the pleasure of having Abby from PK over this morning and I really had a great time with her. I received a very friendly professional service from PK and then when the elevator opened up, a beautiful angel came out with shining blue eyes, very friendly nice smile and a big hug and kiss (even though we were meeting for the first time). Her picture doesn't do her justice at all. She is much prettier in person :-D. She is a true GFE (both from emotional and physical aspects) beautiful blue eyes, milky while skin, blondish light brown hair, large real sexy breasts and very friendly (did I mention about her beautiful blue eyes :-)). The service was a true GFE and I really felt that I had my girlfriend over for an hour. She is also very classy and intelligent athletic young lady. Thank you very much Abby and PK. You made it my day this Sunday morning. Abby's (not so Secret) Admirer

Ya, I did my college at Highbury Tech in Portmouth and I was a supporter of Pompey (Portmouth) too for a few years and used to wear the scarf. They used to be in the third division at the time now I believe they work their way up all the way to the first division. The other thing I remember about Portsmouth is that it is a small but very clean and safe city and they have the most beautiful young girls in the world. Ya, there are a number of drunken guys like that in England (a small minority but active) that they think because they are born there they have more rights than those who are not. Sometimes they go to foreign owned restaurants, order a whole bunch of food and then after they eat they refuse to pay, saying that the food and the restaurant should be theirs because they are born there!!!!. Luckily, after finishing my college (even though I personally was not the subject of discrimination because of my very fair skin), I decided to move and come to the best country in the world and do my higher education here where we (or our parents) are mostly immigrants and people are judged based on the size of their hearts rather than where they are born or how much money they have in the bank. I have never been to dutchland but have heard good things about it. Someday I plan to visit former Soviet blocks and Eastern Europe (I hear Prague is the best place to visit now). Wish you great time in your trip Erin and hopefully after your return we can may be get together and talk about our common grounds (Pompey, England, etc.).

I started this thread because in my mind it didn't appear natural to develop feelings for escorts (when money is donated for services) and miss them so much when they retire and I put it as a question to see if it has happened to others too and from the overwhelming positive responses that the thread has received I was very encouraged and would like to extend my sincere thanks to all those friend members for taking the time and responding. For those few who may not have liked the pouring of emotions or the posts, there is always the option of clicking away without reading the posts. BTW, it is hard to let them know the feelings when they suddendy quit and as dummpy said they want to distant themselves from this part of their lives and not be reminded of the people they have seen. Also, in many cases there is a significant age difference between escorts and the hobbiests (sometimes twice as much) which make it difficult to reveal those feelings even before they retire. At the end as many said it so well, though it is sad to lose these sweethearts, I am however, very happy (and supportive) for them that they have successfully moved to the next stage of their lives and would like to extend my best wishes to them in their future endeavours.

Thank you both very much PL and Seymour for your supporting comments. I feel much better now that I read I am not the only one in this situation my friends. I probably take the end of the week off work and go to bars to see some of my old friends there. A good way to forget lost friends. Again, thanks for the comments and sharing.

I thought I start a thread on this topic as I would like to know how you feel about your favorite girl or girls who are suddenly retiring (i.e. finding another job or starting a relationship or retiring). I used to feel emotionally attached to dancers whom I used to see (at strip bars) for many years and once they retired then I used to feel really bad about it and emotionally hurt for a while (I still think and dream about Mary Jane, Jessica, Nadia, Virginie, etc. whom I met and became friends in strip bars over years). Then I decided to switch to escorts and I thought this will not happen with escorts as I thought it will be all about money and boy was I wrong. So far it has happened not once but twice (in less than a year) that my favorite SP has retired and it has been equally (equal to a dancers whom I used to make friend without money exchanged) painful :-(. The advice that I have received is to let go of the past and come on board on present tense, as there are plane loads of other girls waiting for my call!!!, but I am not a machine or a robot that can be turn on and off just like that. And the girls that I see too are not tools either that I can just use and throw away afterwards or forget about them, rather humans whom I develop feeling for over time . It will take me a while before I can even think of forgetting about the retired sweethearts I have been seeing over months and find substitutes. I would like to have your thoughts on this topic in order to see if it is only me and if I need a brain (or soul) transplant (or a heart transplant since rumour has it that love is in the heart and not brain) or there are also some other members on this board that share my feelings. Thanks guys (and girls are too most welcome to take part in the discussion) for sharing your thoughts and feelings.

The plane may have arrived but the passenger that I want to see has already left the airport.

It appears that Sofia is no longer working as SP . I am very sad to learn this, however, I would like to extend my best wishes to this sweet, beautiful lady on her future endeavours. She was a real sweetheart and will be greatly missed by many admirers.

Unfortunately where I work, it is very strict. People can be fired for sexual harassment (even an accusation can be enough) easier than bad performance. I am very careful. Office romance is totally off the table as far as I am concerned and everybody knows that (They might think I am priest or something) . Why take the risk when there are so many available outside the work environment? However, I do use my imagination sometimes. Real or rumour, I heard someone lost his job because he commented on a co-worker that she lookes very pretty in her new dress!!!!! (No it wasn't Saudi Arabia :-)).

I find the hobby very addictive. I started going to strip bars some 15 years ago (very expensive hobby) and have tried to quit that hobby several times with total failure everytime and the best I could do was to (partially) switch to escorts last year (which means going to strip bars only once or twice a month now). I have found escorts even more addictive. In spite of pressure from my family members and friends to find somebody and get married (they tell me that I am going to be a very lonely old man if I don't change), I just can't do. I love women too much to settle down permanently with a woman.

I was at Playmates yesterday (for a short while) and to my surprise one of the girls told me that they are open on Monday:shock:. I think all the other bars will be same though may be at a later time (after 2:00 for Playmates and after 4:00 for barbs). I am not sure though how good they will be (normally it is very quiet with a few girls most of the time at the backroom and no girl on the stage). The best is to call before you are heading. Their numbers are in yellowpages under nightclubs since I am not sure about their opening hours.

I used to go to Rigaud which was also FS. I never asked for FS in there. Somehow having that in a 2 by 2 dark room (and in rush as time is very limited in there!!!) doesn't excite me. For me all conditions have to be right. A large bed in the bedroom, full light, a couple of glasses of wine and a soft music at the background and romance with lots of touching and kissing.

Glad to read that my review of Caroline was helpful and you are most welcome. Likewise I have found your reviews on board very helpful in my decision as who to call. I shasred the same feeling about DV. I have been using their services for a few months now and once they know you (as regular customer) they become friendlier and more open on the phone.

Thanks for the great review kih. I have had a similar experience with Caroline.

Isn't that a fact Seymour. I had strong feelings for: Virginie in 2001, then Foxy in 2002, followed by Nadia in 2003 and then Jessica in 2004 and 2005 (longest and most intense) and Mary Jane and Drew in 2006 :shock: and in 2007 I decided to switch to escorts before falling for even more girls. I seem to have had feelings for a different girl every year and likely this explains why I am not yet married :-D. Mind you it hasn't happened with escorts yet I think that is because with escorts, the interaction time is too short for feelings to have a chance to develop.

Sorry guys. The name Sammie doesn't ring the bell in my mind at all. But you say her name might be Sammie. Could she go by another name? The other thing is that I only have weekends to go out. So, if she is or was dancing Tuesdays only, then there is a good chance I haven't met her.

Yes, I fully agree that client's cerb name is a very good source of information. The lady can read client's past posts but also more importantly, she can PM those ladies who have been seen by that particular client already and get by far more detailed information about the potential client that a picture can ever tell (the picture does not tell about personality, cleanness, respectfulness, possible smell, possible abusiveness, safety, health of client, etc.). It is my view that the lady can choose or reject whoever she wants based on whatever criteria that she sets for herself and so can the client.

Thank you very much for the good news about Foxy and your contributions. Although I have weekends only, I will make every effort possible to take a weekday afternoon off and go and see her. I may even drop by Nuden on a Saturday (chances are 50% she will be there).

Thanks for contributions Rick. I know what you mean. I too lost track of so many sweethearts over the years I met at strip bars. I only have great memories of Mary Jane, Jessica, Foxy, Nadia etc.:-( Once they stop dancing or move or get married, even if I have their contact info at the time, the contact info changes as they move. I call and I get the infamous message: "The number you have dialed no longer exists please try again"!!!:-x. My advice, enjoy their company while you can and as much as you can because once they retire, all fun and joy will end too :-( (and this applies to SPs too).

I liked your joke Seymour :grin:. Dining at the Strip bars happens but not very frequently, especially with the new bylaw, the privacy is almost gone. I would say Taboo rather than Barbs is a better place for that. Yes, I have had dinners (I mean having meals :-)) at Barbs many times with my most favorite ones. You order the food and sit with your favorite girl (somewhere close to stage) and while you dine and wine and talk, you also watch the stage. Yes, as you guessed Friday and Saturday nights are the best. I personally used to choose Saturday late daytime into evening to have a combination of high mileage (which is during the quiet day time) and busy evenings (with plenty of girls on the stage). Also if you work nearby, during the lunch hour (Wednesday to Friday) since they serve food, it is also very busy. I am not that lucky. I don't work that close to Barbs.

Thanks for the comments Seymour and thanks for sharing the thread. Barbs is one place you must go. On a busy day (or night) it feels like being in heaven, surrounded by beautiful angels. Barbs is one of the very few strip bars that you can also have dinner with an angel of your choice in the bar while watching other nude angels on stage. It is also a classy place to go with your female friend or GF (female friendly). I went there a few weeks ago with a very friendly SP that I had over and after the hour was over and we had dinner we headed to Barbs and we were received very well.

I don't want this thread to be limited to me and dummpy only. Others please feel free to jump in and name and describe your favorite dancers 8-). You don't know what you are missing Dummpy. I have had so much fun in strip bars. Moving from one girl to another (on average 10 girls) within a couple of hours, all beautiful and nude with lots of kissing and touching and huggings (especially with a bottle of wine in my system) and develop friendship with them and feeling and eventually becoming friends with best ones:grin:). I don't regret the 10-12 years I invested in these bars in both Ottawa and Montreal. I don't understand why you should be mortified. Strip bars are totally legal (unless you are a well known politician, like the MP who last his job for moral reasons. But that was 20 years ago. I hope people are more open minded now). Besides, what is he (your client who may be telling on you) doing there himself if it is a not good place to be :-). BTW, I don't take girls that I don't know to my home. But when I call for escorts, yes I don't know them the first time round. But cerb is an excellent resource to find and choose the best ones (and safe ones). I have nothing to be mortified as I take outcalls only (which is legal) and I am single.

Shouldn't this be in the escorts section?.

Time well invested, I might add Dummpy :-). I Love to spend time with ladies. I adore and love them. Feel in heaven when I am with them (and in hell when I am not). My only time off are weekends though (not enough). You probably know more escorts than I know dancers though (Remember that I used to go to strip bars for many years before recently switching to escorts). They both have their own advantages (seeing escorts versus seeing dancers). The best is a combination of both (first going to strip bar. Have dances with my favorite dancers, wine and dinner with them, watch many nude dancers on the stage, get into the best mood and with all nerves very tense, come back home and call for a couple of my most favorite escorts for the late evening). But this option cost a lot and can't afford it more than once a month. I agree with you about Dreamgirl, but I didn't meet her in a strip bar. That is why I didn't include her name in my list of favorite dancers above.