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These are both entirely reasonable responses. Thanks for sharing them :) Just to elaborate, my thinking is that there seems to be three major reasons for clients to remain secretive - legal reasons, social stigma, and marital strife. Decriminalization would remove the legal reasons, and maybe reduce social stigma, which would in turn reduce the need for secrecy. Of course, I have no idea how often, when a client keeps his hobby secret, his motivations fall into any one of those categories. Anyway, just my 2 cents :)

Reminds me of Hehehe :)

Restored cars, the older the better. Timbits or whole donuts?

Fair enough :) I was just trying to emphasize that sex and cuddling are pretty closely related.

There's a bunch of weird things going on in the following passage: She seems to completely demarcate sex from snuggling. It'd be strange to have sex with no snuggling before, during or after. It's weird for her to try to distance herself from sex workers when the services she offers are so similar (Physical comfort, physical contact, emotional comfort). I mean, I can understand that she wants to escape being stigmatized, but yeesh. It's also strange that there's such a backlash against her. I guess people are concerned about emotional infidentality as much as physical.

weekday sex! Batman or Superman?

I think it ought to be said that even with ED, there's still a lot of fun to be had with a lady. It doesn't necessarily have to be all about the erection and orgasm :) That being said, there's absolutely nothing wrong with taking a drug, although before doing so be sure to read the contraindications.

In my experience, yes. If you have a special type that you prefer, though, you may have to bring your own and you should discuss it with the person you're seeing.

Went to the gym for the first time in a long time :)

It seems like there's also an assumption in the other direction - when someone infrequently posts an ad, when she does, it must be a slow week/month/whatever.

I feel like I ought to make up a little checklist when next I am kissed ;)

Smart as a whip, with a stunning combination of gentleness, humour and grace, I can say without exaggeration that Nathalie's a wonderful lady.