My first time with a sp was last night.
I am in the process of going through a divorce and I was introduced by a coworker to a website that lists sp's in my area. While looking at it for a couple weeks, I found out about cerb. Now cerb is very dead in my area, so I couldn't go by any reviews.
Fast forward to last night, I get stood up by coworkers, and it's suddenty 9:30 on a sat night, with nothing to do. After opening a beer I decide to check out said website. I see this add for a cute little blonde, thinking what the hell, I send her a txt (one of the few it seems that accepts txts). After several messages back and forth, before i know it, I have my first appointment with a sp.
When I get to her hotel I'm nervous. I haven't been with a new women in over 8 years. I'm normally fairly comfortable in most situations with one exception... sex. I get major anxiety.
Anyways, when I get there, she's having a smoke, great! I can have one too. Come to find out I'm her first customer on her first day as a sp. uh oh. She's also a little nervous. Anyways, we probably talked for a good 10 minutes before anything even started to happen.
She was great. She provided a better gfe then what the ex did lol. However, I was not up to the task. She tried several things, and while I got satisfaction from making her have an orgasm I left a little disappointed in myself with my first experience.
I'm not going to let one so so experience stop me, I'll try again. I'm even thinking of calling the same sp, and booking her for at least 2 hours, so we can get to know each other even better. Hopefully that will help with my anxiety. If that doesn't work, I might have to try a more experienced sp.