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Mmmmmmm mimosas are amazing! I also love white wine (Sauvignon Blanc) as usual. :)

tomato soup with grill cheese! Yummy! I saw "5 guys" mentioned earlier (page 21 I think) and all I can remember the time when my sister mentioned she was "having 5 guys for lunch" and I bursted out laughing. I know, I know bad joke lol

No cuddles after sex. Well depends on how hot the session was because then I might say, "Let's have a shower together then cuddles" :lovers: I like cuddling lol... That or, people who ask questions that can be answered on my FAQ page. :roll:

Hmmmm I love music and definitely loved the music of 2012: Mumford and Sons - I will wait :)

I received a picture of my nephew today! I love receiving pictures of him and it makes me smile every time I think about going home, and giving him a big huge hug! (I also taught him the word huge and the arm movements that go with it lol which makes me smile every time he says huge with his hands outstretched above his head saying --huuuuuuuge-- haha) Xo

A man in a suit A man in a suit with a tie A man in a three piece suit A man in a pin stripe suit A man in an all black suit --hehe--

You can also use blogspot for the same thing and allow access to different types of people and also allow different types of access like admin, guest blogger/writer, certain emails allowed to view it :) there are also scripts that you can insert that require a password to read it which might be better because certain blogs with privacy can still sometimes be viewed :) Kerri

Congrats Pete! :) Kerri xo

I have never had it requested when I see someone as an SP but when I meet someone as a non-SP they expect it to happen. I don't understand why some males suggest it outside of SP work. *SMH*

Thanks for the invite! My nickname isn't Legs for anything ;)

You have to select to void google+ services (and just opt for gmail which may include documents/calendar/etc).

Booo! Sorry to hear about someone not respecting your boundaries :( I offer face photos (clearly); however, I don't send face photos to someone's email. Not all my photos show my face but some do. I also state on my site that I don't send face photos to people who ask for them (and that I note I am on EC--my face photos there and here on CEBR). I tend to find that those who know what EC or CERB is/are (or any other cite) respect my life as an SP and a non-SP. I had only one instance where a non-SP acquaintance messaged me saying he "connected the dots." I just ignored it on the advice of other SPs. But definitely if someone threatens you or your work life, then reporting is the best way to go.

Definitely refreshing! I was referred to this site by another SP :) glad to be here! Kerri

To follow up to this message, I use twitter and FB (non-SP) one a lot... like A LOT (I have a blog and write about a lot of Canadian issues from my perspective--not an SP but a student). I do not post my cell number on any FB (even my gmail to activate it or authenticate something). I also have a "junk email" where I attach my non SP twitter and non-SP facebook too. I avoid people who try to search my SP email (which happens because I can check on google analytics--if you have a site or a blog this is good to have even if you are an SP or non SP--can gauge where your visitors are coming from and what they are using to search your SP email and can attach tags to your posts/site to be the "first" match in their google/internet search). This junk email is also useful because I don't get constant updates from people who send me requests or who tweet @ me. It is also useful to avoid people who try to search my non-SP pages :) Hope this helps and if you (or anyone) needs any help, just send me a message :) and I can try to best help to my abilities! Kerri

As an SP, I set up an email with a male-sounding name and I use this email for those who are concerned with getting caught :) when they want to see me they email that email asking to meet up for beers, or golf, or whatever else it is guys might meet up for ;) it's most simple way to approaching a concerned potential client (in my opinion).

As you said, "I'm very polite, reserved and non demanding." -- politeness goes a looooong way! Just don't be too shy in letting the SP know what it is you like (and what it is you don't like). I was reading over some of the other posts and a lot of them already said what has to be said. As an SP, I receive a lot of emails/questions, but if they are flat out rude in how they go about approaching the subject it may turn me off and I may not even want to see them. Establishing the initial contact as someone who is professional and polite is key (for me anyways)! So, just be your polite, nice self and you will go far and have a truly amazing experience with an SP of your choice! Take care Kerri