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    I completely support male4female sex workers, and while there is very little demand now, I really think over time this type of service will become more and more popular and acceptable. However, the same as female for male escorts, it's about a lot more than "stimulating their #* and getting them off". And much more so when servicing women. Here is a great article with some insight about being a male escort for women: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/the-business-of-pleasure-20140127-31hjs.html All things considered, it's a lot more difficult to be successful as a male escort for women. It's about more than just looks & penis size, however those DO matter, but standards for men are different for men in this industry, since it's no secret that that women often have some different needs and desires than men when it comes to intimacy. To just callously throw up an ad with a client escort forum account profile, without any sort of thought or planning, will not likely result in any positive result. It's a bit transparent too.
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    Here are a couple good resources in regards to this government survey. They provide some background info, ideas and guidelines for folks to use to form their own unique responses to the survey. These helpful guidelines were prepared by sex workers and their allies from all across the country, and are designed to inspire you to create your own personal answers. From Maggie's Toronto: http://maggiestoronto.ca/news?news_id=118 From POWER Ottawa: http://www.powerottawa.ca/CALLTOACTION.pdf
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    Here are a couple good resources in regards to this government survey. They provide some background info, ideas and guidelines for folks to use to form their own unique responses to the survey. These helpful guidelines were prepared by sex workers and their allies from all across the country, and are designed to inspire you to create your own personal answers. From Maggie's Toronto: http://maggiestoronto.ca/news?news_id=118 From POWER Ottawa: http://www.powerottawa.ca/CALLTOACTION.pdf
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    Sweet Emily J commented on Parker's gallery image in Member Albums

    Very pretty photo :) Love the blue dress.
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    You may have read the article wrong. Don MacDonald is pro-decriminalization. And he is not in any sort of major position of political power. He is just a BC liberal delegate, likely a political activist, and he is somehow tied to the Young Liberals, who are a youth wing of the Liberal Party and a progressive political organization. They are pro-decriminalization and support sex-workers rights: http://ylc-jlc.liberal.ca/2013/12/16/protecting-rights-sex-trade-workers/. Don MacD is all good. :) The Young Liberals said they decided that they weren't ready to present the motion at the Liberal Convention, but it's probably pretty likely that instead, it was the mainstream mofos in the Liberal Party who said no. Too "controversial" for them. You should write Justin Trudeau instead of Don Macdonald. A few weeks ago he said "prostitution itself is a form of violence against women." :aggressif025:
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    Bah ha haâ?¦ I love this. :biggrin: [B]Justin Trudeau rolling papers prove a big hit[/B] [URL="http://metronews.ca/news/canada/946034/justin-trudeau-rolling-papers-prove-a-big-hit/"]http://metronews.ca/news/canada/946034/justin-trudeau-rolling-papers-prove-a-big-hit/[/URL] [IMG]http://i1.wp.com/metronewsca.files.wordpress.com/2014/02/na-trudeau-papers_01.jpg?crop=0px%2C0px%2C618px%2C408px&resize=618%2C408[/IMG] [QUOTE] OTTAWAâ??A Toronto marijuana activist is doing a brisk trade in rolling papers stamped with Justin Trudeauâ??s face â?? and he has the Conservatives to thank for the idea. Chris Goodwin, manager of Vapor Central in Toronto, has sold more than $500 worth of Trudeau-stamped rolling papers in a little more than a day since they hit the shelves in his marijuana-smoking lounge. He says he got the idea from reading a story last week in the Toronto Star, featuring leaked Conservative plans to disrupt the Liberalsâ?? convention in Montreal this weekend. One of the â??gimmickyâ? tactics discussed by the Conservatives in the memo was a plan to ridicule Trudeauâ??s pro-legalization policies on marijuana by handing out Zig Zag brand rolling papers at the convention, embossed with Trudeauâ??s face. But one personâ??s attack ad can be another personâ??s entrepreneurial inspiration â?? not to mention a financial windfall. [URL="http://metronews.ca/news/canada/946034/justin-trudeau-rolling-papers-prove-a-big-hit/"]Read More...[/URL] [/QUOTE]
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    It's because she is using Wix, as a website building platform, and not actually hosting her own site. So it's all their rules, and Wix does not allow video uploading, only third party embedding. Summer, without getting too complicated, the easiest suggestion I have is Tumblr. It's free, and they are definitely adult friendly, but they do have a daily upload limit. I'm also not sure about embedding there, but you could create a nice little page there with your videos and link to it from your current site. There is some more info on this thread from last year: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=118559 As someone who previously had major issues with Blogger/Blogspot, I vehemently recommend against them.
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    The Sex Professionals of Canada has a public bad date client list here: http://www.spoc.ca/bad.html. And SPOC public "undesirables" list": http://www.spoc.ca/undesirable.html All providers are welcome to view those lists, and all providers can report a bad/undesirable date to SPOC, if they have something to share, and feel comfortable doing so. Providers can also report issues they have with CERB members directly to mod, and he can take action with the member's account if he deems it necessary. But if someone is really "dangerous", they should be reported to the police above and before anything else. Otherwise, I think it's obvious why we have private areas for trusted & vetted independent providers to share dicey info about lesser offences like no-shows, time-wasters, rudeness, bad hygiene, hagglers, bbfs requests, etc. It's sensitive information and public knowledge of it is potentially problematic on many levels. I do understand what you're saying, but there is so many things to take into consideration, and it's a delicate issue.
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    LOL.. Okay seriously, wtf. Come on. :handjob: [B]Advocates protest sex trafficking during gem show[/B] By Jackie Kent [URL="http://www.tucsonnewsnow.com/story/24721299/advocates-protest-sex-trafficking-during-gem-show"]http://www.tucsonnewsnow.com/story/24721299/advocates-protest-sex-trafficking-during-gem-show[/URL] [QUOTE] [I]A local advocacy group will be using a dramatic display to protest sex trafficking at major Gem, Mineral, and Fossil showcase sites this weekend. Jerry Peyton, Executive Director of Sold No More, a Tucson-based organization combating the selling of children for sex in Arizona, said big events like the Gem and Mineral show attracted sex traffickers from around the country into Tucson. Peyton said women were advertised on the internet, as well as by word of mouth at hotels, motels and events surrounding the Gem and Mineral show. To raise awareneness, the group planned to set up a life sized doll box outside major events. Inside the doll box would be a young girl, representing a victim of human trafficking.[/I] [URL="http://www.tucsonnewsnow.com/story/24721299/advocates-protest-sex-trafficking-during-gem-show"]Read Moreâ?¦[/URL] [/QUOTE] â?¦ Aaand a couple antidotesâ?¦ [URL="http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2013/12/03/the-spiral-of-absurdity/"]The Spiral of Absurdity[/URL] & [URL="http://http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/2014/02/04/stupor-bowl/"]Stupor Bowl[/URL]
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    [B]Dear Slut-Shaming Haters, I Really Don't Need an Excuse to Suck Dick[/B] [I]By Paris Lees[/I] [URL="http://www.vice.com/en_uk/read/stop-slut-shaming-prostitutes-trafficking-paris-lees"]http://www.vice.com/en_uk/read/stop-slut-shaming-prostitutes-trafficking-paris-lees[/URL] [QUOTE] [I]Last week, I wrote about fucking guys for money and some of you were really uptight about it. This week, I just want to say I couldnâ??t give a fuck about your pointless sexual taboos. I was tempted to suck it up at first but then I remembered I donâ??t swallow unless I, like, really like you. So excuse me while I spit out a selection of your comments: â?? good excuse vice... being a dirty chav acceptable now? â?? Boohoo poor her, stop relying on others or the oldest "profession'' in the world & CREATE income then you eliminate capitalist dependence. Shit, shit, shit article that's all been done before, justifying being a hooker!! â?? Yeah paying for uni fee's up front can be pretty hard. The should set up some kind of student loan or something? Don't use that as a excuse for sucking cock you twat. â?? Crosby sure, uni's expensive, get a bar job. don't suck dick for cash. â?? Whores always dodge hard work to get that overnight cash, that's why their short lived! â?? WHAT A SLUT! Don't listen to her, stay positive, work harder if needs be â?? lol what a fucking slag. To be fair, that last oneâ??s spot on. Youâ??ll note though that most of these critiques come from men. Apart from this one:[/I] [URL="http://www.vice.com/en_uk/read/stop-slut-shaming-prostitutes-trafficking-paris-lees"]Read Moreâ?¦[/URL] [/QUOTE]
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    My Secret Diary - From CERB's very own Summer! :) All of her posts are very intimate and thoughtfully well written. But her latest post is my favourite thus far! A perfectly articulated response to the negative ways that we are often wrongfully portrayed in various media outlets: Legitimate Sex Work in Canada: What I Am Dying to Say to the Press
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    Miss Alice Gray - http://missalicegray.com - Lots of good stuff from kink & bondage to sex & disabilities and how to choose a good lube! One in particular I read the other night which was good for newbies: Escort Etiquette: A quick guide to booking a successful appointment Pantophile Panic! - Your guide to body safe sex toys! Learning the Hard Way About Toxic Toys- Why you need to buy only high quality toys! The Truth about Sex Trafficking - From Olive Seraphim. This is a really great, easy to follow, pointed post about the basics of trafficking.
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    I agree! It's all about it being "mutually beneficial". :) Haggling is just when one side gets more without giving anything back. In this agreement, both people come out winning. I really like this idea, and have entered into agreements like this before and they worked out quite well. I continue to welcome such arrangements that will make us both happy as provider and client. :) Ongoing relationships can lead to some very fun and intimate times. Every lady is entitled to operate however they please, but IMO, this in this line of work, this is a good way to do business, and hopefully she will not feel offended. I personally think the terms you mentioned are fair, but maybe she will have something else in mind.
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    This is a really great article about male escorts, but I think it applies to escorts of all genders, as I could relate to a lot of what was discussed. :) [B]The Business of Pleasure[/B] [I]By Benjamin Law[/I] [URL="http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/the-business-of-pleasure-20140127-31hjs.html"]http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/the-business-of-pleasure-20140127-31hjs.html[/URL] [QUOTE] [I]Some jobs you never see advertised. Think Hollywood actor, astronaut, adventurer. They're also the kind of professions people fantasise about, but if we sat down and realistically thought through what would be required to do them, most of us would conclude they're beyond our skill set. Male escorting is similar. Imagine that occupation listed in the classified ads: "WANTED: men willing to have robust intercourse with numerous women. Meet interesting people. Excellent pay, flexible hours, immediate start." Excelling at male sex work, say those in the know, isn't just about the sexual gymnasticsâ?¦[/I] [URL="http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/the-business-of-pleasure-20140127-31hjs.html#ixzz2syd7SuQg"]Read more...[/URL] [/QUOTE]
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    Since there was no actual evidence provided in this article, citations, or links to any actual research done, last week I e-mailed both the author of the piece in the Ottawa Sun, and the the anti-prostitution group who makes the "150 women forced in Ottawa" claim, to inquire about this apparent research. I have not received so such as an acknowledgement. I don't expect to. The group who made this claim, imPACT Ottawa, has posted on Backpage today. They linked to a survey asking clients basic questions about their involvement in the sex industry. I encourage all clients to take part in this anonymous survey, to have your voice heard. It's only a few questions. These are the sort of groups who are influencing any sort of future legislation. Take the survey:: https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/5H67FYX As well.. here is a response to that article from Frederique Chabot, of POWER Ottawa: http://www.ottawacitizen.com/touch/story.html?id=9488711
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    [B]The Ins and Outs of Selling Sex [/B] By Megan Gillis [URL="http://www.torontosun.com/2014/02/07/the-ins-and-outs-of-selling-sex#pd_a_7782207"]http://www.torontosun.com/2014/02/07/the-ins-and-outs-of-selling-sex#pd_a_7782207[/URL] [QUOTE] [I]In December,, the Supreme Court of Canada struck down laws that made brothels, communicating for the purpose of prostitution and living off its avails illegal. Parliament now has a year to rewrite the laws. Over the next 11 months, the Sun will look at the issue from different angles through a serious of periodical articles. For more articles, go to ottawasun.com/sextrade. * * * The woman who opens the door of the tidy townhouse could be your pretty and well-coiffed next-door neighbour... [URL="http://www.torontosun.com/2014/02/07/the-ins-and-outs-of-selling-sex#pd_a_7782207"]Read Moreâ?¦[/I][/URL] [/QUOTE] This is a pretty good and fairly balanced article, showing the multiple sides and different arguments of this debate. There is also some polls on this article that if you feel so inclined, you should go have your say on! :)
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    Um, yes!! :biggrin: [B]Oral Sex Vibrator Looks Like The Future, Licks Like No Tomorrow[/B] By Ron Dicker [URL="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/05/oral-sex-vibrator_n_4729897.html?source=storiesweheart_ref=weird-news"]http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/05/oral-sex-vibrator_n_4729897.html?source=storiesweheart_ref=weird-news[/URL] [QUOTE] [I] Looking more like a space-age bauble than intimate aid, the Ora vibrator mimics the movements of the tongue to create "the world's most sophisticated oral sex simulator," its maker says. [URL="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/05/oral-sex-vibrator_n_4729897.html?source=storiesweheart_ref=weird-news"]As seen in the video above[/URL], a nub pushes through the surface, flicking or swirling according to the setting.[/I] [URL="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/05/oral-sex-vibrator_n_4729897.html?source=storiesweheart_ref=weird-news"]Read moreâ?¦[/URL] [/QUOTE]
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    Let's end the world's oldest debate By Eric Duhaime http://www.sunnewsnetwork.ca/archives/sunnews/straighttalk/2014/02/20140206-081631.html
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    Sunday afternoon cuddles with my baby and his monkey :) It's actually a teddy bear, but he calls it monkey ;) lol.
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    It sounds like Megan's Touch is exactly what you are looking for. An independent provider specializing in combined massage and lapdance services :) http://www.meganstouch.ca
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    America, fuck yeah!!!
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    Eli the orangutan picks the Seahawks. :) "SALT LAKE CITY -- A Utah ape that has correctly picked the Super Bowl winner for six straight years is predicting the Seattle Seahawks will be the next NFL champion. Erica Hansen of Hogle Zoo in Salt Lake City says Eli the ape ran into an enclosure Thursday and swiftly knocked down a papier-mache helmet bearing the Seahawks logo, signaling his pick. She says there was no hesitation. That could mean bad news for Broncos fans. The 13-year-old primate hasn't been wrong since 2006.." heheh :)
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    I know there has been polls before on CERB about this, but I recently conducted another one on my blog about my readers' preferences on pubic hair. I've had a feeling for a while now that the "bare" trend is leaving us and that hair is becoming more and more popular with both men and women. I think that in general, as a society we are going back to more "natural" beauty and aesthetic practices. The results as it stands right now are that a combined 142 people voted that they either preferred some sort of hair (ranging from a patch to fully natural) or did not have a preference, and 100 preferred fully bare. Interesting! :) (I can't link it here due to CERB rules, but it's easy to find, if you want to check it out yourself, and vote too!).
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    Funny BJ. ;) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZItsbLzc73s&feature=youtu.be
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