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Well.. "non-consensual" is just a nice easy-to-swallow term for rape, so it is of my opinion that it doesn't really matter where it started, why, who else is doing it, or how long it's been going on, as long as it stops. And if it took a bunch of media attention to make that many people realize chanting about rape was was wrong, so be it. With technology, others doing the same kind of thing only have so long before attention is brought to them too.

Thanks everyone :) I have done a bit of digging and discovered that it has only been disabled and not completely deleted yet. It also may have been done by accident, as I later on received a message saying their automated system labeled it as spam. So I have appealed the decision, and have to wait a few days to hear a decision. Fingers crossed. :)

Just in case anyone visits my blog... Google decided to delete it completely. The only given reason: "OTHER_ABUSE". I have contacted them to question the decision, but I doubt I will get anywhere. I had reviewed the terms of use several times before I started the blog, and during, as they do have a few rules about adult content, however, I felt and still feel that I was 100% within the guidelines. I backed up most of the content, but it's still going to take a lot of fucking work to get it back up and running somewhere else. I'm going to get started right away, but what a bitch. :vatefaire:

Hanging upside down. :)

Discovering a new way to masturbate. :biggrin: hee hee yee haw

I agree. Guns, blood and violence is all over every type of media and what is acceptable to show is getting worse; gore is totally normalized, and a younger generation is almost numb to it. But show something beautiful and natural like a woman's breast and people freak out. Backwards, if you ask me.

Some new goodies at Blogasms! :-) My new crush, Conner Habib, a gay porn star, talks to a sexual health nurse about the risks of HIV & BBBJ. :) Plus other random stuff, as per usual. Naughty photos, links, etc. www.blogasms.xxx

Nothing like that exists here.

I just came across a great article from one of my new favourite sex worker blogs, The Honest Courtesan, and I thought it might be helpful here in the newbie section. :) Advice for Clients - By Maggie McNeill :)

I would argue that YMMV does apply in other service industries. And all of them, in fact. I don't think it's any different in the escort industry at all, it just seems that we talk about it so much more, and it's harder for some people to grasp the concept. In the rest of the business world (and the rest of life in general) it's just called common sense. :) As an example, if you are a regular guest at a restaurant and you are friendly, courteous, polite, gracious and tip appropriately, do you think you will get the same quality of service as some random rude prick who treats the server like crap? Simply, no. And if you think about it for a bit, you could apply this to any other industry, if you change the circumstances and situation. Each industry will have it's own set of factors, depending on the type of business, that will make the difference, and I strongly believe that personally, we do indeed have a lot of control of our own outcomes in our various business (and personal) dealings. When dealing with human beings, YMMV always applies. :)

YAYYY!! :) I LOVE MJ! Huge fan here. :biggrin: My pops introduced him to me when I was very young, and I have been a fan ever since. I always remember him raving about how MJ was "the best dancer in the world" - lol. :) When I was just old enough, we rented a "laser disc" of the Thriller music video from the Ottawa Public Library, and I thought it was the coolest thing in existence. The first album I listened to was a copied cassette tape of . I think I listened to it a thousand times. Then a few years later I got a CD of "Thriller" and that was just as awesome. It's pretty impossible for me to choose a favourite song... and it's changed a dozen times over the years, but I think right now it's a toss up between and I still listen to his music all the time, but it's been years since I watched the music videos... I am loving rewatching them now! :) Thanks for posting Cleo! :) RIP The King of Pop!!

What better way is there to welcome someone than with TITS... So, WELCOME to CERB new members!! :biggrin: Enjoy, participate, get laid, and have FUN! ;)

Great conversation, ladies and gents :) I love the viewpoints. For me, anal is a long term goal of mine. :) hehehe. Other people have long term goals like to learn a new language or to travel to a certain country... One of mine is to be able to get fucked in the bum. Tee hee :) I have experimented in the area, and when I am feeling good and really in the mood for it, I really enjoy the feelings and sensations there. Occasionally when I am feeling extra naughty, I use a small anal toy like this one when I masturbate: I can get going really good with it, and it gives me super intense awesome orgasms. And for me, it is definitely the physical feeling, but it is also very much the naughty aspect, and the fact that it is considered a "forbidden" area. I have tried full-on anal sex a few times with a former long term partner, but for various reasons, it just has never worked out well... yet. I am well educated about it and know all about how to do it, etc... I just simply have not gotten there yet. It's a slow process for me. I'd really like to get more comfortable with exploring anal pleasure on a partner as well; including strap on and prostate massage, both of which I have quite limited experience with. Admittedly, it makes me a bit nervous, but also very curious and I would love to bring pleasure to those willing partners in a new way... when I am ready. My sexuality is a lifelong journey, so I am in no real rush. I think about anal in the same way that I think about many other sexual experiences; as something to look forward to enjoying and exploring more; something to continue experimenting with and pushing my own boundaries. I also have fantasies about getting double penetrated like a naughty little slut someday as well. :)

Tee hee! I think tutus are super cute! :) I have a white one and wear it for guests by request. I did a photo shoot in the spring and got a few good tutu pics :)

My guess would be like plain in & out, sterile, cut n dry, done by the book, boring as fuck, marriage sex kind of thing. Like basic penis into vagina sex, and opposite of GFE.

I never actually used Twitter until a few months ago. I have never had a personal account, and only have an account for my SP identity. I have found it very interesting, and more so the more I get involved in it. Mostly I like to follow people who I find are interesting; politicians, activists, bloggers, environmentalists, news agencies & columnists, musicians, scientists, writers, and popular sex workers from all around the world. These kinds of people are often tweeting links to news articles, blog posts and videos that I find interesting. Or tweeting about different subjects (sometimes controversial), and inviting followers to engage in the conversation. I do a bit of lighthearted personal interaction with people I know, clients and other local SPs, and sometimes I tweet pictures of myself, updates to my blog etc, but mostly the draw for me is the other stuff. Keeping up with what's going on, learning new things, finding interesting people, and sharing things that I find interesting and important. I have found that it's a great way to connect with a wide variety of people, and it puts everyone on a level playing field. Everyone is on the same platform and gets the same speaking time. And yes, you can make your tweets private, and only available to friends who you approve. But I think most people simply only tweet things that they don't mind being "out there" and leave the door open to a varied response. It's not for everyone, but for some it's great! :)

Really great article, Nathalie! :) Thank you so much for sharing! (I know this is an old thread, but it seems to have gotten some new life!) Like others, I was also able to relate to the explanations written. A few years ago, I thought it was weird to want to be alone so often, but now I am comfortable with just doing what feels right. I have traced part of this back to growing up as an only child. I had friends, but it's not the same as having other siblings in the house at all times. I figure that I became accustomed to often being alone and having my own privacy, finding ways to entertain myself, and learning to be comfortable with a calm and relaxed atmosphere. I've never felt that I need people around all the time to be happy, and in fact, I feel quite the opposite. And when there is people around, it doesn't have to be constant interaction. When I reflect on being an SP, and consider my personality and lifestyle, it just really all fits together. I do like people, but in a quiet, private setting, and for a short while. I get my necessary physical human contact, my intimate needs are met, I have enough social time with others, yet it's in the perfect sized small doses. And then I get my adequate time to myself :) For me, it is a perfect balance. I wonder if there is also some sort of connection with introverts and animals. It seems logical that the company and presence of an animal would often be preferred by an introvert, as opposed to the company of another person. I feel that way, at least. I adore the companionship of my dog and cats, in a way that another person could never substitute.

Hey Kaelin! :cooter: Welcome to CERB! :biggrin: Have fun!

It is my strong belief that this will be the future of the internet as we know it. A general end to complete anonymity. We aren't anonymous in person, and the internet is real life now, so why should anyone be anonymous online? It's important to keep in mind that anonymity and privacy protection are not the same thing. If you read online news articles, or news blogs, and you scroll down to the comments, you are well aware that they can be a nasty place. I read articles about prostitution regularly, and some of the user comments are quite hurtful, incredibly ignorant, and often just simply false. We actually kind of discussed this here on CERB recently, on the thread about Verified Membership. Huffington Post has one of the most active online communities on the web. They have recently announced that soon they will no longer be allowing anonymous commenting on their articles and will introduce a new system for commenting. The argument is that people are much more civil to one another when they can't hide behind anonymity, and they have some kind of accountability. What are your thoughts? The Reason HuffPost Is Ending Anonymous Accounts By Jimmy Soni http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jimmy-soni/why-is-huffpost-ending-an_b_3817979.html