Sweet Emily J

Kickstarter-funded Sex Work Documentary Puts Women in Danger By Frankie Mullen http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/frankie-mullin/kickstarterfunded-sex-work-documentary-puts-women-in-danger_b_3644828.html

UB40 - Red Red Wine :)

Cake - Sheep Go To Heaven http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e0mx5ERj1eI

Plain white cake :) Cold, out of the fridge. Simple is best for me!

Ooooh, I have this exact one, except red!! :) However, I have never tried it... yet! I am excited to hear that it works and is fun. Who wants to try 'er out with me!? :biggrin:

Ahhh!! I friggin love someecards!! :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: This is my new favourite thread!

Milo felt like having some breakfast in bed this morning... hehe :)

I do not support this idea from the information, thoughts and ideas I have read so far, but I am keeping an open mind and I am interested to follow the discussion to see how it progresses.

Interesting topic. I completely understand all the reasons why ladies choose not to show their faces and I respect everyone's own choices to live and operate as they see fit for their own situation, since everyone's circumstances are different. For me, I am completely "out" about what I do. Everyone in my life who matters, knows what I do. And I don't hide it from people I meet. My face was already "out there" from some amateur adult stuff I did when I was younger, so when I first started this, I didn't really feel a real need to hide my identity. I know that what goes on the internet is there for life, but it really doesn't bother me. Since my family knows, and respects my choices and love me for me, and I don't have children, and don't want any ever, I am free to live my life any way I want. I don't really understand about the facial recognition thing or how it relates to this. I mean, I understand the technology, but don't really get why US border services would do that to random innocent people crossing the border, however it doesn't surprise me at all. But in any event, I was already banned from the states several years ago for something completely unrelated to this (a really stupid thing when I was 19). I even bought an all-inclusive trip to Vegas last winter, thinking that after all these years, my federal pardon would be enough to allow me to cross, but nope, it wasn't. So fuck them. I have no interest in going to the United States ever again in my life, so that is not a concern at all for me, personally. I also feel like being 100% open with people about my profession, and not hiding my face, this is my small personal contribution to the fight against "stigma" we face. At this point, I have no interest in attending rallies, protests or meetings, but I do think that it is important for us to be heard and give an identity to the modern day prostitute. We are not the creepy skanky diseased, drug addicted scumbags that the media often portrays us as; we are normal people. By me being open with family, friends, and especially strangers, it shows a range of people that we are just regular women. We are mothers, daughters, nieces, friends, and we don't look any different than they do. We have just chosen a different type of work! I really like this job, and plan to be in it for as long as I do enjoy it, so I am putting everything I have into it, no holds barred. If the day came that for some reason I wanted to leave this profession, I could quite seamlessly slip back into my previous career at any time, and because of the type of work I used to do, I am lucky enough that being an SP would have no effect over my ability to be successful at it. One of my best friends from my teenage years, who I haven't spoken to in a few years texted me out of the blue the other day, with just the words "Emily J?". My heart skipped a beat and I laughed to myself. I guess he saw me online somewhere. I didn't know how he would react but it was a great conversation and the last thing he said was "If anyone messes with you, let me know and I'll set them straight!". :) LOL. So, I have come to accept and just assume that everyone knows. And that's fine because I heard a saying once that stuck with me.. "Those who mind, don't matter, and those who matter, don't mind." And I really believe in that. I only have one life, and I am not going to live it on other people's terms. I've always strived to live a completely honest existence and it's a good feeling. :)

I understand your frustration, and what you described sounds like a total turn off, but if someone asked me this question when booking, I would decline the date without a second thought, as it's questioning my professional standards. I am in agreement with the ladies here. Professional women who are entertaining a guest, will give him her full attention and the phone will be on silent for the entire duration, and better yet as Cleo mentioned, in the other room. In general, I refuse to be a slave to my phone. Anytime I am in the company of another person, client or other, I always have my phone off. Face to face interaction trumps everything else. As for a client using his phone, I do not mind this because I mostly entertain during daytime working hours, and often these men are actually on the clock, so I understand sometimes situations need attention. Fortunately, nearly all of my guests also turn their phone off and would rather focus on us for our short time together. :)

My kind of man...

True story! :) It is certainly not entirely uncommon! Some guys even apologize and say "It's not you...". LOL of course it's not ME... I'm a sexy bitch!! ;) hehehe ... Seriously though, I completely understand the frustration, but it's not the end of the world, and it shouldn't make you feel less about yourself, or your time together. It happens. Things don't always go exactly as you planned. There was once a time several years ago when I could not achieve an orgasm from DATY!! Can you fucking believe that! Eventually after lots of practice, it happened. I discovered that it truly was a mental barrier because after it happened just once, and I realized that it actually was possible, it happened all the time :) And now it's my favourite way to cum, and gives me the best orgasms. So I predict that eventually you will overcome this some way or another, but in the meantime I agree with the suggestions mentioned. There is nothing wrong with a manual finish. Add in some dirty talk and encouragement from an enthusiastic partner, and you're golden. I don't think that anyone would or should feel any kind of disappointment by finishing off a streamy session stroking off your hard cock to an explosive orgasm all over my pretty little face and tits ;) Yum.

This group is a member on CERB, and has posted here several times, inviting members to participate in their comprehensive, non-judgemental study. I definitely encourage the good gentlemen of CERB to take part and have your say. This can definitely be an influence as Canada decides what direction it wants to go moving forward, in respect to prostitution. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=124755 From their statements: "We believe that the generalizations that groups seeking the abolition of prostitution make about the attitudes, beliefs and behaviours of ALL people who pay for sexual services in Canada are based on moral convictions and speculation as opposed to actual evidence. In our ongoing effort to present a more complete and accurate picture of the diversity of attitudes, beliefs and experiences of people who have paid for sexual services in Canada we are inviting you to be a part of the largest and most ambitious study of Canada's sex industry undertaken to date."