Sweet Emily J

Why? It there some kind of orgasm ceiling that I am unaware of? Daily and monthly allowances?

Personal reflections after one full year as a sex worker. The past year, where I am now and where I'm going. http://www.blogasms.xxx/2013/06/june-22-2013.html

I am definitely on board as a believer in the power of the mind, the importance of feeling and envisioning what you want, and positive energies. The mental is important, but it is utterly useless without the physical. To me, the power of the mind goes hand in hand with the power of action. Normally, things aren't just handed to us because we want them, and too many people expect them to be. And more important than knowing and envisioning what you want, is doing what you want and going after what you want. The key to turning dreams into reality is making shit happen. Doing whatever it takes to achieve your goals. Physically going out and fucking doing it. Not stopping in the face of failure. Not letting people tell you that you can't do it. Not being afraid to fail, and not being afraid to succeed. I have always been a confident person, but a light went on in my head a few years ago in a busy time in my life, and I realized that I truly do have the capability to handle ANY situation that arises in my life. There was no need to ever fear possibilities and outcomes, because I can handle all of it. To me, being fearless is the key to it all, and the ultimate goal that I keep as a constant in my life.

I've always thought having sex on a beach is way overrated. It sounds way better than it is. Have you ever gotten sand in your pussy? :( It ruins everything. Or woken up with sand in your teeth the next day? Ew.

I think it's a great idea. Part of the proceeds may go to charities too! It's not just the picture alone that gives people the fine... The picture is simply sent to the authorities in real-time and a parking officer who is on-call at the time is dispatched to go verify and actually physically give out the ticket. I have no issue with the city (of who the vast majority are law abiding citizens) profiting off people who are breaking the law and inconveniencing handicapped drivers, or potentially endangering people and property by parking in front of a fire hydrant. Better to make extra cash off them, than the law-abiding taxpayers, IMO. Unless someone is parking illegally and being inconsiderate to others, then no one is taking their money.

Chocolate.

I really enjoy doggy for the naughty, raw animalistic feel of it. I find it best when it is slow too. Better to savour and enjoy the sensations with slow, long, deep strides. Faster jackhammer pumping is not always better, contrary to some popular belief (occasionally it is!). Sometimes I am a bad girl and just need to be bent over and showed who is boss. Doggy is also a perfect position to allow easy access for me to play with my clit while enjoying the cock! Double the pleasure! :D Cowgirl is also lots of fun, to be able to control the rhythm and pleasure. This is actually something that I have learned to really enjoy over the last couple years, and I continue to get better at it. I love to alternate between grinding forward and back, and then bouncing up and down. If I feel so inclined, it is also another good position to play with my clit simultaneously, or press it against his pelvic bone. Cowgirl is fun because sometimes I just want to use guys as my personal sex toy! hehe! Yee haw! ;)

So, that's what the difference is then. General Member (<100 Posts) = 200 SERVICE PROVIDER/Paid Advertiser = 500 Senior Member (100+ Posts) = 1000 Elite Member (500+ Posts) = 2500

My limit is 500, so what I hypothesize is that you noticed the change because you recently were switched from "Senior Member" to the official "SERVICE PROVIDER" user category. It looks like "Senior Members" (and maybe "Paid Advertisers"?) have a limit of 1000, and we have 500. Can anyone else confirm?

Having balls and being rude and ignorant are not the same thing.

I think you would be hard pressed to find someone who's "first time" was all they had hoped for, and everything they expected it would be. It rarely is. It is almost always imperfect, usually awkward, often lacking in everything you hoped it would be full of, no matter how young or old you are, whether it's with your high school sweetheart or a hooker. Thankfully, it gets better! Set the bar low, and be happy that it's out of the way and you can move on with your life as a sexually active individual, with this "monkey off your back". No harm in enjoying it if you can, but don't pressure yourself or feel discouraged when it ends up being lacklustre. Don't over think it, and don't expect fireworks in the background. The earth won't move, but maybe if you are lucky you will get a funny story out of it. ;) It is what it is.