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It's also mentioned in the piece that he was both a drinker and smoker, which are the most common causes of oral cancers. I find it irresponsible to make such a claim to pinpoint the cause of his cancer as oral sex. It's much less likely that HPV was the cause over any of the other known causes. Head and throat cancers usually develop faster than other cancers, but there are many symptoms that show up early before the cancer actually develops which can be detected by doctors and dentists, and early detection can be the lifesaver. Other cancers that are caused by HPV, including cervical cancer are very slow developing. Anyone who gets full blown cervical cancer has severely neglected their health and has not gotten their regular recommended check ups for many, many years. Regular pap tests pick up precancerous cells, long before cancer ever develops and very un-invasive action is taken to avoid cancer. It's very important for people to be pro-active with their health. The main HPV vaccine, Gardasil, is now recommended in Canada for both women AND men aged 9-26, and women all the way up to age 45. I have had mine, and that combined with regular testing and checkups, gives me that tiny bit of extra peace of mind. :) Long live oral sex! Additional Comments: After backlash from leading sexual health doctors, Michael Douglas has since retracted his earlier statements about the cause of his cancer. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2334749/Michael-Douglas-Oral-sex-caused-cancer.html He also made a joke that if you do get cancer, cunnilingus is the best cure! lol ;)

Why I am even responding to this, I don't know, but I don't like being called hypocritical. Last I checked the photo threads titled "Best" (and btw, there is only ONE with this in the title) are not just ONE PHOTO. There are hundreds. So it is not THE BEST, as everyone is so obsessed about, but a collection of very awesome photographs. Stop obsessing over the word BEST! It's petty. Second, it's not my 24/7 job to help boost other women's confidences, sorry. I posted a thread one time about a website that showed non-models, with minimal makeup in regular settings. If you take those women and give them a studio, with costume, makeup, a professional photographer and editor, they will look like a lot of these photos too. I really don't know what your point is. Celebrating all women's bodies includes all women. And I, and many other people, actually do consider all the photo threads as celebratory threads, which celebrate the beauty in women and photography. Clearly you haven't even looked at any of the photo threads either, because I often post photos of women with different body types, ethnicities, and different looks, so to call me hypocritical is offensive, especially considering I never personally attacked you and only addressed the issue at hand.

Everyone remembers theirs... That first special hottie that made your heart flutter and genitals tingle during those awkward pubescent years. You probably had a poster on the wall of them from the record store. Or maybe pages cut out of celeb mags, like Tiger Beat, taped everywhere. I know I did. I have been lustful my whole life, and l and was definitely "boy crazy" as a young teen. At one point there was no paint visible on my walls because it was all posters of boys. I had several celeb crushes over the years, but I vividly remember my very first was Jonathan Taylor Thomas. He was an actor on the sitcom "Home Improvement" and also in movies after that and a teen heartthrob. :) Share your first celebrity crush too! :biggrin: Boys and girls!

I have thought about this more and I have a straight answer to the original question now. The purpose of those threads are that they make men both happy and horny. And happy and horny men are the ones who buy sex from providers selling sex. Consider that the large majority of the providers here are advertising completely free of charge, and probably get most of their clients here (if not most, then admittedly the highest quality of clients). To draw these gentlemen here, and keep them visiting often, they need to enjoy their CERB experience. Having a variety of both text and photo threads helps. Keep in mind that the majority of the women in photo threads are not selling sex... So who do they go see then? And no, because I post threads that support all women's body types does not mean I am excluded from being able to enjoy and post photographs of nice asses, breasts and redheads. This point makes zero sense. In fact, because I support and enjoy all healthy women's body types, means that there is just that much more beautiful erotic photography that I will be able to enjoy and share. :)

CERB's very own east coast hottie, MsManda! :biggrin: A beautiful lady, with a beautiful bum! Yummy! :cooter:

The lovely and amazing, Cleo Catra! Best. Boobies. Ever. In the history of tits. ;)

I think the Gia & Gabby album is quite lovely (and very sexy!), with some very artistic shots. I like this one in particular... Those are some nice bums!!! :cooter: Yum!

Wow! Congrats Nicki! :biggrin:

Welcome to CERB! :biggrin: Have fun & Enjoy! xo

It sounds like this topic has been debated before, but that must have been a while ago, because I do not remember it, so I assume other new members don't either. Thence, I will insert my own ideas on the subject, since I am an active participant on some of the photo threads. It also seems there is two completely different things people are talking about here. One is picture threads of mostly public models (Nice Bums, Redheads, Beautiful Lingerie, I Love Boobies, etc). And the second is specific SP service recommendations. (Best BJ, etc). As someone who appreciates beauty in others, I very much enjoy the picture threads. I have contributed to them, and I enjoy looking at beautiful pictures of lovely women. If you look through them, there is a wide variety of pictures posted, and I even notice that some members go out of their way to post unique pictures that aren't you're daily run of the mill "model type". Some larger women, different ethnicities, average housewives, and all sorts of others etc. I encourage others to also contribute more unique and different pictures. Those photo threads can be used to our advantage too. The new Hot Guys thread is a good comparison. Which members do we like better... the ones who participate, have fun with it, and can appreciate a handsome man... (or even just ignore it, if they don't care for looking at dudes)... or the ones who sit back with their arms crossed, feeling ugly and fat, and text me commenting how I shouldn't make my clients feel inadequate by posting good looking men? Aww poor baby. I'll take the first, thanks. Second, CERB's entire existence is based on recommendations of women who are selling themselves. It's not just some random social networking site. If you decide to put yourself out there, then accept that people are judging you and comparing you to other ladies. It doesn't mean that one is necessarily better than the other, but it IS a marketplace. And most of the things that people judge us on, actually are within our control anyways. When you put yourself in the public eye (and yes, this is public), there are certain things that should be expected, IMO. Considering that there are many places on the internet with rampant negativity, I don't see how recognizing people for their beauty and talents could ever be a bad thing. There are several legit reasons why someone might not be on a random "Best BJ's" list. Maybe they are low-volume or just low-key in general, or they don't openly advertise BBBJ. It's possible that their BJ is just not that memorable. But maybe they are a fucking amazing kisser with the most beautiful softest skin and most hilarious jokes and sense of humour. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. I might be listed on a "Best BJ's" thread, but I will never in a million years be mentioned on a "Best Abs" thread. I'm okay with that. My ex-bf used to nit pick everything I said about other people. Just for an example... One day I'd point out that a friend of ours had a really nice shirt on. My BF would say, "What, you don't like MY shirt choice?". WTF. It drove me crazy, and I found it to show both his insecurities and jealousy. Just because I pointed out positive things about other people, didn't mean he was any less. As for the semantics, I agree that sometimes a few words here and there can indeed make a big difference. But I find it a bit silly that one would be satisfied if the title was "Recommendations for Great Oral" instead of "Best BJ". Men are simple. And that's how I like them. Makes my job easier. :) For the record, I do think cristy had only good intentions in starting this thread.

I agree, cristy! :) I sometimes feel bad because I am more affected by the deaths of animals than people. I love happy stories about animals too, like reunions, or the amazing ways that animals help people heal and make their lives better. I have always had pets in my life, and always will. Right now I have two big affectionate loveable cats, who are very chatty and full of personality. And then of course there is my pooch, who I often post about, Milo! :) He is my best bud and is with me nearly 24/7. Milo and I during morning snuggles: Milo and his big buddy Vincent :biggrin:

Penny and The Quarters - You and me An wonderfully imperfect sweet and lovely little ditty from a lost soul band of the 70s. I prefer the days when music wasn't about perfection in sounds and notes, but rather about feeling the music and emotions.

Yum. :lovers: Additional Comments: Yes! I am definitely on board with Ryan Gosling! Blue Valentine is one of my favourite movies. I love this clip of him singing and playing the ukulele: :) So cute.

Thanks everyone for the mention :) It is indeed one of my favourite pastimes, and I like to think I am perfecting my craft all the time! hehe I also agree that there is lots of ladies who are known for their fabulous oral skills and enjoyment of the art. OttawaK, I also recommend you browse the Oral Lovers Social Group, as they is some awesome and very naughty BJ pics of some of the ladies who have been mentioned on this thread! ;) :bj2: Anyone else who wants an invite, don't be shy! ;)

I feel like some people may have misunderstood my post, or maybe just skipped over it and didn't read it at all. For the record, it's not "rules" or a How-To on pleasing a woman. It's a satire article, in the end making the point that every woman likes something different, and you have to get to know women individually to see what they like, and sometimes even ask them. Thanks. :)

Hello, I love you. :)