I'm married and I have as many female friends (or maybe more) as I do male friends. We share many common interests and I formed these friendships over the years based upon these interests. It might be a good idea to take stock of your interests and put yourself out there to meet new people in conjunction with your interests be they golf, running, working out, reading, music or whatever. Go to where your interests area. I am generally very comfortable around women in all settings and they are comfortable with me it would seem. Be yourself. Be genuine. Be sincere. Life goes on and if you wait for something to happen it never will. I like my women friends (without benefits).