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Wait a minute, I think I've seen a similar product before... :)

"Oh my Cato, she's lovely. Where do you find all these beautiful gems?" Haven't you heard Kennedy? Cato's appreciation of red has become so well known they come to him! ;)

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I'm not sure I'd say it's a direct side-effect, but perhaps can serve as an eye-opener. What I mean is that while there are plenty of people who are naturally and happily monogamous by nature, there are also those who are more inclined and suited to a non-monogamous (or monogam-ish) lifestyle. I'd say it's similar to how different people have different sexual orientations. It might be that seeing escorts is what has made you realize monogamy may not be for you (as opposed to it being the cause of it). I'd argue a non-monogomous person can still have a meaningful and deeply loving relationship. It's just that more challenging because for the most part people and society are not approving of non-monogamous lifestyles. The truly unfortunate thing, I think, is that too often people only find out monogamy isn't for them when it's too late.

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Hmm..I suspect I would have enjoyed the teenage mutant ninja turtles reboot more if they'd gone in this direction...

Interesting stats. I was a little surprised at how low the % was how many report always using a condom, but I wonder if that includes oral or hand-only encounters. I'd also like to ask that sex-buyer who thinks it should be illegal what their reasoning is!

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There's several threads (including one in the recommendations section) about her, all positive.

Interesting, I didn't realize that at 35 I'm apparently on the younger side (according to the results so far at least). Hopefully means I have many years of happy hobbying left to enjoy! :)

I also don't have any real life experience with female condoms so can only speak hypothetically but... Though I can see the upsides that some have mentioned (specifically in regards to threesomes) I can think of another downside that would generally make me at least reluctant to go this route: during an encounter I like to be able to go back and forth between going down on a lady and intercourse. From what others are saying, it doesn't sound like DATY would be all that practical once the female condom was in.

After some easy texting back and forth (her preferred method of communication) I had the good fortune to meet Ava Adore. Though I had high expectations after our chat she still easily exceeded them. She's easy to talk with, beautiful, and offers an unrushed experience in which she is eager to please. Her location is also clean and quiet, comfortable on the inside, and I had no concerns making my way to her door. As always, YMMV, but I'm confident anyone who treats her right will consider themselves lucky to have had the opportunity to spend time with her. I definitely look forward to the day I can repeat the experience.

In all honesty I've always felt the "nice guys finish last" idea is a myth, or as others have suggested some of those guys who say they're nice aren't using the same interpretation of the word as the ladies would! There's some confirmation bias going on here too. People get the idea that nice guys don't fare well and when they look around (or check their own experience) they find an example of where that seemingly was true. Suddenly the evidence seems everywhere...if that's the evidence you're looking for! But objectively if you look around there's all kinds of nice guys in happy relationships, just like there's all kinds of not-so-nice guys striking out. Sometimes I think it seems like the "bad boys" are getting more dates not because they are bad but because they are more confident and so willing to ask for a date (and also because they get dumped more often and so end up asking more people...whereas the nice guy get held onto). Being nice--as in being genuinely nice and respectful--is generally only going to help. Being nice because you think it will get you something...not so much. I'd also guess that being nice by itself...without being interesting or confident, is only going to get you so far. And perhaps that's what some guys find change when they adjust how they act: it's not that they aren't still nice, it's just that they are more confident and independent. But hey, at the end of the day you also simply can't come up with rules for what all women want. Women--People--are simply too complex and varied for such. You just have to look around this site to see the range of variety in what people find interesting, engaging, and attractive. No judgments intended in any of this by the way, just some thoughts.

Tracie (MidniteMassage) comes to mind as a lady who enjoys kissing and knows how to make sure you do too! I also recall SweetSierra being a great kisser while breaking the ice, which was nice as she was the first SP I saw and I was quite nervous. :) YMMV of course.

Geez. So you've got a guy who is: A) going to make a big deal over 10 bucks and B) insult a lady they were clearly interested enough in to carefully read their ad. Now when I do that math it seems to me that A + B equals a gent that shouldn't be in this hobby! (or probably talking to women at all for that matter.)