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Brad

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  1. I had the opportunity to meet Elle (her Cerb account is under 'Ella') and it was a terrific experience, start to end. Communication and setting up the appointment ahead of time was easy. Her location is also conveniently located and clean. In person Ella is fun to talk with, very accommodating, and somehow even more attractive than her pictures depict (think Jennifer Lawrence...but sexier!). The rest of the details are mine, but it was an experience I'm not likely to forget any time soon. Elle likes to travel and is only in town for a while, but hopefully her journeys will bring her back to Halifax again in the future.
  2. Interestingly, the poll has stayed pretty even so far. Although I guess that actually works out quite well for everyone! :)
  3. Il Re's recent thread on massage porn (and the rather titillating responses!) got me wondering: if you had to choose do you prefer to give a massage or receive one? And either way what do you most enjoy about it? Now I'm sure we all like both, but I'm curious how many people can pick one or the other; which has the edge? For me, it's close but I think I prefer being the person giving the massage. I can't even say it's entirely selfless; I just really enjoy slowly touching and exploring a lady, especially when it's clearly relaxing or exciting her (funny how it can be either!). It can also be a good way to begin to find some out of the way spots on a particular woman which are particularly sensitive. Note: Pole results are public; figured it wouldn't hurt to know someone's preference! :)
  4. SuperNerf, I can tell you're asking these questions in good faith and it's commendable that you want to understand the etiquette. As SuiteEscapes mentioned, this is a professional relationship, albeit one like no other. The ladies do a great job of setting up an intimate atmosphere and making you feel special and desired. But you are generally going to put a lady in an extremely awkward position if you ever try to ask for something beyond the established, professional relationship. Is it impossible for an SP and a client to end up something more? No, it's happened, of course. But those exceptions are just that, exceptions, and not something that should be taken as a sign that it's something to pursue. Many, many more happy or promising companionships were ruined than made this way. Besides the awkwardness, it is rude. Why? Well, typically speaking you don't ask someone who does something for their livelihood to provide that service free of charge. Well, these ladies offer time and companionship and intimacy. So, even when you like them and feel a connection (which can be common and not a bad thing in itself!) it would be rude to seek more, as that's essentially trying to get free what they do for a living. Even if your intentions and feelings are sincere, it still puts the lady in a hard spot, which you of course wouldn't want to do. And it isn't going to help that the bulk of the previous guys who already tried to pursue time off the clock may have been doing so for not-so-genuine reasons! In short, just as a lady finds it awkward and a turn-off when a client negotiates, has bad hygiene, or doesn't follow instructions, they are also going to feel awkward when placed in a position where a client is asking for the relationship between them to be something other than what is agreed upon and understood. She wants to go about this business without that worry. I hope that helps.
  5. Always nice when a lady is willing to make suggestions. Not only do I think it makes for a better time for everyone, but when the lady is engaging in this way and sharing her thoughts or offering ideas, it tells me she's really engaged in the encounter and not just passing time. Obviously the tone and expression makes a difference. Suggestions don't have to sound like criticisms, they can be fun playful and teasing, or at least encouraging and eager.
  6. You're preaching to the converted, I think. No one here is arguing that it actually is progressive or makes sense; TheRiddlerMan was just correctly pointing out that the Nordic model was created and generally supported by groups and countries that are considered liberal progressive. I agree with 90% of the politics and ideals of such countries, but clearly no one gets things 100% right! But it's truth the nordic model is supported by at least as many self-identified liberals as conservatives. Pointing out it's a flawed model doesn't change that unfortunately. Personally, I think Trudeau and the liberals would generally make a better bill than the one currently proposed (I don't think they would have included the ridiculous clause about advertising), and I hope your prediction that Harper gets ousted turns out to be true, but I certainly wouldn't count on the liberals backing full decriminalization or spearheading a bill overly friendly to johns.
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