Brad

Haven't tried it with an SP but I'll admit to me the idea sounds like it could be fun, and I'll try anything twice! Of course at the end of the day it's all personal preference and what works for each person. Speaking for myself, I can say having porn playing isn't going to take away my attention from the lady but, when in a certain mood, could enhance it. I used to have a girlfriend who quite enjoyed watching porn together. For us, it didn't distract from each other at all but was a fun naughty activity to do together. In my experience watching porn with a lady who also enjoys doing so is not the same as doing it alone. With a certain attitude, porn can be just another accessory like lingerie, music, toys, candles or blindfolds that accentuate and add to an experience. So yeah, I like the idea but can also understand why it wouldn't be everyone's cup of tea. I think Miss Jessica Lee's suggestion of stating you have it as an option is probably the best way to go. That way those who like the idea will know it's OK to ask; but you won't awkwardly surprise anyone that isn't into it.

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Can you get tired of compliments? I know when I'm with or just corresponding with a lady, I tend to drop compliments. They are always meant sincerely, and while sometimes I try to think of either a wording or an area that may perhaps be a unique compliment, I'm sure some I make are something the lady has heard numerously. But I can't help it! :) So yeah, I'm wondering if there's compliments you receive or feature you have that tends to receive praise that inwardly makes you roll your eyes or sigh, to hear the same thing again and again. Or is a compliment sincerely given always sincerely appreciated and pleasant to hear, even one you've heard many times before?

I don't think I'd agree with you MightyPen (though it feels weird to say those words!) that there's no incentive to commit ahead of time. After all, if you wait till the last minute to extend time there's no guarantee that the lady will say yes. Surely the incentive to booking the time you actually want at the start is the knowledge of what you have, which lets you pace the session accordingly. Obviously at the end of the day it's up to the Lady to run her business as she sees fit, but I'd also have expected extending a two hour encounter a third hour would generally cost the 3 hour rate. I suppose I've always assumed the reason the first hour typically costs the most is because--whether you're seeing someone for an hour or three hours--so much of the preparation/afterwork a lady has to do is still the same. That is, with the first hour you're not just paying for the 60 minutes, but for all the time before and after the lady has to spend due to the session. I figured that would be the main rationale why additional hours tend to be offered at a lower rate?

So I think what we've learned is... Best: Acceptable in a pinch: And this is right out:

While I'm sure politely asking is far from the worst thing a client can do, I can certainly see how it would be annoying to be asked. Think of it from the lady's point of view. You take the time to make your website/ad and put all necessary information in there that you can think of. And then despite doing so people still ask the question. That tells them you either didn't take the time to read their rules or don't believe what they say. Probably not so bad the first or second or fifth time it happens. But I'm sure it gets old fast, and a person gets tired of saying they mean it when they say no. Being put into a position where you have to say no can also be awkward for some people, especially when the question was already answered in the ad. To be fair, I'm sure some ladies don't mind being asked. Personally, I just don't think it's worth the chance at, even unintentionally, offending or annoying someone. While I disagree with your first point I at least understand it and see where you're coming from, but this part doesn't make sense to me at all. I'm sure some people do play around with figures on age and measurements, but you can't seriously equate that to posted rules and restrictions. I mean, using that logic would you also question a lady about her donation amount?

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I'm thinking...no... Hmm... Cat owners know...

I try to be accepting but I'm not sure we want Tolkien's elves on this board: "Hail, Lord Elrond, what is it you are browsing?" "Tis the CERB." "But ye have been on that too long; the forces of Darkness approach!" "Apologies; it is a bad hobbit..."

Wait a minute, are you all saying it is only one syllable?? I've been saying see--erb this whole time! ;)

You, Sir, are awesome. Best wishes to you!

The dungeon??

I like variety, so I my perfect place would be an encounter that combines several. Maybe start off with some sensual and erotic touching in the bath...then move in front of the fireplace and continue to play until we're dried off before moving to the bedroom. Since we're talking perfect, let's pretend the bedroom has a semi-private balcony overlooking the city where we stand on and gaze out as we play. I figure it's so hard to pick just one spot - so why try?! :)

If this thread is dirty talk 101...I'm looking forward to the advance class!

Call me a fan, though it would probably surprise most people that know me. I'm generally more reserved, so can take a bit of time for me to feel comfortable to talk dirty myself. On the flipside, always happy to hear a lady talk...well...not-so ladylike. Naughtiness and confidence are both turn-ons, and talking dirty encapsulates both. Promises of delight...passionate orders...graphic exclamations...please! Of course, like a lot of things some people enjoy, it can depend on mood and comfort, and it's generally better to start light. That is, if the moment I met a lady she started talking hardcore dirty, it could be off-putting. Kind of like how some people enjoy being spanked but it would be a bit odd to start off full throttle the moment someone bends down to take off their shoes. But as things take their course and get revved up, the hotter dirty talk becomes, which in turn makes things more exciting, which...well, it can be a wonderful cycle! You might want to take a peek at the social group on the topic: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=88

Hmm, in a way I could say it also doesn't matter, but I don't think I'd mean it in the same way others have said. For me I don't have a preference between tall or short because I find each very attractive in different ways. I'm on the lean side but quite tall myself, and having a lady that actually comes close to my height is a thrill. There's something nice about not having to hunch over to enjoy a kiss, to wrap your arms around someone and feel them pressing along your whole body, and who wouldn't want a little extra leg to explore? But there's also something I find alluring about shorter ladies as well that I can't quite put my finger on. It's just a different sort of appeal but just as strong. In any event, I wouldn't say height is the prime factor in my attraction. I've found, for me, that whatever a person's body type there is invariably something (or somethings!) appealing and desirable, and each can be so much fun. And at the end of the day there's no one thing that makes a person more attractive and sexy than the right attitude (though I'm shallow enough to admit that I don't mind if that good personality happens to be matched by nice breasts... :redface:).

I think it's perfectly fine if $5 or $10 bucks does mean a lot to a person, and that this hobby should not just be for the wealthy. A lot of folks have to spend a fair bit of time saving up for the pleasure of an encounter. But, while it's OK to be in a situation where each dollar matters, it simply makes a lot more sense to have the exact change arranged ahead of time, rather than putting the onus on the lady and assuming she'll be able to provide it, and deal with the potential awkwardness of that conversation. I mean, I certainly understand that not everyone has the same level of disposable income, but I'd just hate to turn the friendly hug goodbye moment into a situation where the lady is digging through her couch cushions trying to find a few more quarters. :)

"Bottom" line, eh? ;)

Oh man, I ask for change all the time... Can you help me change out of my clothes... Shall we change positions... Should I change my technique... In fact, the best encounters leave me a very changed man, indeed! Er...but no, I haven't asked anyone if could change a twenty.