Brad

Just adding to the consensus here. I'm thrilled when kissing and cuddling take place, and it can make an already stupendous encounter stupendoser (I'm declaring that a word!). But I also respect and understand that it isn't always offered, even with GFE.

Hmm, for adventure how about the Grand Canyon Skywalk: For something a bit more romantic, a forest glade with a waterfall:

I always loved fall...

It's always bugged me that traditionally women are to be "protected" from sex whereas with men it's encouraged. Specifically, the stereotype of the father who protects his daughter like she's a forbidden treasure not to be spoiled but would high-five his son for his "conquests". I mean, just think how many or how many times it's the plot of a sitcom? It's pretty ingrained in most cultures. Obviously I'm not saying parents don't need to be somewhat wary or protective at all, just that there seems to be a double standard. Anyway, I thought this article on one father's perspective was very refreshing: http://goodmenproject.com/ethics-values/brand-dear-daughter-i-hope-you-have-awesome-sex/

Love the lighting in this one too.

More Leanna Vamp!

Leanna Vamp:

I've never had the nerve to do it, but I've always thought it would be fun to get some random business cards made up with quick phrases like "you've got an awesome style", "this is to inform you your laugh is great", "the bearer of this card is one nice person". I figure I'd just keep them on me and give them out randomly to people if I happen to spot them doing something nice, get good customer service, notice they've got an original outfit that works for them, etc. Just hand it to the person, smile, and walk on. In my mind this kind of thing would give someone a smile (I'd know I'd love to randomly receive one) and since I'd be halfway down the street by the time they finish reading it there'd be no worries they'd think I was just hitting on them or something.

"Is it better to give than receive?" That is a tricky question...which is probably why my favourite position is 69. :) Generally though, I'd agree with you that I often have more fun with the giving. I can't even claim I'm being altruistic, it's just such a turn on and so satisfying to give pleasure. Of course, there's also not much hotter than a lady who is enthusiastic about giving back and who am I to resist? Actually, don't you find a back and forth/give and take just sort of feeds off itself? It seems to me when you give some pleasure it makes the other person more eager to give some back...which makes me want to return the favour again, and so on in a wonderful cycle. It's like some sort of perpetual motion sex machine! :D

Alexia Jean Grey:

Would I personally run away from a kiss after getting a blowjob? No. But I also understand that people don't have much control over what turns them on--or what turns them off. While I don't avoid post-bj kissing, the taste/texture of my own semen isn't something that I particularly enjoy. But then again, neither is hummus or cooked asparagus. Yet just because I don't enjoy these things doesn't mean I judge or have any issue with those who do or think they're doing something gross. And hey, if my partner happens to like cooked asparagus I could enjoy whipping her up some even if I'm planning on eating something else. I've been happy to notice on this board that there is very little judgement against people over what kinks and turn-ons they may happen to have. Everyone seems to understand that what excites someone isn't something they necessarily choose, and as long as actions are between consenting adults, it's all fair game. So shouldn't this understanding work the other way too, when it comes to turn-offs? If a man or woman doesn't like the idea of tasting their own cum, I'm willing to respect that. It's not something they can necessarily choose to like or dislike, and as with turn-ons to each their own. Now if a person is judgmental about the act that's another story! It's one thing to not participate in a given act yourself (we all have boundaries) but it's another to judge, condemn, or belittle someone else for enjoying it. So to answer the OP's questions, while I'd say your friends have the right not to do this act if they so choose, they have no right to judge or dissuade you from it if you're comfortable or interested. If it doesn't appeal to them, they probably can't help that. What they can help is perpetuating the idea that it's inherently gross or unmanly.

Yup.

Was Tumbler jumping, and in my travels came across a few that seemed like they would fit here:

I don't understand not taking the time to read through a lady's website. Maybe it's just because arranging encounters is a rare treat for me, but I find taking the time to read a ladies posts, explore her website, browse ads, etc. just enhances the thrill of anticipation, not to mention makes it more likely the encounter itself will go smoothly (or at least any bumps will be the fun kind!). As for the website itself, I'm also a fan of more information over less. I especially prefer not having to ask directly about rates. And I find at least some idea of services offered. I like knowing a lady's restrictions so I don't ask and perhaps make an awkward moment where she has to say no. Of course, it should be understand (though sadly probably still necessary to spell out) that all things are ymmv.