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I thought I'd played all the Mario Brother's games, but I'm pretty sure I'd have remembered this...

So at what point does a skirt become a...belt?

A good costume for all you ladies who are so sexy it's dangerous!

Tallguy, I would suggest something along the lines of a simple "OK, thanks so much for the reply and information. Have a good day/night." It's polite and let's you acknowledge their response without leading them on, but also isn't so long that you have to worry you're wasting their time.

So bouncy...I think I sprained my eyes...

babyg, I haven't had the pleasure of a threesome myself so perhaps am not the best to give advice, but I would think some communication ahead of time is important. Make sure everyone is aware of any boundaries that each of you may have. Are both you and your husband comfortable with anything the other person might do with the third, or is there a line not to be crossed? (example: oral is OK but intercourse is off the table). If it's the deed itself you're wondering about, perhaps consider simply taking turns who is the centre of attention. Taking turns with two people focusing their attention on the third should help prevent you from accidentally getting yourselves entangled to the point you need a crowbar to separate everyone...unless of course that's your goal! ;)

It was a little under two years ago that I had my first experience with an SP, and oh boy, was I a nervous noob! I count myself extremely lucky that my first provider was so patient, sexy and skilled. I must have spent months debating the idea of seeing an SP. I couldn't say how many hours I viewed and admired different ads, thinking to myself "should I...shouldn't I...". It's a pity in all my looking around I'd never come across Cerb at the time, as a couple of those beginner threads may have helped me avoid a few mistakes. I'm fairly certain I spent at least an hour crafting my opening message, and even then I left out fairly standard information which I know now is helpful to include. I had researched enough to at least be aware of the etiquette that I was supposed to clearly but discreetly leave the donation in plain site at the beginning of the encounter. I must have made sure a dozen times on the way to her location that I had everything in order, and kept reminding myself to nonchalantly present it like the cool cat I was pretending to be. Well the moment I walked in and saw her every thought went out of my head except how sexy she looked. Which unfortunately meant she eventually had to discreetly ask if I had anything for her... Happily, she made the slip-up no big deal and we quickly moved past it. Her conversation skills were excellent and, knowing it was my first experience with a provider and no doubt sensing my nerves, she guided the conversation smoothly and naturally. And in due time she moved the encounter along towards a place where the details are mine alone. Suffice to say she went above and beyond to make my first experience an entirely enjoyable one down to the genuinely friendly goodbye. I'm fairly certain I also made the faux pas of going over my time, but truly I didn't realize that until after I'd left! While I only rarely have the opportunity to enjoy an encounter with an SP, having done some more reading since then--and with the help of Cerb--I'm lucky enough to be able to say the few experiences I've had since then with other ladies have also all been very positive. But I remain thankful to my first SP, who back when I didn't have much of a clue was kind enough to guide me along and make my introduction such a positive memory.

Like Nippongakki, I find the word fetish can be a bit confusing, as it seems to mean different things to different people. And one person's fetish can be another person's norm. Is an attraction to the "spinner" body type a fetish? Some define fetish as sexual attraction to inanimate objects. Others as an attraction to specific situations, or attraction to a non-genital body part. I suppose a popular definition would be any sexual attraction that is outside the general norm...but then, how do you define "general norm"?! Getting back to the question, we humans love to classify and categorize things, including body types. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, but can complicate things. Personally, I would just say that different people are simply attracted to different body types--in exactly the same way that a person may have a preference for a given hair colour, height range, or particular accent. And just like these other traits such preferences are rarely 100%. That is, an inclination towards one doesn't preclude attraction to others.

You know where Captain America tells Bruce Banner (the Hulk) that now might be a good time to get angry? And Banner replies "that's my secret...I'm always angry!" Well, replace 'angry' with 'horny' and I'd say you've got me. :icon_mrgreen:

So many lovely angles of breasts... Sideboob: Underboob:

Nice work!

Congratulations on a 1000 posts, each one thoughtful, positive, or sexy! Nicely done, and please keep them coming!

Cosplay queen Tanya Tate:

I have to admit, I'm starting to feel relieved that when I go for underwear all I have to do is check to see if the size says "small", "medium" or "large." It seems with women's clothing the sizing rules change with every store! When it comes to bras, I'm just happy I've figured out how to unclasp one. It sounds like trying to ensure you've purchased one that is your proper fit is a full out quest (hmm, maybe that could be Peter Jackson's next project. Or was that Two Towers...?)

Lace, leather, or body wraps... The answer is: YES! :)

"How many is too many" All I can say is I understand the individual words in the above, but the sentence as a whole just doesn't compute for me. :icon_wink: While in reality even a threesome is still on my bucket list, you did ask about our "wildest fantasies" and...well...I have a very very greedy imagination! :sm185: How many could I actually handle it in real life? I'm not sure, but I suspect I'd have a fun time finding out. So come one, cum all! The more the merrier!

I found this way funnier than I probably should have. Just in case you need help with the pun: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Murder_of_Crows

Now that's a super shirt!

Bretton Woods, While the spirit of your point may be valid, I'm not sure it quite applies to this particular discussion, just in that I don't see that it has been limited to "blonde, brunette, and redhead". Several posts, including the original one, have mentioned black hair. Or do you mean because overall there aren't many in the world, that it's Eurocentric to discuss blonde and red hair at all? If so, I still don't see the problem with anyone suggesting that's what they personally find attractive. A person can't consciously help what hair colour they find appealing (now if someone where to go further and say those with a certain hair colour are inherently better people, that's problematic). I mean, I've always found something very hot about people--of any culture--who have dyed or streaked their hair with an interesting colour (purple, pink, etc). And of course that represents approximately zero to one percent of the world's population. :) Anyway, if forced to pick one I guess I'd have to say I tend to find red hair the most striking. But in reality--like most physical features--I usually end up finding every hair colour attractive. It's more the style the lady wears it and how well it suits her that makes it attractive, so I end up changing my choice depending on who I'm admiring. As in most things, yay for variety! As for importance, as Miquelon says, this is all mostly about an initial attraction. At the end of the day personality is going to make all the difference.