Brad

I'm 100% a summer person. If I had my way it would snow lightly for a week around Christmas just for the right holiday mood, and be a balmy 25 degree the rest of the year. I don't *quite* hibernate in the winter, but I definitely have more jump in my step when the hot sun is out.

"Touch it gently, put two fingers inside, if it's wide, use three fingers, make sure it's wet and rub up and down. Yep. That's how you wash a cup."

ChantelSummers captures one of my own favourites above, as I have to say the "dominant and daring sexy police officer" is a personal favourite fantasy. From the "patting down the suspect" to the fun that can be had with handcuffs, it lends itself to all kinds of sexiness. Realizing that there's no point resisting arrest and having to do whatever it takes to get out of "trouble" also sounds fun. And while being in control certainly has its perks, there isn't much hotter than a confident sexy partner taking charge! Just can't say I'm good at the whole exercising my right to remain silent bit.

Mostly I like a natural (or wild) flow through different positions. I find the most memorable sex is when it involved several positions, where I can think back and remember the standing part...the kneeling part...the laying down part...the inverted triple axle part... Getting to explore how each one feels is part of the fun, and is often different with different partners. But if I had to pick one then I can say the emoticon Danielle used in her opening post could have been aimed at me, because nothing will get me going like a 69. It can be either sensual or impassioned depending on the mood, there's just so many wonderful sensations going back and forth, and--especially when the lady is on top--the feeling of so much skin to skin moving against each other is a delight.

I remember those awkward learning days...

I remember when the vaccine first came out a bunch of people were decrying it because they felt taking away a health risk of sex would just lead to young girls (the worry of course was only about girls) having more sex. This of course ignores the fact that young people will have sex regardless of consequences. Ignore the fact that even if a person never has sex until they're married they can still be at risk of HPV because of their partner's history. And ignores the fact that it's crazy to *want* to have std's around as a deterrent! I mean, I don't care how conservative you are, how can you honestly want to someday tell your child you didn't let them get the vaccine because you'd rather they be at risk of cancer than think sex is safer. Anyway, rant over. It's nice to read the vaccine is becoming more common and accepted.

On the plus side, at the rate he's been writing the books you'd have many many years left to live...

It's hard to stop once you get started... Finally, what do you mean bikini "season"? :)

I hope this isn't hijacking, but just want to offer a quick response to Parsborough's comment. I truly don't think any provider can be blamed for adding on the "YMMV" qualification. Indeed, even if that isn't stated, it should probably be assumed. You ask how a hobbyist is supposed to know what to expect, but you have to reverse that and consider that it is more the service provider who doesn't know what to expect from the client. That is, is it fair to expect someone to always deliver on a service irrespective of how good the hygiene, respectfulness, and attitude of the client is? I think when a particular service is advertised the YMMV is in large part pointing out that the above factors can have an effect on what will take place. Plus, while this is a business as you say, we have to recognize that the service being offered isn't quite on the same level as menu from a restaurant. It may just be that on a given day someone isn't feeling comfortable with a particular intimate act and that has to be respected. I'd be happy to discuss further, though maybe we should move to another thread if so. ---- To respond to Danielle's original post, I can only agree with what everyone else has said. Stick to what you're comfortable with. The problem with anyone who tries to get you to change what you offer (or don't offer) is entirely on them.

They're an odd group, but you may want to meet... Ben R. Over Anita Head Dill Doe Ivanna Humpalot Mona Lott Just stay away from Jack Schitt and Tara Dickoff!

I'm sure everyone's heard of the desert island game, where you name the three items you'd want with you if trapped on a desert island (not to be confused with a dessert island...yummy). Anyway, I thought we could play but with a slight twist. Assume you are trapped along with a lady/gent of your choice. Also, rescue is luckily already on the way, but (even luckier) won't show up until the next day. So, now what three items do you want with you? For myself, I think a pitcher of margaritas, a plump soft blanket, and a change of underwear (that last one has nothing to do with the fantasy, I just think it's always a good idea to have a change of underwear when away from home :lol:).

I'm so jealous! I loved my time in Europe and can't wait to get back there. I'm sure no matter what you do you'll have a great experience and you'll come home with a lot of stories and memories. Depending on whether you want to rough it backpack style or leisurely explore (and both are fair option!), have you considered looking into a cruise? There are both northern European and Mediterranean ones. Planning this far in advance you could shop around and probably snag a terrific deal that may make it the least expensive way to get around but one in comfort. Your schedule of course is determined by the ship, but it's an easy way to meet people from all over and quickly explore a lot of cities/countries without having to worry about food or accommodation.

I know the topic is alluring eyes, but sometimes even seeing one is enough...

While I can quite happily go without it, in the right mood dirty talk can be a lot of fun and a big turn on, but only if both people are comfortable with it. For me, it's only enjoyable when it's natural and spurred by passion. I only engage in it if my partner instigates it or indicates they enjoy it. Only then do I feel comfortable enough to join in, knowing I'm not going to ruin the mood or unintentionally make someone uncomfortable. As with most activities, nothing can make me comfortable with something faster than knowing it turns the other person on. An aside to Malika: I'm not sure "I sucks balls at it" is the best phrase to use around here if you want to indicate you're not good at it... :lol:.

Some lovely redhead cosplay...

Christina Hendricks!

Would just like to add my condolences as well. Best wishes to you in a difficult time.

Such a difficult time. Take care and sending good thoughts your way.

Nice thread, Bobby. Cerb is lucky to have Cristy and her many contributions. "On another note, If I came to O town how would I ever live up to all the expectation" Speaking as someone who had very high hopes ahead of meeting you, I can say with certainty you don't have to worry about disappointing! (not to rub it in to you Ottawa gents :icon_wink:)

Let's see if I can tie this in with some things I've learned are important in hobbying: Always make sure you thoroughly brush your teeth: Safety is important: If one thing isn't working, try something else... It's always nice to be happily surprised... It's good to be able to communicate what you want...

As my earlier post was presumably straying off-topic, allow me to make amends by offering up this shot of David Beckham :icon_wink: (edited to fix link)

I know this is a serious topic and perhaps I should post this in the "funniest commercials" thread, but when I saw this on tv today I instantly thought of this thread: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XS1dM6kmCx4

One more (sorry, couldn't help myself... ;))