I think if you met a guy and began a relationship it is unfair to him that u hadn't told him that u are a sp. not in an unclean way but I know if I found out my girl was an sp I would be really hurt. However if He was in the know it gives him the option to decide if he's ok with having a girl friend who --ucks for a living. Me personally I have a girl who is an sp and because I know it's for a living and not pleasure I'm actually more hurt if she were to bang some guy after the bar just for shits to me that's cheating. Hope my opinion helps u.