WildRose

I use Kama Sutra Love Liquid in Tingling Peppermint. I like it because it has just a slight peppermint fragrance and tingle which helps create a very sensual mood. It does not get sticky and wipes off easily, and it doesn't stain (I'm sure most of us have made the mistake of putting an oiled hand on a bedsheet before)! I have gotten lots of compliments from clients on this oil. This was my first time trying it but I think I will buy it again! It comes fragrance free as well, I'm pretty sure, but I like the mintiness. I also like the KY tingling mint 3-in-1 massage oil but I find the tingle can be a little too strong for more sensitive areas.

Thanks for your kind words everyone. :) I am so glad to be back. People like you are the reason I couldn't stay away for long. XOXO

I have quite a few tattoos, a half sleeve among them. However I don't like to show them in my photos, as a measure of identity protection. How do other ladies feel about showing tattoos in photos? To me, it runs in the same vein as showing my face in photos. I am tempted, because I would like people to know what my face and tattoos look like before meeting me, and I understand how important this is to many hobbyists, but I don't want to risk being exposed publicly as an SP (this happened to me once before). Thoughts, anyone?

Thanks Allyson, you are sweet. :) Though you didn't know me before, I hope we might be able to get to know each other now.

Hey there ladies and gents, as you can see I am new to CERB and wanted to say hi and introduce myself! This is not an ad, and I apologize if it's misplaced or long-winded. I just needed to get this out there. Some of you already know me, but by another name... I used to be one of the top providers in Halifax, with many positive reviews and regulars that I adored. I decided to take a break from the scene, and seek out a more traditional career. I guess you could say I couldn't resist, I had to come back to the "work" I know and love! However, while I was trying my hand at the "simple life", apparently someone wasn't too happy about this. They either hacked my old email account or got information from an ex partner, and then twisted their "facts" to compose a malicious and untrue article. This article featured not only my SP name, but also my real name, and pictures of my face (not to mention some nasty lies). It both shocked and hurt me deeply. To this day, I don't know who did it or why they did it. Fortunately, anyone who really knows me and saw it, told me they thought it was utter BS, and even some strangers left comments defending me. It still didn't heal the wound caused by this unprecedented attack on my identity, but I realize there is nothing I can do but move on. I heard of people asking for me for months, wondering where I went, looking for any trace of me. I deleted everything I could related to the old name, and distanced myself as far from that identity as possible. I have nothing to hide or regret from you lovely hobbyists, and if PM'd about it I will tell you what my former name was; I just don't want my identity compromised again. If you know who I am, please do not post publicly about it - this is not a game and you will not win a prize. I need discretion just as much as the average hobbyist. I wanted to be a part of this amazing community once again, and see everyone who has missed me in the past few months, but I needed to protect my identity. So from now on, I will be known as Rose. Thank you for understanding. XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX

Whenever someone asks me if they can see me for free, it's my sign that I should simply move their email to the "Do not respond" list. I had a guy a couple days ago offering to clean my apartment or cook me food in return for sex! Are people getting broker? Or just more cocky?

Trust me... We (or at least I) am feeling the effects of this recent storm of no-shows out East, too. I have had more guys not show up/cancel last minute/book and then not confirm than actual clients lately. :confused: Not trying to start a pity party or anything, but guys, this is our job. Please do not leave us hanging, it could leave us (and our kids, if we have them) hungry, broke, or even homeless. On a lighter note, thanks to all the great guys I have seen who have been respectful and so much fun to visit! You make it easier to look past the negative and enjoy what I do. :boobies:

I am not sure how common it is, but I know that a lot of salons around here offer "color advice", and there is even a store in the local mall which operates mainly on this basis. Basically, you go in and they give you advice on which colors to wear to go with your hair/eye/skin color. Some places (like Colors in the mall) will even give you a small swatch of assorted fabric samples to take with you while shopping so that you can find clothes/makeup in those colors. That said, maybe I am just more of a tomboy but I never put much faith in "professional stylists". I feel like I know what looks good on me and I haven't heard many complaints... hehe.

Aww, thanks "Auntie" Angela! lol. I am having a premonition... In my magic crystal ball, I see myself in Ottawa in the fall! (Hey, it kind of rhymes...:rolleyes:) I agree as well... this is not really what I had in mind when I was reading or replying to this thread. I agree that the nudity does take it to a different level; then it's not really like social time/"first date" anymore (which is what I was picturing). I mean, I have gone on plenty of (personal) dates that didn't necessarily include a lot of kissing, and some with no kissing at all. To me that is the difference between social time and GFE. As the saying goes, "just my two cents". ;)

I can only speak for myself, but I would definitely be interested in a date like this. I consider my GFE very realistic in the sense that I like to be more sensual than sexual. With GFE I feel it is more about the experience than the actions... so my GFE often includes cuddling, kissing, light touching. As for snuggling up under a blanket, watching a movie together, stealing kisses and gentle caresses in between scenes... sounds like a perfect date to me! ;)

HAHA... I don't know, laying hens are pretty useful (mmm... omelettes), and since I don't have a car, I guess the donkey might come in handy. LOL. Then again a 6'0" tall girl might look funny riding a donkey dowtown Halifax... or anywhere for that matter! Also, a little rant... I once had someone (a prospective client) ask for a reduced rate in exchange for him giving me links to free escort advertising websites. Um... they are FREE. Let's just say I said "no thanks" as nicely as possible and haven't heard from him since (fortunately). Such a turn off when guys try to "haggle" with our rates. [/rant].

He has been advertising on CL with great success! He actually gets more inquiries than I do, lol. I guess there IS a need for male SP's in Halifax! Thanks for the thread BCB, it was helpful and insightful. :) XOXO Lacey

He's bi and is planning to offer CHJ, CBJ, and top and bottom fs; and I guess what one would call a "BFE" (Boyfriend Experience?) with more intimate affection. Oh and he's got one of the biggest cocks I've ever seen... 10 long, 7.5 around. Seriously! Lol.

My friend is a male SP just starting up and doesn't know where to advertise. This got me thinking... where is the support and community for male service providers? I think it's great that we ladies have a great place like CERB, but I feel the boys should have a place like it too.

I used to be in an almost opposite situation... I used to be in a long term relationship with a guy who would complain about my voracious sexual appetite. He would actually try to hide his morning wood from me because he preferred to sleep rather than have a little morning romp. Maybe he and Emma's friend's wife have the same screw loose in their head!

If you are looking for a safer way to perform oral (DATY/DATO), try dental dams. They are a rectangular sheet of latex that works like a condom, acting as a barrier between you and the recipient. They are sometimes available in flavors, but can be tricky to find. One way to improvise is to take a regular latex condom, unroll it so it is fully extended, and cut of the tip. Then, cut straight up the side to make a rectangular "sheet". When using either a dental dam or the improvised version, simply drape the piece of latex over the area of choice, and let it lay naturally on the body. Stretching can cause stress on the latex and make it harder for your lucky lady to feel through the barrier. As with condoms, never reuse a dental dam and be careful not to turn it over. Hope this helps :)