I have to agree...I haven't been with many SP's, but I have made the mistake of getting to know a couple on a personal basis...generally speaking it's a huge mistake. Fantasy should be left as is, because most of the time when you see the reality, it's not pretty. Some of them take advantage and begin to make you feel like you're special, you're not just another one of the guys she sees, when they're only looking to advance their own agenda, looking for drugs, a shoulder to cry on when their shit goes sideways etc...by no means do I suggest ALL girls are like that, some are sweet and are just trying to get by while doing this but seem to attract losers at every turn...and since I DID make the mistake of becoming "friends" with a few, I am also quite aware of the stalkers who make the girls lives hard...finding out where they live, outing them to their families etc, even the threat of police being involved with restraining orders or physical violence from someone who could be an extra on Sons of Anarchy doesn't seem to stop them. It's a strange and twisted situation if you look at it from an outsiders position...no wonder so many SP's AND hobbyists are losing interest...myself included.