Julie By Night

Dear Ladies, I was a former member of this site and have been a big supporter of this medium available to us girls trying to make a living. I have recently had a very bad experience with a guy from Thunder Bay, Ontario that really took me for a ride. After a few meetings he wanted more and asked for a relationship. I gave up escorting and went into a "relationship" with this person. He would buy nice gifts and do nice things for me, and then when I didn't want to be with him anymore he became vengeful and spiteful. He is now seeing another escort and I fear for her as well. He tries to buy a girl, but then will try and take the things back he buys for her to "cover expenses" for what he does for you while he is with you. He gave me expensive jewelry and a brand new car, but is now taking it back since I told him I didn't like him enough to be in a relationship. He also gave another escorts number to me, that he has being seeing recently, which totally breaks the escort code of ethics, and got me to call her to prove that he had been sleeping with her!!!. This guy is a real piece of work! You never give a girls number to a scorned gf or wife....he is a rip off artist and a user and will take back things he gives you as gifts. His name is John Zajac, he is a computer geek and is about 6' tall and wears glasses most of the time. He has blonde scruffy hair unless he gets a haircut, and drives a green Grand Prix or a red Camaro, which is the car he paid for services, but is stealing back since I dont want him as a client anymore. Beware of him!!!!!! He lies and will give you expensive gifts to impress you and then try and take them from you if you don't want to be in a relationship! BEWARE!!!!!! He was a virgin until last year and is 46 years old....he has issues and is very unstable....I was the first "girlfriend" he ever had in his whole lifetime. I should of saw the red flags but took a chance. It was the wrong decision. Just be careful and don't let this guy's money fool you. He is a user and abuser. Bless!

Well thanks for all the great advice guys! :idea: I decided that e-mail was the way to go and it was fine. :arrow: I just wanted to add a couple of things here... I do feel that brushing someone off and just avoiding them is definitely not kosher. :? I don't think it is fair to just avoid someone's phone calls until they "get the hint". I like a more straightforward approach so that they can take the time to look for someone else who can meet their needs....as well, I don't want to be known for not returning calls or messages. :confused: One of the things I love about this job is that I can be my own boss and decide who I want to have as a client. I always give someone that first opportunity, to feel them out (no pun intended lol), more or less, and see what they are into :69:, if it's not entirely specified in the initial contact before the meeting. Then I make the choice afterwards whether I am comfortable with seeing them again. This was just the first time this situation had come up for me, so I wanted to hear other opinions. I do, however, still make the meeting a pleasurable one for the client as long as it is something I feel I can handle for the hour. I'm sure if anything too uncomfortable happened I would definitely make it known right there at the time. :p But that's just me! I love hearing all your different points of view! Koodos! Julie :-D

Hi my friends! :smile: I have a dilemma that has come up and I am unsure of what to do about it, so I come to you, my friends so wise , and ask for your suggestions. I have a client I saw that I am not interested in seeing again. The experience was not what I am comfortable with in terms of providing what they are seeking :-?, although I did the entire hour anyway and just decided that I would not make it a repeat. My dilemma is that the client had a really great experience with me (of course ;)), and wants to continue to meet regularly. How do I tell them I am not interested in this without being a bitch or making the client feel bad? :confused: This is a first for me so I am not sure how to handle it delicately and say the right thing. Any help would be greatly appreciated! :lol: All suggestions and related stories are welcome! :idea: As always, Julie :-D

OMG! So sorry! It was an honest mistake! Pardon my ignorance! Well... HE is wise :bowdown:... to correct myself. Doh! :-? Julie

Thanks for all the responses! I think what I said may have been slightly misinterpreted...or at least I didn't word it well... I am always polite and personable when I talk to someone on the phone. I do try and do what you say Mod, and "close the deal" :motion:. I never tell them to "just go and look at my website" and be bitchy and condescending in any way.:ablow: I just prefer to ask more personable questions like "Are you from here?" What kind of experience are you looking for?" "Hasn't the weather been awesome?" "Have any plans for the summer?", etc.:?: But on the other hand, I definitely see where you are coming from Mod :idea:, and others with similar views. It is unreasonable to exepect EVERY person that visits your site to read the whole thing. And I do see how the conversation can be an important part of the experience for some, especially since GFE is my specialty. But that's why the Mod is the Mod...he is wise! :bowdown: So please don't think I am dissing all you people who ask questions...that's why I like to be a part of this community...to hear both sides of the story...that's what makes this a great place to be! :-D Julie PS . Thanks for the nomination! :mrgreen:

Hey all! :smile: Just needed to get something off my chest here! :boobies: I have been receiving lots of phone calls and messages from people who have been asking things like "What services do you provide?" "What are your rates?" "Do you do in-calls?", etc...:confused: Please people...I'm begging you.... :???: please take the time to read the info you find before contacting someone... I get contacts that I know can only find me online because I don't advertise anywhere else, and then they begin bombarding me with a ton of questions that I know they can find the answers to right in front of them. :idea: I have had two hang-ups even, because I start to tell these folks to look at my site for the info, because I prefer to not talk too much business over the phone...guess a girl with a brain intimidates some people lol! :lol: I do understand that CERB has limited information on profiles...but bless them for giving us this place to be able to talk about things like this and keep some decorum in the profession! But I do have links to my website all over the place and it is easy to find. I really would like it if you could look over more then just the photos and then call or message me. If there is something you would like to know about me that isn't posted on the site , by all means go ahead and ask! I don't bite...unless asked! :-D But almost everything you would need to make a well informed decision is there for you to see, and then the finer details can be worked out when contact is made. Don't get me wrong...I enjoy the conversations I have with the people who contact me. :motion: But I would rather spend the time talking about other things that would make the meeting we have even better. So, anyway, that's pretty much all I have to say about that! :-P Any feedback is appreciated as well! Thanks all! :eek: Julie

8)Thanks for starting the thread!8) For myself, I noticed I was getting calls at 3 and 4 AM which made me revamp my website to show my hours from 12 PM - 12 AM. I have found if you give someone a time reference to work with they are more apt to make an appointment far enough in advance to be sufficient. I also state on my site that I will take calls on short notice, if possible, but no guarantees. I do get requests from certain gentlemen for this and try to accomodate the best I can...but there are some times when I do need to deal with everyday life and it just isn't possible. Appointments in advance are definitely a preference for sure, but short notice always depends on the day....:???: Julie :wink:

I know that there is one commercial that stands out in my mind...the diaper commercial I've seen a thousand times lol! :shock: It's the one where the guy goes in the bedroom to change the baby boy and when he goes to take the diaper off the little one pees everywhere like a fire hose! He lets out a giggle and a squeal that everytime I hear it I look up from what I'm doing lol! :-D I do believe that advertisers are changing their strategies to attract consumers. With all the PCs, laptops, ipods, and other forms of media capabilities, to use sound as a form of marketing would be a brilliant move on their part. :idea: As well, I sometimes sleep with the TV on, so what better way to subliminally put something in your head then in your most relaxed state? But I'm sure the FCC would not allow any form of subliminal marketing...although I do recall a story I heard about how shopping areas like the grocery store and big department stores are using certain kinds of music in their businesses that seem to "encourage" consumers to make purchases...has anyone else heard this? Anyway, I know whatever it is they are doing it seems to be working! :-P Julie www.juliebynight.escort-site.com

Thanks all for the replies! It's been insightful! :lol: I actually only use online ads and even though I am in a very small town I seem to get enough calls to keep me happy. I think personally I prefer to not advertise in the paper and stick to online. At least it gives the person a better chance to see what they are getting and make a more informed decision. But that's just me! To each their own! I was just curious how others felt about it and what worked for them. Thanks MOD for the info btw! Always nice when the powers that be join in the conversation. I like how you stay involved! Koodos! Julie 807-472-9900 if in the Thunder Bay Area!

Hello fellow Cerbians! :-P I have been curious lately about the whole advertising thing. I wanted to know what guys prefer along the lines of hiring an SP. I currently only advertise online here and on my website, but know that there are many who place ads in the newspaper to attract business. Being in a small town I was thinking advertising in the paper would draw more local residents to my services...but really I prefer more out of town clients due to the fact that this place is so small and I wouldn't want to run into them everywhere lol! :boobeyes: I do have a few local clients that are regulars and I enjoy my time with them, and they all found me online. I also would like to hear from you guys about how much communication you like. When finding people in the paper it seems to me it is much less "personal" and you are taking more of a chance in who you are getting. There are no photos or any info on the person so you are basically getting a surprise at the door...not to say the surprise isn't good, :grin: all you beautiful ladies who advertise that way lol! So gents let me know a bit about your experiences with seeking an SP and ladies I'd love to hear about your experiences with both mediums of marketing lol! Thanks all!:bddog: Julie 807-472-9900 if in the Thunder Bay area! :wink:

I loooooove the spring...the anticipation of all the awesome summer days to come...I live for summer! Just some quotes to get everyone in the Spring mood! Enjoy! The first day of spring was once the time for taking the young virgins into the fields, there in dalliance to set an example in fertility for nature to follow. Now we just set the clocks an hour ahead and change the oil in the crankcase. .E.B. White, "Hot Weather," One Man's Meat, 1944 The naked earth is warm with Spring, And with green grass and bursting trees Leans to the sun's kiss glorying, And quivers in the sunny breeze. .Julian Grenfell <............thats's HOT!:-P Spring is nature's way of saying, "Let's party!" .Robin Williams It's spring fever. That is what the name of it is. And when you've got it, you want - oh, you don't quite know what it is you do want, but it just fairly makes your heart ache, you want it so! .Mark Twain Spring is when you feel like whistling even with a shoe full of slush. .Doug Larson Spring is sooner recognized by plants than by men. .Chinese Proverb April hath put a spirit of youth in everything. .William Shakespeare Yesterday the twig was brown and bare; To-day the glint of green is there; Tomorrow will be leaflets spare; I know no thing so wondrous fair, No miracle so strangely rare. I wonder what will next be there! .L.H. Bailey Julie :grin:

This was a great question to throw out there! :-D I have been wondering the same thing...I use the Intuition razor but it can be awkward trying to maneuver lol because it has the soapy thing around the blade...it does give a close shave but i touch up with a regular four blade razor afterwards. Any suggestions on how to reduce those damn bumps though? Drives me nuts lol!:-x Julie :p

Hey everyone! Just getting the word out that I am now taking bookings! I see all the posts for people looking in Thunder Bay and the services are slim! I also see that my GF SaraMQ says we need to get T'Bay on the map so I'll do my best to help out lol! I have my website up and running with photos coming soon! Check me out at http://www.juliebynight.escort-site.com and find out a little more about me. Hope to make some great contacts! Chowda! :lol:

:motion:Happy St. Paddy's Day! Have a great one all!

Hello all! Was just looking through a bunch of posts on here and saw some really interesting and useful info on this industry. I really enjoy reading what the hobbiests have to say about the SPs and what they like or dislike about their experiences. It really gives me insight into what I can do to make the experience that much better for them (not that it wouldn't already be awesome lol). I am definately a pleaser and it really makes my job easier when I know what the hobbiest expects ahead of time. I also like the way that CERB takes the time to question SPs and hobbiests alike about certain topics they feel are important to the industry to get a better understanding of what we both need and want. Its great to have that kind of support. Anyway I just wanted to let everyone know I am here in Thunder Bay and am looking forward to meeting some great people and having some good times. I am a very sensual, educated, and humerous person which I think is a great combo of attributes to have lol. As I said before I am a pleaser so I am always up for the GFE although not limited to that if that's not your thing. I'm sure prior to booking a meeting we will have worked out any details. I look forward to making your time with me a memorable as possible and will add posts as I get everything situated on my website, etc....till next time...keep 'em cummin! :-D